FolarinToks:

God has changed/changing my life gradually oooooooooo............................. I am really happy about his divine intervention in my life. All hope has been lost by my parents as far womanising is concerned but God has taken control; no relationship/sex for almost 4months now. However, It is not easy but I m coping by his grace....................

My mum came to Uk last year June to spend time with me and left this April 2014 but guess what she experienced, 18 girlfriends btw that June and April 2014. She has asked me two questions that changed my playa game about this multiple sex/relationships. And the question were, How are you coping with all their saliva? How are you coping with the fact that you are lying on the chest of different spirits? O boy..................

The question/fear now is how to continue to overcome the temptation of those ladies in either my church, work and other engagements.....

saliva.... spirits............. hmmm!

joeace2020:


The moment you lie down to please a woman... u become her foot mat.

HMMMMM ...... yo makin sense.........more grease to your elbow

Observing

as if it so difficult.

going to two years myself , see nothing there than worrying yourself. decided to move ahead with life and career until I see who is going to step me up and not gold dippers pretending around

ireneony:
nairalanders, share your celibacy relationship experience here.
well I have decided to stay one year without dating....am in my seventh month.
if u know you have vowed not to be in a relationship for some period of time...share your celibacy experience here. whether you are started or your through with your celibacy, your contribution are needed.


celibacy to my own understanding means, when someone voluntarily decides to abstinent from sex, relationship and marriage over a period of time

one last thing you forgot to mention that makes celibacy either complete or not. I wont say its name. il just let you think of it

yemivictor:


saliva.... spirits............. hmmm!

O boy, think am true true oooo. kiss about 3 to 4 ladies and probably sleep with three to four of them in a day. Personal experience bro, there was a day I nearly collapsed(my eyes was closing while talking,completely drained) after I have done two ladies during d day and my real girlfriend later came late in d evening to pass night and demanded for it when I wasn't responding to all her sexual advances.............

It is a bad thing ooooo. I swear down. I don't sleep through d night, I ll answer calls and lied to pick another calls................... What a useless life. You need to see how peaceful my life is now

Juliaann:
well I vowed never to date again until further notice


Guys eh they really dealt with me

Why won't them? -When you keep looking at ur CBN!

jashar:
Ok. Lemme share mine.I'll start by saying I'm a Christian. I've been with this guy for 7 months now and we've not even kissed or touched not to talk of having s.ex.
Why? Cuz we fear God and we want to do things God's way.
Is it easy? No, but thank God for the fruit of Self Control.
By God's grace, we should get married next year.
I hope this is celibate enough.

wow , next date take note

I have dated good and bad girls non favoured me in a way I prefer d bad girl sha .bit for now I have bin single for two years now

1one:


Big ups man!!!

I hope you find that really super special person.
I'm sure it's a no - brainer if I asked if you wanted to marry a virgin.

I'm even somewhat like you, except for the age difference. I'd be 29 next year, and it's after I clock 29 that I want to really take the "find a wife" thing seriously

Abeg if the girl you finally find also has a virgin sister.... Don't dull ooo... Hook a brother up

ireneony:
there is a different between definition and meaning of a word. stop acting like an illiterate, use your medulla oblongata.

Chineke
What will I not see on nairaland biko

I'm a celebrity, does that make me a celibate?

Juliaann:
well I vowed never to date again until further notice


Guys eh they really dealt with me

If that's you @ your profile picture, then you might might need to try me out before you close office on indefinite strike,

I chose to keep my self cos I saw the heartbreak my sister suffered in the hand of her then boyfrnd whom she trusted so much. Giving ones body to the wrong person comes with a lot of heartache. It hasn't been easy but God has been my strength. Av been celibate all my life. maybe I should join Covent. Temptation is everywhere. God has been helping me through them.

Elantracey:

I can shine teeth too

jmoore:
I will clock 30 next year. I have never been in any relationship all my life. I got my 'v card' too.

Got plans to start searching early next year so I can marry by Dec 2015.

Brosssss!!!

1one:
My knowledge of celibacy is a bit toned towards abstinence from sex but since the OP has broadened it, then for me-

Relationship Celibacy - 5years

Sexual celibacy - 28years.

The sexual celibacy for me is like a sugar plated blade... On one end I feel really healthy and sane and "fly" knowing that nobody has seen that side of my existence or personality, on the flip side atimes, the sexual drive "peaks" so much that I virtually become red-faced .

I think what helps me to especially maintain my sexual celibacy is the thought of getting down with any random girl, I'm a very finicky person and so even if I wanted to have one night stands or cheap brothel sex, I still wouldn't be able to because I'd want the experience to be sincere and worth the time, not just with anybody but someone I have true feelings for.

Aside from all that English above though... I'm a Christian and pre-marital sex is not even the faintest, slightest option for me... Not even if a gun were pointed to my fore head.

As for relationship celibacy.... I've still not found the lady I have that "click" with...

Searching continues... Vision 2020

Stay off self service... The real thing is better of.

Juliaann:
smh

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ballyjzworld:

Stay off self service... The real thing is better of.

What is this one saying

1one:


What is this one saying

I dint read through all the posts b4 I commented. That issue has been ironed out. So kindly ignore.

ireneony:
nairalanders, share your celibacy relationship experience here.
well I have decided to stay one year without dating....am in my seventh month.
if u know you have vowed not to be in a relationship for some period of time...share your celibacy experience here. whether you are started or your through with your celibacy, your contribution are needed.


celibacy to my own understanding means, when someone voluntarily decides to abstinent from sex, relationship and marriage over a period of time

In other words you're revirginising? na the grammar I hear one day from one girl o.
Meanwhile be careful with this your decision before you end up with the gate man.
Once you've tasted it ,abstaining can be dangerous because you might just have an uncontrollable Hot day and the man on ground happens to be the wrongest guy and you begin to hear stories that touches.
Just make sure your Love Machine is always coming handy just in case you loose control......Ayaf said mine.

Jmoore, in one's desire for a virgin, does it make sense to ask a lady if she is one, either directly or indirectly?

Juliaann:
well I vowed never to date again until further notice


Guys eh they really dealt with me

as in they wipe you tire,boys bad.,they can fu..ck the hell out of a girl.

I decided to b celibate till i get married. I am now in my early 30's but it has not been easy-divine Grace! Now praying with wide google, for Mrs Right.
I believe dat wat d human mind can conceive, d human mind can achieve, by God's grace. Celibacy is possible!

Missmossy:
Observing

I know u never take part in that,hmm see her face smiling like mo ma like that tin. hmmm.

Juliaann:
well I vowed never to date again until further notice


Guys eh they really dealt with me

ah!ah!! I just click on your DP now I see why they dealt with u.,u carry back,u carry front,I don't know maybe u do package too,ah!

If you still massturbatee with objects even bigger than the average d*ck, then your celibacy doesn't count for shiiit.
Virginity/celibacy was worthy only back then when it was possible to also stay mentally pure.
But with all the soft pornn embedded in everywhere and everything we see and hear dis days, abeg f*ck.
If una like, be celibate till una p*ssy juice becomes like evostik......sehpan.

ireneony:
ask Google the meaning of celibacy, then u will know what am talking about

You wrongly explained celibacy in your initial post. Celibacy just means "staying out of sex for some reasons (mostly related to religion/others) for some times" (dating/marriage) not inclusive. You can be dating or in marriage but refuses to have sex for some stipulated period of time, that is what is called "Celibacy".

I am in my second year.