Pls guys how can one fight an intimacy blackmail involving his boss child.If u cant give a good advice pls remain silent.NL is my source of advice for a friend

Sorry i dont understand.Please explain better.

DonChizi:

please guys advice my friend on this issue. His dad business patners daughter [b]toasted me [/b]and he just don't like the way she behave,she goes about telling people that they are  lovers and his dad is angry with him.He said he don't like his children mixing up with his work.And the guy have ask the girl to stop the blackmail she said till he have sex with her.What should he do.

So it's you and not your friend.
Tell her to stop, find her a guy and go out with her so she can actually shut up.

nollywood featuring ghanawood and Zambia-wood!!

lol
which 1 be zambia wood

The Don, wetin u dey talk. I no understand you o

This poster is confused

Guys how would you react to a sex blackmail thats all am asking.And how to overcome such

Most people just open topics because everybody is opening. To be honest, I can't get synopsis of what you're saying.

abeg   the guy is useless he must just shag the girl chinekewoooo this dude is useless, tha girl wants to be shaged and he doesn't want.
i think he self-services too much.

don you self-service too much.

hey you dont have to be mean am not trying to play games here.AM just asking a simple Question and if you can Thanks but if not why dont you just keep to your self

whats up dochizi self-servicer

@ Poster


Never give in to a blackmailer! If your friend is smart, he'll know what to do!

Genital Herpes

What is genital herpes? I Is it common? I How is it transmitted? I What are the symptoms? I How is it diagnosed? I How is it treated? I Complications associated with genital herpes I Relationship between cervical cancer and genital herpes | Dealing with the emotional stress of having herpes | Links you can use



What is genital herpes?
Genital herpes is a sexually transmitted infection (STI), which has existed for thousands of years. The infection is often feared and misunderstood, so it is important for you to have accurate information. Genital herpes is caused by the Herpes Simplex Virus (HSV). The word herpes is derived from the Greek word "herpein" which means "to creep." This may refer to the unique ability of all herpes viruses to set up a lifelong presence in the body by traveling up the nerve pathways after an initial infection. The herpes virus remains in a dormant state in the nerve roots for long periods of time. A variety of triggers, such as prolonged exposure to bright sunlight, fever, menstruation, stress and localized skin trauma, can cause the Herpes Simplex Virus to reawaken. This process will lead to a recurrence of symptoms or a more actively contagious state without recognizable symptoms (known as asymptomatic shedding).

Two types of the Herpes Simplex Virus are known to exist, Herpes Simplex Type 1 (HSV-1) and Herpes Simplex Type 2 (HSV-2). HSV-1 causes cold sores or fever blisters in and near the mouth. HSV-1 accounts for only one-third of new cases of genital herpes and is transmitted during oral-genital sex. Another form of HSV-1 is herpetic gladiatorium or "wrestler's herpes," which is a skin infection transmitted through direct skin-to-skin contact.

HSV-2 causes lesions in the genital area and is responsible for two-thirds of new genital infections. It is very rarely the cause of oral infections. This handout deals primarily with HSV-2.

Is it common?
As we learn more about the virus, we now realize that it is more widespread than once thought. It is estimated that 40 million people in the US alone, are affected by herpes.

How is it transmitted?
Herpes is spread through microabrasions during vaginal, oral or anal sex with an infected partner. It is most easily spread when a blister is present, but it is often spread at other times, too. Some people notice itching, tingling or other sensations before they see blisters or sores on their skin. These are called prodromal symptoms and they are a warning that the virus may be present on the skin. Herpes is most likely to be spread from the time these first symptoms are noticed until the area is completely healed and the skin looks normal again. Sexual contact, including any oral, vaginal or anal contact, poses a very clear risk of transmitting the virus to your partner during this time. In addition, it is possible to spread the infection from one part of the body to another by touching the blisters, so be sure to wash your hands thoroughly or wear gloves if applying lotions or creams. Avoid touching your eyes after touching lesions.

Although herpes is most contagious when symptoms are present, it can also be transmitted during asymptomatic periods. Occasionally recurrences can go unrecognized by the infected person because they may be mild, atypical or in areas that are difficult to see (such as the cervix or the anus). Current research shows that the virus can even be shed without causing any symptoms. Many people are totally unaware that they have the herpes virus. Using condoms or dental dams during every sexual encounter can reduce the risk of transmission. Even with condoms and dental dams, there is still a risk of transmission since herpes can spread from areas not covered, such as thighs or buttocks. Having multiple sex partners increases your risk of getting genital herpes and other sexually transmitted infections.


What are the symptoms?

Initial primary infection: usually occurs 2 to 10 days after the virus enters the body. Symptoms may include:

Painful blisters on the genitals (including the anus), thighs or buttocks that eventually crust over and are completely healed in 2 to 4 weeks.
Fever
Vaginal discharge
Discharge from the urethra
General discomfort, muscle aches, and headaches
Painful urination or difficulty urinating
Pain with intercourse
Itching
Tender, enlarged lymph nodes near the groin
Recurrent infection: HSV-2 is more likely to recur than HSV-1 on the genitals. Symptoms are usually milder and of shorter duration than the initial outbreak. Symptoms may include:

Localized tingling and irritation (known as prodrome) 12 to 24 hours prior to the appearance of blisters. This symptom occurs in 50% of all cases.
Painful genital lesions lasting 4 to 6 days.
Vaginal discharge is a rare symptom in a recurrent infection.
How is it diagnosed?
Your medical provider may be able to diagnose herpes based on a physical exam if you have typical symptoms such as painful blisters, swollen glands or fever. This can often be confirmed by a viral culture, which is most accurate early in the course of the disease (when lesions look like fluid-filled blisters). There are blood tests that may be useful, but only in certain circumstances. Most blood tests screen for antibodies to HSV so they cannot be used to diagnose a very recent infection. Your medical provider will decide which tests are appropriate in your case.

How is it treated?
Although there is no cure yet, herpes is a very manageable infection. Your provider will be able to prescribe antiviral medication. Early treatment with antivirals may shorten the course of the painful skin lesions and reduce viral shedding. This may lessen the chance of transmitting the virus to a sexual partner. The same medication may be used to reduce the duration and intensity of future outbreaks.

If you have an active infection:

Follow the full treatment prescribed by your provider.
When you have blisters, use disposable gloves to apply medication.
Wear loose clothing and cotton underwear to allow circulation of air and avoid pressure on the skin which may cause more blisters.
Your provider may prescribe a pain reliever if necessary or you can take Tylenol or Ibuprofen.
Avoid aspirin if you are under 20 years old (due to its connection with Reyes Syndrome, a rare neurological syndrome associated with aspirin use to treat illness with high fever).
Avoid sharing towels or clothing.
Do not use douches, perfumed soaps, feminine hygiene deodorants or other chemicals in the genital area.
Avoid a lot of sunlight or heat since they may cause more blisters.
A warm bath may be soothing.
If urination is painful, it may help to squirt tepid water over the genitals while urinating.
Avoid sexual contact with others when you have an active infection.
Are there possible complications associated with genital herpes?
Complications are rare, but you should be aware of the following:

Herpes Keratitis
The eyes are vulnerable to herpes and can become infected when someone touches an active infection and then transfers the virus to his/her eye by touching or rubbing. Herpes Keratitis can eventually lead to blindness if not treated. Warning signs include:

A prolonged feeling that something is in the eye
Pain
Irritation, redness, swelling or eye discharge
Unusual sensitivity to light
If you experience any of these symptoms in association with an active herpes infection, you need to see a medical provider immediately.

Neonatal Herpes
This is the transmission of herpes from mother to newborn. A newborn is very susceptible to herpes since the immune system is not developed to ward off all infection. The danger is greatest in women having their first herpes attack during labor. To be safe, many obstetricians will advise cesarean sections whenever active herpes sores are present during labor to prevent the baby from coming into contact with the virus. Any pregnant woman who has ever had herpes should inform her obstetrician so that certain precautions can be taken to insure a healthy newborn.

Is there any relationship between cervical cancer and genital herpes?
Current research does not show a connection between herpes and cervical cancer. It appears more likely that other viruses such as HPV (genital warts) may be linked to cervical cancer. Like most women, women with genital herpes should have a Pap smear test on a regular basis.

How do I deal with the emotional stress of having herpes?
The emotional stress of dealing with herpes can be more difficult to cope with than the physical discomfort caused by the virus. Herpes is a common infection. You are not alone. It is normal to feel frustrated, angry, guilty or isolated. There are many resources to help you through this experience:

The National Herpes Hotline
1-919-361-8488
This hotline provides accurate information and appropriate referrals to anyone concerned about herpes. Health specialists can address questions related to transmission, prevention and treatment of herpes. The hotline also provides support for emotional issues surrounding herpes such as self-esteem and partner communication. The hotline is open from 9:00am to 7:00pm Monday through Friday.

Providence HELP (affiliated with Family Services, Inc.)
401.331-1350
This local support group is for people concerned about herpes. The group provides a safe, confidential environment where participants can get accurate information and share experiences, fears, and feelings with others who are concerned about herpes.

please guys advice my friend on this issue. [b]His dad business patners daughter toasted me [/b]and he just don't like the way she behave,she goes about telling people that they are lovers and his dad is angry with him.He said he don't like his children mixing up with his work.And the guy have ask the girl to stop the blackmail she said till he have sex with her.What should he do.

You really wish you were him, right?

ok rephrase ur story maybe we can get a hang of what ur saying
and while ur at it kindly explain what the "sex blackmail" u have been talking about is

@ bigwidza, aren't u a bit confused here on this one?

wonder what hood some of u grew up

where i'm from,a girl wont blackmail u like that

and u run to NL to knnow what to do, u wld

rather be telling them what u did. stupid kids!

@post,
and we are supposed to know wat to do?

post her pics and maybe i go know wetin to tell u.

izeek:

@post,
and we are supposed to know what to do?

post her pics and maybe i go know wetin to tell u.

Na only to dey look picture una know for this place

Which kind stories be dis, nairaland don dey dry ooo

A Combination of Nollywood,Bollywood and Ghanawood.

Togo wood sef follow for this one and Somalia wood

Thread closed he is married to the lady with kids now