We were just friends before he left for his masters in the U.S. Last year, he told me he's ready to "wife me" and we started dating, talking on the phone, skype and so on. I am comfortable with all his plans but one thing i do not know is if he is sincere to me. On instagram he posts pictures of him clubbing and there is this particular girl he's always with, even when he claims he's in another city, the girl is still there with him. He told me he's single and just concentrating on his studies but I am beginning to doubt him. I am jealous because the pictures show intimacy, like hugging, peek, sitting on his laps. I am thinking I should move on but wouldn't want to loose him due to my own naive thinking. Guys please advise.

Hmmm, that isn't a solid proof to really tell if he's cheating or not.

Toaster: Babe pls I will like to be part of ur life
Girl: Sorry am engaged
Toaster: serious!
Girl: yes
Toaster: but I have seen you with any guy before
Girl: My fiancé is in US.

Waiting for someone who has no plan for you.

Face the truth, he is sleeping with her.

hmmmm... my dear that's how it starts o long distant relationships don't really work out, even with all the calls, texts,Skype, Viber etc. but don't move on yet, rather talk to him about it, n watch n study how he behaves. ask him who she is.

that's how some men r. once they travel out there, their hormones go on overdrive! but u myt be lucky he myt not be cheating.

He is not cheating on you, he is only enjoying his life and you too can do same here and upload the pics for him to view.

Is he cheating? I can't say coz only him can answer the question genuinely but what I know is that, he kept U here in Nigeria so that anytime he is home, u'll be there and the other lady too is there so that he'll have a lady that'll be there for him over there .
Please don't mind all my "there" , just that if U ar convinced he's cheating which it's likely, get ur facts and priorities right, then do better things with ur life instead of wasting ur time and love on someone who's far from U physically and emotionally.

I'll ask him for you when I see him

Just let him know how u feel n follow ya heart!

ƔU̶̲̥̅̊ wn mak dem talk say yu mary Americana. Girl ur name na sorii beta fine good man and change d ideal of long distance relationship. Time I̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ life

Talk to him first. Ask about the girl. In a subtle manner of course........

Wait make I ask IFA...

Believing otherwise would be naivety.

Tins to consider:

1. Does he hav a low libido or is he nerdish in a way?

2. Does he hav a high libido or does he love sex a lot?

If he's a nerd, worry not, he's teaching and not teaching. But if he has a high libido and loves sex, sori, my guy day wire wella for yankee.

@op, Your life and happiness is in your hands.