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Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by tosyne2much(m): 12:21am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Dreyl I'm not surprised at all Observing things from palm tree.. I don't think the lost of interest is somewhat to lust, however, the reasons behind this cannot be overemphasized so let's not centre it majorly on lust. It might just be your perception about ladies, fear of heartbreak, friends terribly encounter with ladies which has becloud your sense of reasoning, Lest I forget, OP abeg no 4get vote 4me oooo |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by Dreyl(m): 8:23am On Nov 18, 2014 |
FLAWLES:what is that? |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by Dreyl(m): 8:37am On Nov 18, 2014 |
tosyne2much:thanks boss |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by Dreyl(m): 9:14am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Alright guys thanks for your advice(s) sorry couldn't reply all because i've a busy schedule,i think i am going to work on myself like some people said,maybe fade out lust and love more anyways thanks. |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by drnoel: 9:24am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Dreyl: Its called the immaturity syndrome. Happens to all people (men&women) who start having cold feet if a relationship they are in seem to have progressed from just being fun to something more. Used to happen to me too till I settled down. My advice is this, stay away from chicks 4 sometime. No random nyashing, nothing. Allow urself time to mature up, if it comes up again when u insert urself back into society then let the relationship grows into more b4 u consumate it. |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by izsmike: 9:29am On Nov 18, 2014 |
because u woo all of them at night only to see them in the morning and they look like andyblaze |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by Andyblaze: 9:55am On Nov 18, 2014 |
izsmike: |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by zbone(m): 10:22am On Nov 18, 2014 |
you are probably a guy whose just got a hang of wooing ladies, after so many bad past experiences with them. so now you go around wooing random chics you have no affections for with your newly found prowess, taking it out on any of them who fall for your advances. |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by 100Cents: 10:29am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Dreyl: Did you just have a break up ? It happened to me from 2011 till 2013. I had a very painful break up. In my eyes no other lady measured up to her. It still happens to me once in a while and when I force myself to see the lady again, the new lady would find out we are not in synchrony. So don't force yourself. With a banker last month, it happened when I visited and saw her without make up. I just wrapped that side up. |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by 100Cents: 10:31am On Nov 18, 2014 |
adepiero: Lol. What's your point ? |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by 100Cents: 10:38am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Exjoker: And it was common with me when I was seeking wife not gf.. |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by Dreyl(m): 10:45am On Nov 18, 2014 |
100Cents:Lol..it's not like she's not beautiful but the problem i have is going back to her i don't wanna break her heart because i ain't loyal i find it very hard and boring being in a relationship for too long. |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by marieolae(f): 10:48am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Dreyl:then I don't think marriage is for you. |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by 100Cents: 10:49am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Dreyl: That's to say, you don't love her. Just keep her hanging nah. You might later love her as the need arises. The bad side is that she will get a signal that you are playing on her.. In my own case. The make up didn't mean she wasn't beautiful. I see things and when I do, I just quit. Its something I can't force.. sort of premonition. |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by Dreyl(m): 11:08am On Nov 18, 2014 |
zbone:lol..it's not today i started wooing ladies the prowess has been there for so long, it all started when i was a teenager probably a bad ass player then,but i kinda stopped because i think it's unhealthy and people were complaining to my parent that they are always seeing me with random chics,you know amebors. besides this is not the first time the last relationship i had lasted for a month i think that's the highest of all,being in a relationship for so long is like staying in a dark empty cave for me. |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by Dreyl(m): 11:21am On Nov 18, 2014 |
100Cents:thanks i guess i will stick to what you just said. |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by Nobody: 11:22am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Dreyl: bro. u aint alone.. anyway keep calm and #DrinkLiptonWithNoSugar |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by Dreyl(m): 11:43am On Nov 18, 2014 |
marieolae:i don't think i will get married now maybe when i clock 40 or 50. I still have some years to enjoy myself to the fullest though without any atom of stress and heartbreak,i may even have a baby mama if i wish,since i can afford the upkeep of the child for years, that's not a biggie.everybody have different choice and how they live their lives. |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by Dreyl(m): 11:46am On Nov 18, 2014 |
MuhdG:lol..ok |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by Dreyl(m): 11:51am On Nov 18, 2014 |
drnoel:alright thanks so much for the advise.. |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by eleshin(m): 11:53am On Nov 18, 2014 |
seriously it's asif d OP knew what m going thru, tho with a slight difference. No matter how pretty nd 9ice d girl is I usuali get bored after a month or 2, next tin na to dey avoid calls nd dodge visiting. I only had 1 exception in d past nd trust me v bn avn problem analysing what d babe possessed that others didn't. I know it's more of lifestyle than spiritual. |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by drnoel: 3:38pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
eleshin: It's cos ur mind hasn't matured up enof 4 u to commit. All men have that problem. U will see when u body alarm strikes "it's time" nobody will tell u, though some men don't realise when it does and oncertified they miss it its gone. Men are not made like women. I was in ur shoes b4 but now am married. Funny enof, I disappointed all previous girl friends that wanted commitment and married the only who never stressed me about committing. Then I had a very big problem with committing. I used to run a mile once a gill starts asking me "what are we to each other". Once I hear that am on the next flight out of whatever I was doing with her. When I met my wifey she told me "I know u have known many women. I see it in the way ur yearns flow. It's sad but I can't do much about it. I am experienced in handling a man, have never dated b4 u. I wont try to hold u down with committing. U can come and go when u want but if u stay make ur it's 4 the right reasons. And vice Versa if u go". I dated her for more than 6 years and married her two years ago. My old girlfriends heard I was dating her. I heard they kept stopping her when they see her asking her how she managed it. I don't have any idea how they found out or how they got to know she was the one. Anyway such is life. |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by ChurchillStorm: 3:44pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Agybabe: Freedom of speech justifies not minding my business. And here I am not minding my business 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by rossyc(f): 5:57pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
It is simply termed "Lust" |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by Agybabe(f): 10:51pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
ChurchillStorm:you never enter one chance before. |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by ChurchillStorm: 11:22pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Agybabe: I have actually. But as the universe will have it, I had my taser on me and in an easily reachable place. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by Rexnegro(m): 12:28am On Nov 19, 2014 |
Dreyl:U seems to have what I called anti-interested problem...solution ? Just remove the anti- that's all . |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by eleshin(m): 8:50am On Nov 23, 2014 |
Bro......u won't understand but i'm happy for u. drnoel: |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by Generalkorex(m): 10:17am On Nov 23, 2014 |
hiss:spiritual ke? am also suffering from dis same tin o |
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Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by Nobody: 4:09pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Dreyl: My brother,u nt d only one facing d same situation,as of nw,i have phone numbaz of at least 7 bloody beautiful gurls....As soon as i get der numba,i do d toasting & stuff...But all of a sudden i lose interest. I tink d major problem can b linked to,if i jst suspect she is fully dependent & keeping multiple partners,above all "Am Way Too Busy With Work". |
Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by Dreyl(m): 8:37pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
sauceny:exactly bro you re right. |
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