So I just met my Best friends GF two days ago! He has been with her for about Two Years now! I instantly remembered dating her shortly before she left for Nigeria at the time. We dated about 6 or 7 years ago and we dated for about two months or so. if you were in my shoes! Would you tell him or wait for her to tell him??

Nope

Brymo:
Nope

Let say the roles were reversed! You best friend which is mostly likely a girl beeped your man you have been dating for two years! and she doesn't tell you! will you be mad or no if you find out from your man instead??

Questions for ogun

Why should u tell him?? His gf should be the one to tell him,not u. So,just keep it to urslf.

I may tell, I may not depending on who I knew her to be while we were seeing each other, if at that time she wasn't wayward and a flirt there wouldn't really be any reason to tell but if she was a kezaih ( public toilet) I will call his attention to it and let him know what his new found love past was like, its up to him to decide whether to continue with the relationship but I owe him a duty to draw his attention to her past life. But attempting to ruin her relationship coz you f*cked her will be unfair and inhumane, she may have f*cked you but doesn't mean she's a bad girl, we all don f*ck no be so? And will it be fair to consider us all to be bad?

You should think of what will hapen to that relationship if you... It isn't realy necesary so please don't say a word to anyone tho I know humans do not forget easily, just focus on better things ahead

pweetixandy:
Why should u tell him?? His gf should be the one to tell him,not u. So,just keep it to urslf.

1. if don't tell him! and he finds out from her, he maybe like "You are my homie! why didn't u tell me?"
2. if I tell him and she doesn't! he may feel some type of way about her.

its a bit confusing especially because dudes are sensitivity these days!

ronald4lif:
I may tell, I may not depending on who I knew her to be while we were seeing each other, if at that time she wasn't wayward and a flirt there wouldn't really be any reason to tell but if she was a kezaih ( public toilet) I will call his attention to it and let him know what his new found love past was like, its up to him to decide whether to continue with the relationship but I owe him a duty to draw his attention to her past life. But attempting to ruin her relationship coz you f*cked her will be unfair and inhumane, she may have f*cked you but doesn't mean she's a bad girl, we all don f*ck no be so? And will it be fair to consider us all to be bad?

she used to get around before! but what if she has changed? people do change!! I think that's for him to decide! I definitely don't want to mess up the relationship

justmag:


she used to get around before! but what if she has changed? people do change!! I think that's for him to decide! I definitely don't want to mess up the relationship

Yes change its possible but how do one finds out if she has really changed? I am not sure if someone can change from being a sex maniac to becoming one who manages just one partner, most maniacs can hardly be sexually satisfied by one man

Wat objective do u want to achieve exactly?

Mind your bussiness

bigiyaro:
Wat objective do u want to achieve exactly?

To not appear shady!

Please op...Wahriss BLEEP?

justmag:


Let say the roles were reversed! You best friend which is mostly likely a girl beeped your man you have been dating for two years! and she doesn't tell you! will you be mad or no if you find out from your man instead??

nope,



it was before he met me.

I think itz better to keep it to yourself.

ronald4lif:
I may tell, I may not depending on who I knew her to be while we were seeing each other, if at that time she wasn't wayward and a flirt there wouldn't really be any reason to tell but if she was a kezaih ( public toilet) I will call his attention to it and let him know what his new found love past was like, its up to him to decide whether to continue with the relationship but I owe him a duty to draw his attention to her past life. But attempting to ruin her relationship coz you f*cked her will be unfair and inhumane, she may have f*cked you but doesn't mean she's a bad girl, we all don f*ck no be so? And will it be fair to consider us all to be bad?

Excluding me....

ERCROSS:


Excluding me....

Story, dey there dey deceive yourself

Why not I'll tell him every single detail including the sex part

MarthaK:
Questions for ogun

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justmag:


To not appear shady!

hmmmm.... Bt can u imagine how the world would be like if, everybody goes around telling everybody else '' I've f. uc. ked ur wife b4 u did '' anyway it depends on how selfish u r.

Tell him jor

I will tell him it wasn't serious and deny ever having anything intimate with her, and I expect her to use her discretion too...

samflexxy:
Why not I'll tell him every single detail including the sex part

Lol! Why wud i tell him d sex part