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Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 1:03pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
I saw this on LIB and i decided to bring it to nairaland...cos i love the letter Letter to that Married Woman - from a pissed off single girl...:-) Just got this letter via email from a pissed off single lady whose identity I will keep private...:-) But read below, it's quite interesting Dear Married Woman, These couple of days I have read messages on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook and the likes and as much as I have tried to bridle my tongue and not say anything; just let it slide, my emotion has chosen to betray me. So today I stand in defense of all unjustly stigmatized Single ladies. To you married woman who has taken to the social media to air her grievances, please re-direct your energy into bridling your erring husband. More than half of the time, these men are the ones who pursue single girls unrelentingly, luring them with the worldly goodies the Good Lord has bequeathed on them. And let me let you know what you’d never hear from your husband, they speak ill of you. Half the time, the reason they are still with you is because of our own conscious effort not to break another girl’s home as we look forward to having ours. I would share with you my most recent experience. I was introduced to a visually-impaired man who promised to help me secure a job. Before I met him, this man had already overwhelmed me with calls and messages. The only reason I chose to keep my prearranged meeting with him was because my sister had been trying extra hard to help me secure a job. So as not to seem “picky” and unwilling to work, I met with him. He told me out rightly that aside from him being married, blind and a Christian what else would stop me from dating him. So I asked if those reasons he gave were not genuine enough. He said they were not. That except if I could come up with something else, then I had no reason but to go out with him. His calls and messages became incessant after then. I met with him twice after then, out of pity and I tell you he was a little aggressive too. Then his wife stumbled on his messages. I wished I had kept her messages to me. When they first started coming in, I spoke with the husband about them, he dismissed my worries with a laugh. When I could not take them anymore, I called her up. I told her the deal I had with her husband and I assured that she had nothing to worry about. That I swear on the good things that are to come my way that I was not there to break her home. I knew it was time to give up whatever prospect of securing a job that laid on that path. I do not think I have met anyone as persistent as this man. He would call me un-endingly. He told me he had solved his wife’s financial problems and was that not why she married him in the first place. And there I was, I had not even asked him for as much as a phone top-up since we met. He kept reeling out what he had done for her. Anyway when I could not stick the drama again, I stopped picking his calls. After a while he stopped calling too. Then out of the blues, about three months later, I got a message from the wife cursing me for trying to break her home yet again. It was the Holy Month for me and I just woke up to take my suhoor. It took all the will in me not to respond. But after that period, I forwarded the message to her husband and of course I got no response. Some couple of months later I received another message from her; filled with curses on me and my family members. I had stopped speaking to the husband for about six months then and here she was accusing me of what I did not know about. I made up my mind I had had enough. So I sent her a “back-to-sender” message. And I threatened to snatch her husband if this continued. Ironically, I received a message from her husband stating “I heard you are reconsidering your position. Am I getting a Yes now?”… Can you imagine? This is just one of the many I have experienced as it is fairly recent. I assure you, Dear Married woman that I get to hear all about your whims, your shortcomings and why he even chose to marry you. Rather than coming to Twitter, Instagram and the likes to rant, focus your energy on distracting your husband’s attention from the single lady that you see as a threat. Learn from Hilary Clinton. Buy her book “Hard Choices” and learn. Half the time, the real threat is your husband. Get your husband off my back, get a rein and bridle him. I am not the reason his eyes have chosen to rove. I look good for the available single guy. I have got a brand to market, my singleness. Look for yours. I am faithful to Coca-Cola not even the allurement held by a chilled bottle of Pepsi would make me go near it because it is “inferior” in taste as far as I am concerned. Stop this undue stigmatization. We Harassed Single Girls have had it up to “here” with your “husband-snatcher” branding franchise. Yours A pissed single girl Posted by Linda Ikeji at 8:43 AM 2 Likes |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by aristocrazzy: 1:12pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Half the threats are from men and the other Half is from .......... I rest my case. 1 Like |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 1:14pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Na wa... 1 Like |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 1:20pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
aristocrazzy:finish it ooo |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 1:20pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:wetin be na wa..thats the gospel truth |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 1:22pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
exthar87:the topic was a very long one so i got tired after readin it...anyways hav any married man made advances at u? |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Mclick(m): 1:23pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Wonder shall never end. Roving blind eyes, unbridled tongue, the defence of unholy wife assistance general amidst melancholies of greed cut up in the web of unfair share and snaky paradox 1 Like |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 1:34pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:it is usual..cos they are goats yes |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Ploy(m): 1:35pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
intoooooorrr, inmmeeeeeeeh to some, not all married women though. When he was chasing you, Caro I love you with the whole of my heart. What were you doing? You were double dating. When he caught you, what did you say? He is only a friend, don't be too insecure. Now, you are in his house. Pppaaaayy Bacckkkkk Tymmmme 1 Like |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 1:43pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Ploy:lol |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Dlionsheart: 2:06pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Na WA ooh! So this is where we are now? anyway, arm robbers give reasons why they Rob drunkard give reasons why they drink to stupor harlot give reasons why they prostitute murderers give reasons why they maimed even boko haram give reasons why they bombed and kill without conscience. SO Any surprise in her reasons?? enaaaah!!! what about hell fire?? aaaaah, is burning strong, waiting for husband snatcher with their god forsaking reasons. I dey cum 1 Like |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Dlionsheart: 2:06pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Na WA ooh! So this is where we are now? anyway, arm robbers give reasons why they Rob drunkard give reasons why they drink to stupor harlot give reasons why they prostitute murderers give reasons why they maimed even boko haram give reasons why they bombed and kill without conscience. SO Any surprise in her reasons?? Enaaaah!!! what about hell fire?? aaaaah, is burning strong, waiting for husband snatchers with their god forsaking reasons. I dey cum |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 2:08pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
exthar87:woooow... Wats wit married men sef.... |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 2:17pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:i should be asking you |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 2:18pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
exthar87:i'm not married...... 1 Like |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by clubone05: 3:33pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
You girls make it too easy...too easy. . |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 5:56pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
clubone05:how nah |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 9:00pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
clubone05: true... if every wife would be wise - every husband would be scared to cheat and loose everything 1 Like |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by passionate88: 8:25pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
voodoo85:Not in Nigeria.. What most women know how to do is just shout, quarrel, fight, after that they'd forgive the man and try to put the blame on the lady the husband cheats with... They are used to the good things of life, many are scared because of the type of wedding the had... I just tire for our Naija mentality.. Singleness is very refreshing |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 8:33pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
passionate88: True yarn |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 8:35pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
voodoo85:Are u referring to Naija men, I doubt that but if na oyinbo I support |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 8:52pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
exthar87: to all men. especially countries where divorce law is strong |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 8:54pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
passionate88: situation would be very different in marriage where woman came from family with money and he not. |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by passionate88: 9:01pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
voodoo85:@bolded, not in Nigeria... The women will want to marry into money too. Their husband must have money... They have this warped mentality about their "husband's money" that's very frightening... |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 9:25pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
passionate88: :DDDD |
Re: Lettter To That Married Woman-from A Pissed Off Single Girl by Nobody: 9:32pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
voodoo85:ok |
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