is it right for a lady to ask a guy she admire out on date

sure why not. but as for me i wouldn't do it cuz i'm not comfortable with that but some girls have no problem with asking a guy out on a date.

There's nothing bad in it. Obey your heart. Talk the talk.

Nah personally I dont think so

never done it before but am sure a girl can do that if she likes the guy

y not she sure can tho i can't do it

yea i think so

I think a lady can ask a guy out if she has the confidence _{not saying they're scared} to approach him.

Yes and no.yes, a lady that steps up to a guy to tell him how she feels means that she knows what she wants and she doesn't want to waste time, life is too short and wouldn't want to live with shoulda;coulda but didn't. No, because it is kinda of down-grading. It's like you are imposing yourself on him. Don't. Being girly pays off. If he doesn't want you, then na his buisness; his lose.

4VAGLOWING I DONT THINK SO . COS B4 A LADY CAN DO THAT SHE BELIEVES IN THE GUY
IT IS NO BIG DEAL

why not? if a guy can ask a gurl out easily, then a gurl can do same. might not be easy but can happen.

i guess she's new here about her topic!!

wat if the guy says no? omg i kno guys are used to girls sayin no to them but a girl?

Dear,It's good for the guy but bad for you if the guy is a bad guy.
He wont really respect you,will gist friends about you,he might end up getting to fall in love or like you,but it will always be there u came  for him.
Best thing you can do is get talking with the guy,never express yourself in full,if the guy wanna game,he will move in to ask you out.
You know guys can take it when gils turn them down,but you will hate yourself if you eventually ask him out and he turn you down.
there is something about ladies,they dont expect you to turn them down when they ask you out.so you just manage the girl and drop her afterward and she will start complaining,so sister,don't be in this category pls,make him your friend first.
Wish you luck girl.

Thanx all, I really appreciate ur opinions especially from (obaf)
_{It's good for the guy but bad for you if the guy is a bad guy.
He wont really respect you,will gist friends about you,he might end up getting to fall in love or like you,but it will always be there u came for him.
Best thing you can do is get talking with the guy,never express yourself in full,if the guy want to game,he will move in to ask you out.
You know guys can take it when gils turn them down,but you will hate yourself if you eventually ask him out and he turn you down.
there is something about ladies,they don't expect you to turn them down when they ask you out.so you just manage the girl and drop her afterward and she will start complaining,so sister,don't be in this category please,make him your friend first}

U are right, cos i won't be able to face/stand it if he turns me down cos we see each other almost everyday.

Rather than asking him out, you can flirt with him. A
real man would know when a woman has interest
in him.

There is nothing wrong with a lady asking a guy out, but
it is not quite common practice with nigerians as it is in
the western world.

I see no reason why a girl will be scare of approaching a guy if guys can also the job by going to miles in talking to ladies.

well, there's nothing wrong with a lady approaching a guy first. but still leave yourself with a little something of imagination for the guy.
yah as someone had already said, a guy would know if you are interested with him or not. your body speaks!

Good luck girl!

Me thinks if u like him enough, step up your game and ask him out. If u cant, flirt wit him. He'll pick d lines if he's got game. Dnt keep mum, he wont be there forever. Who knows, both of u might be happy together. And till u try,dnt conclude

it is absolutely wrong, the guy will only take advantage of u. better u wait til he notices u and takes interest, and if he doesnt, it simply means u not his type.

what's the big deal? all that matters is love. provided the guy is understanding, there's no big deal

Not really in our CULTURE.

But since we Africans like everything that comes from the West, It's no more a big deal.

Mind you, the ladies that told you it's no big deal won't dare it. This' Nairaland.

Ben-10:

Not really in our CULTURE.

But since we Africans like everything that comes from the West, It's no more a big deal.

Mind you, the ladies that told you it's no big deal won't dare it. This' Nairaland.

LOL

i once recieved such request from a girl though prior to that we were just friends, i turned d request down n d girl couldnt stand seein me it took pains on my part to sit her down n tell her my reasons which she finally understood. So just give d guy d signs n let him do d rest, if he is intrested he will act on d signs.

Won't advice u ask him out instead give him some signs,i once gave a guy i liked signs he asked me out & got stuck,na me even come tire 4 the love sef,so just play it cool and let him go 4 it.

Its not a big deal actually. Its just that the guy will always capitalize on that.

If done in a non desperate way I dnt see much of an issue with it, although in truth we guys like a challenge, and when its too easy we lose intrest - sometimes,