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Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by purityme: 10:25am On Nov 17, 2014 |
LoL na so he pain you reach. Sdk a place to be proudly sdk bv aisha2: |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 10:26am On Nov 17, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:hello,I'm nt one of them,and I can't testify to dat,I can live my life without nobody |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 10:28am On Nov 17, 2014 |
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Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 10:29am On Nov 17, 2014 |
purityme:okay,I hear u |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 10:31am On Nov 17, 2014 |
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Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 10:31am On Nov 17, 2014 |
purityme: Somebody sent me the link because she know say the thing go pain me well well lol. MojAyo: No, her role ends when you turn 18, everything she does now ia charity and not your fundamental human right. 5 Likes |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by purityme: 10:35am On Nov 17, 2014 |
You don't even have a stay in SA and you are sounding as if na citizen you be. You were seeking assylm there. You later said study visa. Na magomago u take stay dia and you still no understnd naija system. Hmmm we re not dump ooo. Stop all dis stories 4 d Gods abeg. If you make 500naira compare to 1200 can't you manage. You case no be here MojAyo: 1 Like |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 10:38am On Nov 17, 2014 |
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Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by ifyalways(f): 10:38am On Nov 17, 2014 |
Why is the OP constantly referring to the deadbeat runaway baby daddy as " her husband"? Does the term husband have a different meaning on NLD @OP, enough said already. You lost your voice and right to respect when u instead of facing your studies got yourself knocked up by a junkie in SA. Now, you gotta learn and earn it back, the harrrrrrrrd way. If you think your mom aint doing enough for u, try moving in with a NLDER or a friend, just for 3 days. Na that time u go appreciate what your mom is doing. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 10:40am On Nov 17, 2014 |
[quote author=purityme post=28088798]You |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Wendy80(f): 10:44am On Nov 17, 2014 |
MojAyo:U are giving half half story. How old are U? Where's d father of ur child? Are u a student or working? |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 10:45am On Nov 17, 2014 |
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Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 10:47am On Nov 17, 2014 |
Wendy80:I think the matter is solved now,so case closed |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 10:50am On Nov 17, 2014 |
MojAyo: Oh no. i wasnt refering to you. Dnt be offended. i was just having a conversation |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 10:52am On Nov 17, 2014 |
Wendy80: Read through her previous threads you will understand fully. The baby daddy is an ex convict he also tried to love-vendor her in south Africa in addition to beating her. She was a student got pregnant and dropped out and.this same bad mother was the one supporting her till she had the baby. The mom got her back asked her to start following her to the shop na there trouble start. Poster again grow up. People are in worst conditions but few of them spend all day blaming others, they take charge and move on. Your mother is not the problem here please look in the mirror and tell yourself the truth. Stop all this pride and ready answers to defend yourself if braiding for 500 is what it takes to feed your child do it. Ain't no shame in hard honest work 5 Likes |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 10:54am On Nov 17, 2014 |
MojAyo: Am for real and advicing you as I would my younger sister. Snap out of it. Aint nobody got time to pet and pamper you. You are a mother. Even if braiding is 100 do it and buy pap for your daughter thats life thats reality. Leave mama alone. She don try 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 11:01am On Nov 17, 2014 |
MojAyo: You and I know that your husband is a crook, there is no use relying on him. Thank God you know you're in this situation alone, no one is going to help you except you. So dust the dirt off your shoulders and start life afresh. Be determined to work hard like never before. N500 is better than 0 naira. Nothing is too little, you will grow with time. No condition is permanent but if you keep waiting for clients that will pay you big money now, you will continue to suffer the insult and disrespect from your family. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Wendy80(f): 11:08am On Nov 17, 2014 |
aisha2: True |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Wendy80(f): 11:08am On Nov 17, 2014 |
MojAyo:Thank God |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 11:20am On Nov 17, 2014 |
BananaBender:okay,tanx |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by bukatyne(f): 11:31am On Nov 17, 2014 |
MojAyo: I think you need comprehension lessons. Did you not see I was responding to a post |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 11:36am On Nov 17, 2014 |
bukatyne:okay,whatever |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by smartigo: 11:39am On Nov 17, 2014 |
Thank you aisha2 for being harsh. The lady is just pissing me off. You can imagine hw she speaks of a man who she isn't married to as her husband. Your reasoning is wack or u r too emotionally intelligent. Why should your mother care for u and your baby? Is it her right? Wake up lady and find something to do. When you travelled to SA, did u know their system outright? So stop the excuse. Look around you and start doing what you were doing in SA. If you want respect, don't be an extra burden on your mother n siblings who are also trying to survive. 4 Likes |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by bukatyne(f): 11:45am On Nov 17, 2014 |
MojAyo: Whatever to you too I can come here and rub your head however, I will just be deceiving you and go offline to my life. I am glad you are spurred to do something about your situation. 3yrs down the line, you will look at this thread and laugh about it. All the best to you and your family. |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by thorpido(m): 11:49am On Nov 17, 2014 |
MojAyo:I know you are not a young girl.You are gbogbo bigs girl!Yes I know how much you are worth. What i am saying in essence is that you put your hands to the plow.. |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 12:26pm On Nov 17, 2014 |
bukatyne:tanx for ur sisterly advice |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 12:47pm On Nov 17, 2014 |
You are just saying my husband my husband my husband my husband my husband this and that. My inlaw My inlaw. His he married to you?you her his baby mama. You dön't have any inlaw. Better look for something doing,stop blaming ur mama. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Wendy80(f): 2:08pm On Nov 17, 2014 |
Ds babe knows what she wants already. We are just burning energy advising her. With d way u reply to every1 tells d kind of person u are. Some1 shd pls tell her to go back to her BOYFRIEND, that's what she wants to hear. OP I just did. |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by cococandy(f): 3:42pm On Nov 17, 2014 |
MojAyo:so what's keeping you in Nigeria at the moment? The Nigeria you say you braid hair for 500naira is the same one that I braid hair for sometimes 4000 naira. Why don't you go improve on your skills and see ppl pay more for your services?keep saying you know your worth but you don't want to prove to those around you what that worth is. |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 5:32pm On Nov 17, 2014 |
cococandy:dats why I told u ,I dnt knw d system,I never plait here for anybody here with money,one day I went to a saloon to do my hair,I was so surprised dat it was vry cheap,they call bonding with ur own hair piece 400naira,anyway,let's forget about dat,like I said,I will find a solution to my problem,God will help me out |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 5:41pm On Nov 17, 2014 |
HumbledbYGrace:tanx my frnd for dis advice |
Re: Pls Peeps,help Me Out In A Bad Situation by Nobody: 5:42pm On Nov 17, 2014 |
Let me for a moment believe you dont know how a system you grew up in works. You have been back for over 4 months and in the 4 months you still havent gotten round to understanding this our complex system. |
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