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How To Really Know If You Are In Love by unuane1(m): 5:11pm On Nov 28, 2014
There are many different kinds of love and
there's no single way to know whether
you're really feeling it -- or just in the throes
of a serious infatuation. Still, if you pay
attention to how you feel and act around
your special someone, you should be able to
figure out whether you're really in love. If
you are really in love, your answers to this
statements should be yes.
1. See if you can't picture a future
without him/her.
If you're really in love, then you shouldn't be
able to picture your future without them. It
doesn't matter if its at night or in the
morning or if your with your friends because
the fact that you cant stop means you have
found the one. Whether you're thinking of
moving to a new city, having children,
spending a year abroad, or reaching any of
your future goals, you should be thinking of
doing these things with your significant other
by your side.
2. See if you can't go a few hours without
thinking of your loved one.
To be in love, you don't have to be obsessive
about your loved one; in fact, quite the
opposite is true. If you have a healthy loving
relationship, then you should be able to
spend time apart from your loved one
without obsessing over what he or she is
doing every five seconds. However, if you
can go a whole weekend, or a whole month,
without your loved one once crossing your
mind, then you may like him a lot, but you
may not necessarily have reached the love
stage yet.
3. See if you truly value the opinions of
your loved one.
If you're really in love, then you should
value your loved one's opinion and should
care about what he or she thinks, whether it
¡¯s about your next career move or the
political situation in your country. Though
you don't have to care what he or she thinks
about absolutely everything, if you don't
truly value the input of your loved one, then
you may not be in love yet.
More Tips...
If just the sight of them brings a smile to your
face and makes you excited, then you
probably love them. Especially if just
thinking of them makes you happier.
If you think about him/her first thing in the
morning and as the last thing at night,
chances are that you are in love.
If you're in love, then you will notice them
for their inner beauty not for how they look.
When you're listening to love songs and you
think about "that special person", it may be a
sign that you are in love.
When you're in love and you see him/her,
you might feel a sudden shock in your heart
and your hearts might beat faster.
They make you get a surge of happiness or
excitement, but most importantly they
inspire you to be the best YOU even if they
don't return the love back.
If you are nervous around the person and
your heart "skips a beat" when the person
talks to you, you could be in love.
If you end up or ended up thinking about a
certain person as you are or were reading
this post, its probably love.
If you are dating but haven't been dating for
a long time, then don't assume you love them
and will always love them. Making big
decisions like getting married or losing your
virginity may seem like a good idea at the
time, but you may later realize that you don't
love the person and feel you've made a
mistake. Take your time, but don't be
pessimistic or you may lose out on actual
love.
Don't rush love! Find someone perfect for
you. Don't force yourself to "love" somebody
just because they're popular, or you think
you should.
So who is that special person in your life. If
what you feel for him/her is love, hold them
tight and never let go.
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by iamodenigbo1(m): 5:39pm On Nov 28, 2014
Good
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by Nobody: 6:11pm On Nov 28, 2014
Love is not for me.

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Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by Nobody: 6:54pm On Nov 28, 2014
3cycle:
Love is not for me.
do you seriously mean that? it's kind of hard not fall in love with the tall dark and hansome engineer you said you fancy
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by Nobody: 7:03pm On Nov 28, 2014
I think we are in love, just waiting for the right timing to click on a deeper level.

If it doesn't ,then life goes on cool
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by newguy1(m): 8:15pm On Nov 28, 2014
All these tips on how to know this how to know that is all bull.shi.t no offence to op. U see their is nothing as love. U find someone u think u r compatible with if u chemistry jels then start a relation.we all create dis concept of love in our mind that is y we keep looking for something that doesn't exist.
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by hizson(m): 8:17pm On Nov 28, 2014
I don't believe in love
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by Tymax(m): 8:19pm On Nov 28, 2014
3cycle:
Love is not for me.
Stories that touch....
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by dmcdad: 11:23pm On Nov 28, 2014
3cycle:
Love is not for me.
Me too

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Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by Nobody: 11:27pm On Nov 28, 2014
dmcdad:

Me too
We need to form a Club
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by dmcdad: 11:30pm On Nov 28, 2014
3cycle:

We need to form Club
Abi... I buy your idea with 10k.cheesy

I go be treasurer of the club sha.
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by Nobody: 11:31pm On Nov 28, 2014
dmcdad:

Abi... I buy your idea with 10k.cheesy

I go be treasurer of the club sha.
We need members and sponsors....
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by ilotriouzAY(m): 11:43pm On Nov 28, 2014
Op,I really don't av to comment because I believe dat if u are in love,u will knw naturally

By the way,space ur post
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by dmcdad: 12:05am On Nov 29, 2014
3cycle:

We need members and sponsors....
That one na small thing e go be for you na... Just use your charm you know...cheesy All those wvery every wey una dey take deceive us.grin Flaunt them wella make we get sponsors sharp sharp. No time ooooooo.wink
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by Tonydeeb(m): 12:35am On Nov 29, 2014
You don't need no passages to read to discover whether yr in love or not...it's natural...bsyds, with dos tips of yrs, evn person wey don fall brk hand, brk neck on top infantuation go tink sey hin don fall in love

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