She is going abroad and prmising not to leave me. CAN THAT BE TRUE?

if we know what you are talking we could help.

naija_diva:

if we know what you are talking we could help.

yes oh.ur thread is incomplete, so we cant advice u!!

thanks for explaination but long distance relationship rarely works out. it can if the both of you are sincerely faithful and in love. but the chances are slim.

Hell 2 da murafukn NO. She aint comn back 2 ur ass, it's so over btw ur guys, u'll figure soon

omg

nahh, doubt if it can happen.
Let her go, but if she's urs, she'll always be back!
don't wait ur time thinking she won't leave u!

@ naija diva
waz gud?, muscle catch u 4 eye?

Wishing u well i mean your FAITH pass mt Everst.
Love across the ocean from satistics has 90% failure rate,thats even consumated ones not to talk about urs wey na still baby luv.
Well FAITH IS IT

Just keep calling eachother. Though her first year maybe hard on both of you but just keep calm and pray too. I have been here for three years and still not gon' leave my boy. It's hard , very hard I ain't gon' lie to you but you and your girl can do it but pray pray and communicate good.

i'm sorry but dats sum sh it just breakup cos der's no point seriously just breakup

no loose hope, most black ladies overseas find it hard gettin married, especially in the US [I MEAN THE ONES THAT TRAVELLED LIKE BOUT 5YRS AGO],IT aint easy gettin marrie d over there, 4 the ladies,
if una luv strong she will still cum back 2 u, though she might have/get a b/f over there,

but if she is a asensible gal.she will cum 4 u,
dont worry

[[color=#000099][/color] It depends on how strong the relationship is. some girls keep their words but a greater percentage don't. Weigh the depth of the relationship before giving or else, like Justin Timberlake sang, you'll be crying a river

If she is truly committed to the relationship then she would come back to you, like someone said most guys out there have got nothing to over. You have a 50/50 chance.

We started about 5 years ago an d everything seemed okay until we parted a year later, we still kept in touch and honeatly i never had any other relationship since then.
But one day she called and said a friend was going to take her abroad i t was okay until she told me that the friend was a male that she met in skool.
Now how am i sure they are not going to get married even if she promises not to and if so, how long am i going to wait.

the question is will u be faithful to her?

What are u thinking a male friend is taking her abroad and u think they will not get married? remember that over there is not let naija ooo, she cant run from him or try to cheat on him without paying the hard way, she is at this guy's mercy and will do anything that he wants her to do,

Remember that she wouldnt go anywhere with him if she doesnt love him.

she's leaving u, wake up brother,she ain't coming back!!!u guys went out for 5 years and broke up a year later,then one day she calls to say she's leaving with another bro.sounds like a polite break- up to me.tell me,what is her mission abroad?School?Work?When did she say she'll be back?has she called already?I hate to say this but i think you had better move on with your life.

ol boy she aint comin back for ur ass. move on!

what if it's true does it mean you'll stay idle and wait? man be you and start some thing new afterall she will do same over there until you guys see again, meanwhile nurture another chic and start banging gee

ERR DUDE will u take a random friend abroad. hmm unless ua re mother theresa, chances ar eu wont, sorry to say this bu ti fear that she migh tnot be comming back to u, oh she is gettin gmarried alright
and if i were u i would be alittle bit upset for her telling me she wont leave me because she left hte moment she decided to go with mr free ride. so dear biko forget the girl and move on, trust me uare havin gmore fun in naija than she is.

@OP,why in a doubt?