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Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by urheme: 10:05am On Nov 19, 2014 |
Nekk: my dear, don,t die because of man, don,t kill any body because of man, don,t let man kill you, develop a hard shell to his infidelities that is if divorce is not an option for you, keep your self happy, live your life, concentrate on giving your kids a good life he may go and take another wife, don,t care and don,t hurt especially if you have a well paying job to look after your self, get busy, go for higher degree as phd and other professional courses. if you are so emotional about sex and love which I believe is just a relief from tension, you can use prayers to hold your self if you are a strong Christian, if not indulge in vibrators, it will not kill you slowly like your husband, my cheating husband is the least of my worries. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by OHAJURU1: 10:06am On Nov 19, 2014 |
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Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by MadCow1: 10:14am On Nov 19, 2014 |
urheme: Delete that part and leave only the Vi-brators.. Or hells.. She should find herself a side boo.. Afterall, Whats good for the Greece, is good for Uganda. The one thing I know is that a Cheating woman is harder to catch than a cheating Man. 5 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by babygirlfl: 10:18am On Nov 19, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul: Exactly. It's one decision those involved only have to take. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by 9jaRonin(m): 10:34am On Nov 19, 2014 |
Chiefpriest1:Chiefpriest, may God bless you..... |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by urheme: 10:34am On Nov 19, 2014 |
MadCow1: let her hubby come and see the quality and size of my V-B he will know he is less than a man cheating man, why should I worry my self with one when he is busy enjoying him self, rubbish, do we really need these men? |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by moriton(m): 10:41am On Nov 19, 2014 |
What an irony the op is literally Happywife but not realistically. Take chief priests advice and thank him later. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 10:48am On Nov 19, 2014 |
SirShymex: Okay, let's do this. Hillary could not have left because she was not senator when Bill was cheating with Monica, leaving at that time would have spelled the end of her political ambition. Hillary is some serious bad ar5e and I love the woman to death. She was intent on forging a political career of her own outside of being first lady. Leaving would have meant scuppering the opportunity to serve as senator, run for the highest office in the country and then go on to serve as Secretary of state. She did not leave because it was not smart do so. Victoria did not leave because the Spice girls were musically dead when David cheated, all she was at the time was former a former Spice girl now married to global icon in football. David's career outside of football was just beginning to pick up, modelling contracts were pouring in, his move to Spain was beginning to pay off big time, she had to stand by him, they had both been working hard to make it happen, why would she let David off that easily and walk away from everything she had worked so hard for? Compare David's net worth in 2001 or whenever it was that he cheated to now. Victoria's fashion career did not take off until they moved to the US, I am pretty sure being David's wife did not hurt, so you need to get your timelines right mate. Ray Parlour's divorce cost him his career, dude was so badly messed up by it that he could not even do anything outside of football again, even he must be regretting cheating and then going on to marry his 'new chassis model'. Ray's wife had nothing to lose, there was no career to be messed up. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by MadCow1: 10:49am On Nov 19, 2014 |
urheme: A VB will only shake your kpekus vigorously and that's it.. Men are more than just 'live diicks'.. The OP's matter is not peculiar to her alone. Many women are in this boat. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by smokescreen4: 10:50am On Nov 19, 2014 |
Why is life so unfair to women? it pays to be a man and a nigerian man for dat matter, I wished God asked us to choose our sex, ALOT of women would love to be men, the only thing dat is fair to both men and women is death.i have no advice for you happy wife. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 10:54am On Nov 19, 2014 |
smokescreen4:life is not fair to anyone.... Soe men go through though challenges too. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Wenom: 10:58am On Nov 19, 2014 |
Hmmmmm! Pride dey smell for hia o! U sed u hv workd very hard to be whr u r today..are u sure ur status doesn't affect d way u relate wf him sometyms? Who knws d real story?..jst saying Mayb u allow ur financial status get too much into ur head dt u speak in a manner dt distastes him.. ..My advice is be broken,humble urself @least a lil more n most importantly..cast ur cares upon PANTOKRATOR,cos He cares for u,can n will #BringBackYourHubby# in Jesus' name!! |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by smokescreen4: 11:03am On Nov 19, 2014 |
majekdom2:what kind of challenges? society gives you guys free pass for alot of vices, one thing is certain as a Christian I know they will be none of dis in the great beyond, men don't even Consider adultery as sin anymore. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 11:09am On Nov 19, 2014 |
smokescreen4:its never a gender thing .... The fact that a married woman comes out publicly on her cheating hubby does not mean some married women don't cheat, I know some . It is never right to generalize. I am not good at criticizing but do the young girls that follow these married men don't know adultery is a sin . Some babes have it merry in their youths and come complaining the hubby cheat at sometime. I have been against cheating on this thread, but we should leave sentiments out of this. I really don't like that pity statement " that life is not fair to the women" 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by smokescreen4: 11:20am On Nov 19, 2014 |
majekdom2:Am sure you know the statement is true , moreover it's the man that made a vow to be faithful not the girl, Nigeria is a highly patriarchal country and it sucks, men keep dishing what they can't take. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Callfubu(m): 11:25am On Nov 19, 2014 |
Chiefpriest1:azzin you cover everywhere finish, i can't add or subtract. Are you sure you are not a marriage counsellor? |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Onegai(f): 11:35am On Nov 19, 2014 |
SirShymex: Sigh. I will speak only on the case that I saw upclose and personal and leave you to pull out whatever you like from whereever you get it from. Hillary Rodham-Clinton has always had political ambitions. Even when she was First Lady. However, America (for all its Liberal posturing) is a very Conservative arena. They will vote a black man over a white woman. And if I were married to a philandering man who happens to be the Tinubu of the Democratic Party of the United States, I won't divorce him. I need his support down the line for when I want to declare my candidancy for the Democratic Presidential ticket. Having people vote me as a Senator is way different from having my party leaders endorse me to take a presidential ticket. A fight which Hillary lost, the first time already, to Barack Obama. Because her position wasn't strong. A woman who wants something badly, can play the long game. Now I'm sure you will have all sorts of answers for this, to show how I'm wrong. After all, this is NL. Excuse me ladies and gentlemen. I have important stuff to do now. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by bukatyne(f): 11:43am On Nov 19, 2014 |
SirShymex: What advise do you have for men whose wives cheat? 3 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by bukatyne(f): 11:45am On Nov 19, 2014 |
majekdom2: I have never heard it justified any where else like this Nigerian men (with Nigerian behaviors)! Tufiakwa! 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by bukatyne(f): 11:48am On Nov 19, 2014 |
Odutodaiwa: So equal rights = shouting competition? Do you shout at your mates at work or school? If you are a tenant, all tenants have equal rights and obligations, do you scream at your neighbors? 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by bukatyne(f): 11:50am On Nov 19, 2014 |
saucechilli: Very frustrated and jealous women. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by MadCow1: 11:51am On Nov 19, 2014 |
bukatyne: Whats your point exactly?! The guy say ehn wife dey hala for am, you dey talk about neighbours. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by MadCow1: 11:52am On Nov 19, 2014 |
Chiefpriest1: Alusi ka ibu.. Okwu gi ku oto ka Amu.. I hereby declare the OP's problem solved.. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by pickabeau1: 11:56am On Nov 19, 2014 |
Have u gone to other forums aside NL have u interacted closely with other nationalities A prophet is not welcome in his home At times it seems u hate everything nigerian First u make fun of nigerian god, nigerian bible, nigerian men... Just like the nigerians in diaspora who hate everything back home once they are opportuned to leave the shores of naija bukatyne: 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by bukatyne(f): 11:57am On Nov 19, 2014 |
MadCow1: He should not blame it on feminism Even some of the women who existed before the advent of feminism were disrespectful to their husbands. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by MadCow1: 11:58am On Nov 19, 2014 |
bukatyne: True That! SO basically, ehn wife just get bad character. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by bukatyne(f): 11:58am On Nov 19, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Bros, I rebuked and rejected a 'Nigerian' man and God in His infinite mercy answered my prayers. I have neither the strength nor time to cope with one |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by bukatyne(f): 12:00pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
MadCow1: Exactly! Wat's up with the Islamic section on NL? I wanted to compliment some dresses on one hijab thread and I saw confess you believe in Allah abc and I ran |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by pickabeau1: 12:01pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
bukatyne: ok...whatever works for u.. The nigerian man you married just happened to exist without any roots... |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by urheme: 12:04pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
MadCow1: really? do you think op will worry if he doesn't have a diick? the earlier we stop worrying the better for us, men are getting worst by the day, women have to think of other things that gives them joy. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by peren: 12:04pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
These stories, make my single days precious. Marriage is like an emotional rollercoaster ride. OP i really do not know what to tell you, take heart be patient, love God, only with Grace can you forgive truly. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by MadCow1: 12:04pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
bukatyne: My reliable Sources informed me that Suen has been made an offer he couldnt possibly refuse to isolate the Muslim section from the rest of Nairaland.. So basically, you are free to enter any part of Nairaland except the area that houses the potentia Terrorists and Mujahadeens.. The Isolation of the Muslim section of Nairaland should be a cause for National Security concerns.. 5 Likes 1 Share |
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