I dislike women who hit men and then cry abuse. There are women out there who truly suffer abuse such women make a mockery out of women who are really abused.

I had a friend who beat up her fiance so bad even his father didn't believe it was a woman who did it (LMAO). It was funny and sad because the guy is a sweet one and he's my friend. After that she had a new fiance one time we were at the beach and I left them. A couple of hours later she called me to come fetch her because he was throwing her out. I thought they were just having a lover's spat (and I was busy partying in a club) so I took my time. When I got to their townhouse there was blood leading to their door, inside they were there and he had a huge knot on his forehead and she was all the colours of the rainbow (she's light skinned) LMAO. So I asked what happened and apparently after I left she had taken a beer bottle and hit him on the head with it because he had been speaking to "other girls" (mind you her friends). She was crying and when the police came I refused to take her side so they left. She got mad at me, I asked her what did she expect and told her that she did deserve the beat down she got, that she can't expect to go around beating people and getting away with it. She had even pulled a kitchen knife on him. Even our other friends (after laughing) told her the same thing. So she ended all our friendships.

AjFive:


I concur.
But still in your case, YOU are a woman.
If you retaliate, it's okay. But a man hitting on a woman because she punched him? It's Bad. Very Immature.

Before we are man or woman we are human. The way I feel when you hit me is the same as you feel when I hit you...

voodoo85:
thats why my dear women, hit him first hit him good that he wouldn't stand up for a while

My dear to act violent is not the best. I want to believe you are joking with the advice u posted.

Check it, what if u were the one being hit hard and well, hw would you feel?

So my dear be very careful with the kind of advise you put forward.

DieeDiee:


Before we are man or woman we are human. The way I feel when you hit me is the same as you feel when I hit you...

Turns out I was right after all. I've seen your point coming. I might as well put it this way;

It's right to hit a woman if she's trying to kill you. - perfect.

But what if she's taking out her frustration on a bend of a terrible mood swing. She goes like this “I hate you!” - next she punches or slaps the guy. You still think it's right to hit her back?... I hope you get my point.

Try not to see your ‘abusive’ friend as the case-study here. I believe you hate violence like I do, so make yourself the case study.

Would your husband/boyfriend be right to hit you?

AjFive:


Turns out I was right after all. I've seen your point coming. I might as well put it this way;

It's right to hit a woman if she's trying to kill you. - perfect.

But what if she's taking out her frustration on a bend of a terrible mood swing. She goes like this “I hate you!” - next she punches or slaps the guy. You still think it's right to hit her back?... I hope you get my point.

Try not to see your ‘abusive’ friend as the case-study here. I believe you hate violence like I do, so make yourself the case study.

Would your husband/boyfriend be right to hit you?

Obviously everything is within good reason. You are a reasoning being you can use your rationality. For example, if she slaps you, you are not going to beat the living lights out of her. You'll probably walk away or just push her away. Like after my friend hit her fiance with the bottle he didn't immediately hit her back. He got into his car and left which angered her. When she got home she went straight to the kitchen and got a butcher's knife (lol) and that's when he started hitting her back. All I'm saying if she's violent I see no wrong in a man retaliating.

DieeDiee:

All I'm saying if she's violent I see no wrong in a man retaliating.

Okie Dokie.
We are on the same wavelength.

Thavik:
no genius , it isn't because they are women and we men shouldn't hurt women physically ..women can't claim to be equal and also not be asking for a beatdown

Although Some women deserve it...I don't support it. I don't believe any man should hit a woman under any circumstance. If you mad! Take your asss outside on a time out.

I don't need special treatment... if i'm bold enough to hit you, I should be bold enough to be hit...

Coz if you as a man should hit me.... you better be ready for what's coming your way.

justmag:


Although Some women deserve it...I don't support it. I don't believe any man should hit a woman under any circumstance. If you mad! Take your asss outside on a time out.

Have you done that before?

AjFive:


I concur.
But still in your case, YOU are a woman.
If you retaliate, it's okay. But a man hitting on a woman because she punched him? It's Bad. Very Immature.

Guy,mumu dey worry you,no be small
Who told you women are weaker sex,some gals go beat u ehn ehn

Adaeze003:
I don't need special treatment... if i'm bold enough to hit you, I should be bold enough to be hit...

Coz if you as a man should hit me.... you better be ready for what's coming your way.

Girlfriend I'm with you. He slaps me, I'll punch him if I don't pierce his balls. If he's stronger than me then he best sleep with one eye and opt to stay indoors for the rest of his life because them neighbourhood boys will be waiting for him!

DieeDiee:


Have you done that before?

the timeout part? Yes! Beating up a woman? Hell nah! It's not in my dna

BreezyRita:
I think there's no reason whatsoever to hit a woman!

Women are women! They'll always talk!
If she hits you first? Let it go Mbok. Its not like that slap from her will kill you

neither will the slap from him.

You shouldn't be going around dashing slaps. The only time I recommend slaps is if they cheat. Certain situation may arise where a slap becomes a reflex action but still, no one should be hitting anyone.

Oh, where are the feminist and gender equality advocates when you need them?

They only pop out when it benefits them.

Let me ask my own question... if a woman starts hitting you repeatedly unprovoked, how would you handle that? Run away?

Frankenstein:
Oh, where are the feminist and gender equality advocates when you need them?

They only pop out when it benefits them.

Let me ask my own question... if a woman starts hitting you repeatedly unprovoked, how would you handle that? Run away?

I'm an equality advocate hence I said if she's woman enough to throw the first punch she's woman enough to take a punch

DieeDiee:
.........

I had a friend who beat up her fiance so bad even his father didn't believe it was a woman who did it (LMAO). It was funny and sad because the guy is a sweet one and he's my friend. After that she had a new fiance one time we were at the beach and I left them. A couple of hours later she called me to come fetch her because he was throwing her out. I thought they were just having a lover's spat (and I was busy partying in a club) so I took my time. When I got to their townhouse there was blood leading to their door, inside they were there and he had a huge knot on his forehead and she was all the colours of the rainbow (she's light skinned) LMAO. So I asked what happened and apparently after I left she had taken a beer bottle and hit him on the head with it because he had been speaking to "other girls" (mind you her friends). She was crying and when the police came I refused to take her side so they left. She got mad at me, I asked her what did she expect and told her that she did deserve the beat down she got, that she can't expect to go around beating people and getting away with it. She had even pulled a kitchen knife on him. Even our other friends (after laughing) told her the same thing. So she ended all our friendships.

Evidently, your friend is having a personality disorder of some sort - maybe affective aggression, or something of that nature.
I try as much as possible to stay clear away from those.

ratatis:



Evidently, your friend is having a personality disorder of some sort - maybe affective aggression, or something of that nature.
I try as much as possible to stay clear away from those.

Nah, she's just hurt and angry. No woman is born crazy. Behind every crazy woman there's a nigga. Her mom passed away (they were really close) but what hurt her the most was her first fiance. He treated her badly and cheated on her repeatedly. She's also the type men love: light complexion, long hair etc. so men tend to use her as a trophy and she has become paranoid.

DieeDiee:


Nah, she's just hurt and angry. No woman is born crazy. Behind every crazy woman there's a nigga. Her mom passed away (they were really close) but what hurt her the most was her first fiance. He treated her badly and cheated on her repeatedly. She's also the type men love: light complexion, long hair etc. so men tend to use her as a trophy and she has become paranoid.

With this background, I can understand her behavior from entirely different viewpoint. - here's a lady who's in emotional crisis. Instead of having an understanding guy who'll love, soothe, care & help her regain her emotional balance, she found herself in..............

****lips sealead****

Very touching

For what it's worth, it's 'NEVER' right for a man to raise his hand on any woman.

I came into this world through a woman who carried me inside her womb for 9 months going through that harrowing experience of child birth. Nurtured me when I was a defenceless baby and all through my formative years.

More than enough reasons why no man should hit a woman!

AjFive:
If She's the first to hit on You.

I mean reason It;

If a Man should hit you and you retaliate and hit him back; Why should it be any different to hit back on a Woman?... It doesn't make sense.


If she attacks you, you have the right to hit back.
It's only right. You're promoting gender equality.
And you're protecting yourself.

What's your say?



Aj_Five

It's immaterial to me whether she's justified in hitting me or not - I just won't bring myself to her level of brutality & hit her back, when I know of prudent ways of handling a lady's anger. Unless, of course, we're doing it consensually for fun. Even then, I prefer receiving to giving. & I'm very selective here!

BreezyRita:
I think there's no reason whatsoever to hit a woman!

Women are women! They'll always talk!
If she hits you first? Let it go Mbok. Its not like that slap from her will kill you

Neither will the slap from him kill her too

starlingbawa:
For what it's worth, it's 'NEVER' right for a man to raise his hand on any woman.

I came into this world through a woman who carried me inside her womb for 9 months going through that harrowing experience of child birth. Nurtured me when I was a defenceless baby and all through my formative years.

More than enough reasons why no man should hit a woman!

and what happens when the man dies? Keep fooling yourself

lilmax:
and what happens when the man dies? Keep fooling yourself

Why don't you just enlighten me some more 'WISE ONE'?

I wonder why folks can't make constructive contributions without throwing tantrums at others!