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How To Really Know If You Are In Love by unuane1(m): 5:11pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
There are many different kinds of love and there's no single way to know whether you're really feeling it -- or just in the throes of a serious infatuation. Still, if you pay attention to how you feel and act around your special someone, you should be able to figure out whether you're really in love. If you are really in love, your answers to this statements should be yes. 1. See if you can't picture a future without him/her. If you're really in love, then you shouldn't be able to picture your future without them. It doesn't matter if its at night or in the morning or if your with your friends because the fact that you cant stop means you have found the one. Whether you're thinking of moving to a new city, having children, spending a year abroad, or reaching any of your future goals, you should be thinking of doing these things with your significant other by your side. 2. See if you can't go a few hours without thinking of your loved one. To be in love, you don't have to be obsessive about your loved one; in fact, quite the opposite is true. If you have a healthy loving relationship, then you should be able to spend time apart from your loved one without obsessing over what he or she is doing every five seconds. However, if you can go a whole weekend, or a whole month, without your loved one once crossing your mind, then you may like him a lot, but you may not necessarily have reached the love stage yet. 3. See if you truly value the opinions of your loved one. If you're really in love, then you should value your loved one's opinion and should care about what he or she thinks, whether it ¡¯s about your next career move or the political situation in your country. Though you don't have to care what he or she thinks about absolutely everything, if you don't truly value the input of your loved one, then you may not be in love yet. More Tips... If just the sight of them brings a smile to your face and makes you excited, then you probably love them. Especially if just thinking of them makes you happier. If you think about him/her first thing in the morning and as the last thing at night, chances are that you are in love. If you're in love, then you will notice them for their inner beauty not for how they look. When you're listening to love songs and you think about "that special person", it may be a sign that you are in love. When you're in love and you see him/her, you might feel a sudden shock in your heart and your hearts might beat faster. They make you get a surge of happiness or excitement, but most importantly they inspire you to be the best YOU even if they don't return the love back. If you are nervous around the person and your heart "skips a beat" when the person talks to you, you could be in love. If you end up or ended up thinking about a certain person as you are or were reading this post, its probably love. If you are dating but haven't been dating for a long time, then don't assume you love them and will always love them. Making big decisions like getting married or losing your virginity may seem like a good idea at the time, but you may later realize that you don't love the person and feel you've made a mistake. Take your time, but don't be pessimistic or you may lose out on actual love. Don't rush love! Find someone perfect for you. Don't force yourself to "love" somebody just because they're popular, or you think you should. So who is that special person in your life. If what you feel for him/her is love, hold them tight and never let go. |
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by iamodenigbo1(m): 5:39pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
Good |
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by Nobody: 6:11pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
Love is not for me. 1 Like |
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by Nobody: 6:54pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
3cycle:do you seriously mean that? it's kind of hard not fall in love with the tall dark and hansome engineer you said you fancy |
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by Nobody: 7:03pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
I think we are in love, just waiting for the right timing to click on a deeper level. If it doesn't ,then life goes on |
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by newguy1(m): 8:15pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
All these tips on how to know this how to know that is all bull.shi.t no offence to op. U see their is nothing as love. U find someone u think u r compatible with if u chemistry jels then start a relation.we all create dis concept of love in our mind that is y we keep looking for something that doesn't exist. |
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by hizson(m): 8:17pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
I don't believe in love |
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by Tymax(m): 8:19pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
3cycle:Stories that touch.... |
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by dmcdad: 11:23pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
3cycle: 1 Like |
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by Nobody: 11:27pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
dmcdad:We need to form a Club |
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by dmcdad: 11:30pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by Nobody: 11:31pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
dmcdad:We need members and sponsors.... |
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by ilotriouzAY(m): 11:43pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
Op,I really don't av to comment because I believe dat if u are in love,u will knw naturally By the way,space ur post |
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by dmcdad: 12:05am On Nov 29, 2014 |
3cycle:That one na small thing e go be for you na... Just use your charm you know... All those wvery every wey una dey take deceive us. Flaunt them wella make we get sponsors sharp sharp. No time ooooooo. |
Re: How To Really Know If You Are In Love by Tonydeeb(m): 12:35am On Nov 29, 2014 |
You don't need no passages to read to discover whether yr in love or not...it's natural...bsyds, with dos tips of yrs, evn person wey don fall brk hand, brk neck on top infantuation go tink sey hin don fall in love |
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