How To Make Your
Relationship Lead To The
Altar
Nothing confuses the soul of a person like jumping
from one relationship to another. The biggest problem a
person can have is excessive relationship.
There are certain principles for taking your relationship
to the altar; make up your mind to stay away from
romantic relationship until you are ready for marriage.
You can meet the right person at the wrong time. There
is a difference between friendship and relationship.
Date only people who are ready for marriage. Every
time is not right for a woman; don't allow student who
are not ready for marriage block those that are ready.
A lady that is in her first or final year can get married
but a lady that is over aged may find it difficult getting
attention. A student is not ready for marriage because
he does not have the resources yet. Don’t allow a man
that is not ready tie you down. The man ought to be
ready before meeting you, long-time relationship rarely
lead to marriage and if it does it get boring on time.
Two years should be the maximum always ask your
partner his plan for the future.
Know yourself and know what you want. The major
principle to choosing a life partner is self-discovery. A
man that is a minister is different from a Christian
chose a Christian everybody is fine in the face it
depend on who you both are and your vision in life.
Are you certain he will always be there for you? You
are the one to choose from the many, so you have to
have a desire. It is your desire that god will fulfill
(psalm 34:4). If you are with someone and there is no
attraction for three month then you should run for your
life. Marriage is not only agape there must be
connection from within. Some you spend time with and
don’t realize time has gone; your personality should
also attract him. You must have the same partner, he
must love you back, don’t mortgage your happiness.
Commit to the relationship with all your heart; have the
kind of commitment married people have for their
marriage except sex. Commit to see it to the altar,
attraction brings you together but commitment keeps
you together. Don’t threaten each other with break up,
resolve differences; there is no relation without
conflict. Courtship is rehearsal for marriage, learn to
call each other and spend quality time together. Work
is not an excuse when it comes to someone that you
truly love, you will always find time and energy for the
man you love.
Manifest the fruit of the spirit in that relationship. If
your relationship is all conflict then you are not
practicing the bible. Let the other party win the
augment every time, no need for nagging you are not
competing you are complementing. If you treasure your
relationship then you must be ready to work on your
character; work on gentleness, kindness and self-
control.
Go for what your parent want or be ready to stick with
your choice no matter the pressure. From day one find
out what your parent want and that you are
comfortable then be on a look out for a perfect fit. Don’t
abandon years of relationship because of your parent.
Parental consent is more important for the women than
men. For a man you can stand on your decision they
will eventually approve but for a woman if there are
not comfortable with the man they won’t let go of you
no matter how well you explain. But of you should
answer this question; can you convince your parent?
Work on a positive answer.
Despair the fear of other parties; marry someone you
trust completely not someone people like or trust for
you, remember it will be you and him not you and them.
Marry someone that will give freedom not someone
that will turn you to a prisoner.
It not advisable to marry a man you fear. There is no
barrier in dating someone that is much older than you
so far he can come down to your level and you can
relate with him like you are age mate, love should cast
out all fear in you.

By SinglesForMarriage