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7 Kinds Of Guys You Shouldn't Date....maka Ndu Gi by Smartwizy(m): 8:51am On Nov 09, 2014
1..They guy who doesn’t care about personal hygiene-

I’ve seen that some women are okay with this but it
would be a big no-no for me. You don’t have to dress
up fancy but a good scrub is
always appreciated in my opinion. You don’t want
people pegging their nose when you’re out with him,
do you?

2,..The guy with an overbearing mother –

When you date someone, you should really look into
their
family as well, because if things go really well, they
might become your in-laws. I would suggest to never
date someone with an overbearing
mother as she will make your shared life with her son a lot harder than you can ever imagine for it to be.

3...The guy who brags –

It’s more than encouraged
to share your success with those close to you but avoid
(like you would Ebola) guys who brag about their job,
the money they make, their car and etc. You will get
annoyed after a while and someone
who constantly is constantly showing off is never appealing.

4...The guy who texts you… late at night –

He might be cute as hell, smoother than a baby’s
bottom and have abs that you could grate any type of
cheese on. But if he is only calling you late at night to
“hang out”, then you know this relationship won’t
last longer than his texts to
you.

5...The egoistic guy

– You’ll never hear the end of
just how smart this dude is. If
you ask him a question about himself, he will be more
than
happy to answer but he won’t care as much about
asking you how your day went. It’s all about him, so do an Elsa and ‘let it go.’

6..The broken-hearted dude –

At first you might find his vulnerability endearing but
after a while you’re more than likely to get exhausted
from it. Guys who are broken and can’t seem to move
forward
from their past will require a lot of effort and understanding from you. In the end, you might not be
successful at fixing his broken heart.

7..The “young at heart” guy –

He’s 30 but behaves like he is still 21. In the beginning
it will all be fun and games but then you will eventually
grow tired
of it. It’s nice dating someone who is mature and fully
aware of what they want to achieve in life.
Re: 7 Kinds Of Guys You Shouldn't Date....maka Ndu Gi by Nobody: 9:04am On Nov 09, 2014
true smiley I need my pen n jotter

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Re: 7 Kinds Of Guys You Shouldn't Date....maka Ndu Gi by Tapout(m): 9:12am On Nov 09, 2014
lol...ur topic tho grin

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Re: 7 Kinds Of Guys You Shouldn't Date....maka Ndu Gi by iceberylin(m): 9:30am On Nov 09, 2014
Incase wink

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Re: 7 Kinds Of Guys You Shouldn't Date....maka Ndu Gi by FLAWLES(f): 10:10am On Nov 09, 2014
TRUE sha,bt NO4 tho,,,,,,,ion lyk guys with Abs.

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Re: 7 Kinds Of Guys You Shouldn't Date....maka Ndu Gi by Mutuwa(m): 10:18am On Nov 09, 2014
5 Types of girls guys should avoid.. grin

Spoiled Brats Spoiled brats make bad dating options because of their unrealistic expectations and unwillingness to acknowledge their flaws. If you decide to date a spoiled brat, you should expect to do a lot of work without getting any credit for it. This is because spoiled brats truly believe other people should serve them all the time. This makes spoiled brats both difficult and frustrating to date. If you're wondering ifa girl you're interested in is a spoiled brat, look for these signs:

She expects you to do all of the work in the relationship
She blames you for her problems
She frequently complains and nags
She bosses you around

Spoiled brats just don't care about the needs of other people making them fundamentally poor dating choices. Relationships require a lot of work,so it's best to start one with a girl willing to pull her own weight.

2. Players Players will charm,seduce, and even date you,but they'll never start a real relationship with you. They're bad to date because they jump from guy to guy and don't offer any real long term potential. Plus, they don'tcarea bout your emotions and will toy with you without a second thought. It can be difficult to identify players because they can be very good at fooling guys. If you're having trouble figuring out if a girl is a player,look for the following:

She flirts with every guy she meets
She doesn't give straight answers when asked about her dating history
She sends you mixed messages
She is charismatic and very good looking
She doesn't always respond to your calls/texts

If she's flirting with you and trying to get your attention, don't fool yourself. You're no different from all of the other guys she has tricked in the past. Instead of trying to datea player,do yourself a favor and find a girl who will stick around for longer.

3. Party Girls Party girls aren't any good to date because they just love partying too much. If you aren't much ofa party guy yourself,this can cause some problems down the road. To help you identify a party girl,here are a few things to look out for:

She goes out every weekend night Her stories usually start with: "One night, I got so drunk that I..." She's frequently hung over She's well acquainted with bartenders, bouncers,and promoters in town

If a girl you're interested in spends all of her time going to bars and clubs, you better be prepared to deal with the side effects of her lifestyle. Party girls can make poor choices while intoxicated which can devastate even the strongest relationships. Imagine a girl you're dating gets all prettied up, and spends a night on the town with some friends. She may dress provocatively and will be in places filled with hungry and Hot men. Adding alcohol into the equation only makes things worse. Do you really want to deal with the possibility of your girl friend making poor choices every single weekend? If you can't keep up with her lifestyle, it's best to just pass her up.

4. Gold Diggers Gold diggers will go to great lengths to find and date men with money. This is a problem because they want to live a life ofluxury without having to work for it. Gold diggers are usually very shallow and value money and material possessions more than anything else. This is obviously a problem because money isn't the most important thing in the world. If you end up with a girl that is only concerned about the money you make, you're relationship will bevery shallow and meaningless. If you aren't sure if a girl you're interested in is a gold digger, tryto identify these tell tale signs.

She expects you to pay for everything She's very disappointed when you don't spend money on her She pursues you more aggressively than you pursue her She is obsessed with living a lavish lifestyle but can't afford it She is shallow and materialistic

If you have a high paying job, come from a wealthy family, or are projected to earn big when you finish school,be wary of girls that have a much stronger interest in you after learning about your financial situation. Gold diggers are only interested in themselves and will stop and nothing to get what they want. They'll end up costing you money, but that's not all. You'll miss out on having real relationships girls that are interested in more than what is in your bank account.

5. Psychos If you decide to datea psycho,you better be prepared for some veryserious challenges. Psycho girls are characterized by being insecure,controlling, manipulative, and needy. Like the many other types of girls on this list,psychos are very selfishly motivated. If that isn't bad enough,they're the most difficult type of girl to break up with. If you start a serious relationship with a psycho and she becomes dependent on you,breaking up with her will take more than just a talk. She'll kick and scream to the very end and might even make threats against you or herself. This is where things can get really dangerous for your emotional and physical well being. If you're uncertain how to identify a psycho, here's a quick list of things to look for:

Calls or texts you constantlyto see what you're doing Discourages you to hang out with your friends, especially other girls Never seems to trust you Cries or throws tantrums to get her way Emotionally unstable

Dating a psycho is a surefire way to make your life a living hell. Even if thesexis good, it comes at a very high price. You'll feel like you're on a leash and won'thaveenough space and freedom in your life. If a girl you're dating start sexhibiting typical behaviors of a psycho, you might want to consider breaking things off sooner rather than later. If you let her act like a psycho for too long, things will only get worse.

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