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Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by onegig(m): 7:54am On Nov 16, 2014 |
Teespice:I always believe in karma. Why would she cheat when I am not and mind you I don't need a lady to forgive and take me back for something as extreme as adultery because I won't do same. I would forgive her and let bygones be bygones but its actually the end of us two. It would take a miracle for me to believe anything she says afterwards. Trust is not something you pick up and start mending, so its better we part. A relationship without trust is actually nothing but pain. |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by DukeNija(m): 8:22am On Nov 16, 2014 |
zeb04: You can say this now that you are single, after many years of marriage, with so much financial, physical, emotional and spiritual investments, with children and pressure, i strongly believe you will not have this same opinion when the chips are down. |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by Nobody: 8:40am On Nov 16, 2014 |
2buff:so because i laughed at that comment it means i will cheat abi? Okay, how many women have u serial cheated on sef? |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by jmoore(m): 8:50am On Nov 16, 2014 |
I will forgive and divorce her. |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by Teespice(f): 9:19am On Nov 16, 2014 |
onegig: I agree with your post. however, you seem to forget that in this part of the world, a woman is expected to forgive and if she as much as files for divorce on grounds of adultery, she is blamed for not realising that a man has the wandering eye. personally, I can't forgive a cheating partner be it in a relationship or marriage and the man should do same for me as well. 1 Like |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by kuderrich: 9:28am On Nov 16, 2014 |
zeb04:but if you're caught in d act u'll expect to be forgiven abi? I won't say u're selfish. Nah |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by onegig(m): 9:32am On Nov 16, 2014 |
Teespice: Maybe that's the societal standards in some areas. I don't seem to hear that where I am from. I believe both genders are equal and should be held responsible to the same level of transparency. A woman should forgive and accept a man who goes off course based on her own personal accords and not on what someone, somewhere believes in. 1 Like |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by onegig(m): 9:39am On Nov 16, 2014 |
DukeNija:Yeah. you certainly want to consider your sacrifices, efforts and time wasted. And that's exactly what makes it more painful and hard. But it's actually a fallacy if I should stay back because for him/her to have craved for someone outside then there's a lot missing and more deeper problems inherent in the relationship which staying back won't solve. I can persevere and stay back for other daunting challenges but adultery is a very very big deal that would make me scampering for safety. |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by Nobody: 10:36am On Nov 16, 2014 |
That is if they ever get to find out. Even if they get suspicious, they just cannot wrap their heads around their wives cheating, so they rather keep deceiving themselves. Win-win for both parties. Hehehehehehe Only very few lucky ones get to find out when they eventually cannot donate blood to their sickling children. As for a married woman confessing to cheating. . . Forgiving her or not should be the last thing on the man's mind. The first thing he should do is to watch his back seriously. Start by cross checking your bank accounts to hiring Body Guards to not eating her meals . . Cos, most women donot just confess. They must have a well laid out plan. Either to leave that marriage while grabbing all they can or to kill the man and acquire everything. Women! Staying a step ahead since the days of Adam! 4 Likes |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by zeb04(f): 11:38am On Nov 16, 2014 |
kuderrich:why do I have to go looking for another dic.k when all I want is right there with me. Cheating is way out of it. |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by abdulwastecx(m): 11:38am On Nov 16, 2014 |
zeb04: you are too beautiful to be cheated....ni man in his right senses will have a beautiful woman like you and at thesame time decide ti cheat or caught in the act |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by abdulwastecx(m): 11:46am On Nov 16, 2014 |
Teespice: I believe when I marry a woman, I marry her because she is the best and someone I will spend the rest of my life with not because of her virginal. .. the problem is religion and society view women as a mere working virginal or sex object. sex is part but never more 5% of what marriage should be all about...in such a case, bleeping another woman will never come to mind becuase all women have virginal why risky your life on some LovePeddler because of something you will get readily available at home at your own comfort 1 Like |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by Arsenate(m): 11:50am On Nov 16, 2014 |
Phema:cool story...but we still ain't scared .... .. I mean aren't you women just confused. one minute you women are crying that men are cheats, evil and basically responsible for all the ills of the society, the next you're telling us how much more evil you are compared to men. Lol which exactly are you; saints or demons 1 Like |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by dein77(m): 11:50am On Nov 16, 2014 |
abdulwastecx: That's a good stance. |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by Arsenate(m): 12:00pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
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Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by Arsenate(m): 12:01pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
kkk |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by kuderrich: 12:12pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
zeb04:so u think cheating is limited to f.uck.ing another man's d**ck alone? It's more dan dat. Aside that, mistakes do happen sometimes which may be beyond ur control, u may nt understand until u're in dat position. |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by iykedare(m): 12:20pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: your gra gra here too much jor. You cant do half of what you say here. Keep misleading your followers. |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by iykedare(m): 12:24pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Phema: |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by FynBabe(f): 12:30pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Guys are not smiling @ all. jmoore: |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by okabe(m): 12:36pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Teespice: Dats a big fat lie, dat myt hav been true in d past buh definitely nt nowadays Teespice:people make mistakes. BTW, adultery is not always as it seems. #just_saying For me, I can neva 4give anybody who cheats on me even yl we r yet 2 tie d knot buh once marriage is sealed, well, I stick to my earlier post |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by donogaga(m): 12:52pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Wendy80: God bless your hubby. At the long run, am sure he will forgive, but he will not forget. Its painful though.... And sometimes, it leads to untimely death. |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by donogaga(m): 1:11pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
dein77: Valid point. That's the truth. No sane Man would want to do that. |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Arsenate: Both. Sweet Angels when they are treated right, demons with seven horns when they are not. My post wasn't meant to scare anyone bro. Just to jolt some "gullible" men back to reality. 2 Likes |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by Nobody: 1:14pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
iykedare: Cheer up bro. The Lord is good! |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by bukatyne(f): 1:48pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
DukeNija: But when men say same, they would stand by their words? Unfortunately for you all, some women know what they want, say it and stand solely by it. Sorry cheats |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by bukatyne(f): 1:54pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: Dearie, No woman is forced to forgive She decides to @bolded, perfect. I would not like a cheat to train my kids also. |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by bukatyne(f): 1:58pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Teespice: Apologies to all for hammering the same point however, who are the society who expect a wife to forgive her cheating husband? If a woman decides not to forgive, what will happen to her? |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by dein77(m): 2:11pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
bukatyne: If a woman decides not to forgive her cheating husband, she's seen as not doing enough to preserve her home. It's the way it is. Somehow, the capacity of women to tolerate sone extreme nonsense seems a wonder to me. Forgiveness is a choice, and I don't think I have sufficient grace to forgive a cheating wife... Happy Sunday, dear. |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by bukatyne(f): 2:17pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
dein77: People will talk regardless so why don't people do what they really want to do? @bold, not only you my brother The grace obviously is not sufficient for all A wonderful Sunday to you too |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by Wendy80(f): 2:20pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
donogaga:They parted for good oh. He said he can it bear it if in d past but not while he's dating her. He couldn't just push it aside and continue so he left. |
Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by dein77(m): 2:30pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Wendy80: Hmmmm |
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