True love they say endures though thick and thin and storms of life. What happens if that partner of urs whom you treasure heartily and want to spend ur dreams and aspirations with and evn the rest of ur life as well, suddenly walks up to you one day and tells you he/she is HIV postive. What on earth are you going to do. Does it mean the race is over or ur love can still endure it evn as sad as the tale is? I just wonder cos I av seen people marrying HIV positive patients and are having a fulfilling marital life with HIV free children without considering hw the person got it either through "legal means" i.e. by blood transfusion and the likes, or by "illegal means" which is through Sex.

All the same I wonder why people cannot just follow the ABC (Abstinence, Be Faithful, Condomise) rule and remain HIV free rather than causing others pain and heartache including themselves.

Lie lie

Dnt mind him sweetie, he will never cease to be jealous of you.

@ Yicob answer the question and stop deviating.

first the other person should get tested, and if +, then too bad there is nothing much to do than to just be with the person till they both die.

PIZARO26:

@25%more, let us go for this test together because i have started thinking of getting married to u ok, 08056411873 holla at me

na lie i no follow u go abegi o , i'm very clean , go at ur risk jare

Gbammmmmmm Ooooops. That's rather too much.

@ PIZARO26, Really sorry abt that.

@ poster
if your partner is HIV positive, shoot him.but first be sure the gun has at least ten bullets.download all into his fucking brain so that he does not re-incarnate.then go jump into the lagooooooooooooooooooooon

Oh my goshhh That's too mean. You dnt av to get to that extent now.

Kini big deal . . .

HIV ain't the end of the world . . .we would go register her with the General Hospital where she can begin her ARV treatment.

Life will go on quietly and its gonna be our little secret. . . .gbam

Nautillus:

Kini big deal . . .

HIV ain't the end of the world . . .we would go register her with the General Hospital where she can begin her ARV treatment.

Life will go on quietly and its going to be our little secret. . . .gbam

That's exactly what I've been wanting to hear. Very good. Upon all the adverts and publicity, people are still dricriminating them. O ma se o.

@ Easybaby, easy now. Haba. This doesn't call for war. Shuo.

If he's positive and I'm not, believe me I'm out of the relationship. And vice versa. I'm not being mean, I'm just speaking my mind

Nothin naw

life goes on

@topic. If I go for an HIV test; if am negative, then I would end that relationship because I can't make a foolish sacrifice by marrying an HIV victim.

Stay with them

Mehn, instead of killing 2 lives, I'll save one.
bye bye, LIFE must go on.

i guess its love n other related disasters! if i love him that much, i stick it out with him

Hmm. You wan die be that.

I recognise lies wen i see dem

HIV?!!!! it depends , if u've , u no now, Gbese don burst, but if u dull, u fit COME Out wit this face , so d ball's
your court dude,

Even if you will opt out,`does it mean you will totally avoid the person forever and ever. Will you still go to the extent of showing some love that despite the fact that you can't marry him/her, you still care enough to stay with him/her through thick and thin?