Goodmor all. Please advise me wisely is my first time to experience a hrt break.

Today mark 1 year I meet my (baby) as I fondly called her. I am a young guy still trying to stand on my feet, a graduate and currently doing my second degree. She is a third year student part-time. We both love each other so much that we can't stay without each other. We share everything in common. I have spend my time, energy and resource on her cus I felt am going to end up with her. Our parents are aware of our relationship except her brother. Just December last year, four suitors came to marry her and she don't like any other but me. Her family and friends keep mounting pressure on her to get married now they are coming. Just 2days ago she accepted the proposal of one of the suitors under due rest.

I prayed for her, bless her and advise her as a friend. But my mind can't just let go even though the traditional right we take place next month.

Please advise me on what to do is my first time to experience this. She still love me and have been in my house for the past four day.

Whether we like it or not bro, its always the woman's decision at the end. If she truly love you, she will not succumb to pressure. I hate hearing this kind of stories, for real.................it gets me upset

If i get all this, then it means you are not financially bouyant to get married. Right.

I know someone who went thru the same thing and regrets it. Tell her about the future you see for you both and tell her not to marry the guy. Does she even KNOW this guy? Fight for her hand if you truly love her. If she insists, then you have to move on and don't look back.

you didnt do the needful..

Eberex:
Whether we like it or not bro, its always the woman's decision at the end. If she truly love you, she will not succumb to pressure. I hate hearing this kind of stories, for real.................it gets me upset

thanks Bro...its her decision

Just enjøy the last Sex brø...

All z well

Bro, forget that duress nonsense. She chose to marry that guy. If she had said no, would her parents have bundled her off to the man's house? It was her decision.

She is not worth your emotions man. Look elsewhere for a truly loyal woman.

she still luvs u my foot!!!

she has placed her desperacy for marriage ahead of u guys luv...free her abeg, God go provide ur own.

give her belle

Eberex:
Whether we like it or not bro, its always the woman's decision at the end. If she truly love you, she will not succumb to pressure. I hate hearing this kind of stories, for real.................it gets me upset

crap... So she should remain when it's not certain that op will marry her? Op just go make money. That's all I have for you.

Gehz never finish nah ...On d day of the Traditional Marriage ...dress Up ..go and Chop Jellof rice , abacha , efo , egusi ..everytin ....if she really loved u ..she wuld ve waited for u

Some women are dogz, they don't even know what they like.


@OP, I think she was using you to pass time. Having s3X with you for the past 4days is just to console you that's all.

Good for her,one day u will come up with a reason to dump her for another girl,let her go dear,years to come u will ask urself; what? did i even really saw in that girl in the first place.she will be looking older than her own mom then.

Baba alaye abeg leave her alone if she really want to marry u she go resist all pressure and wait for u