Hey all, I've been reading these posts for a while and it seems you guys have pretty good insight on relationships, so I am seeking a second opinion here.
I'm friends with this couple, and they have been going pretty well for almost 3 years now. Well the guy confided in me that he is fed up with the relationship, but the reason he has given me got me confused. He started professional school about a year ago and is currently not working, but his girlfriend works. Well apparently, she made some "bad financial decisions" in the past cause she always needs him to help her out with this bill and that bill (she has no family around). He claims that he has probably given her a couple thousand bucks, with a big chunk of that money leaving his pockets while he is in school.

It seems he has already made up his mind, and I hate to see him hurt her. But he sees her as a burden now more than a girlfriend. Would you have done the same thing, or stick it out?

i fink 4 both of em 2 be happy d guy got to leave the gal. tough i know but if they keep goin out they might end up despicin each oda ass.

so cuzz she wants a lil help from him, he is running? dis is not enuff excuse. if the girl is using him, dat will be something else but from your story, i deduce dat it aint the case so the guy shud find a way to co-habit with his new burden. and u also got me confused cuzz u said he aint working and his girl works so why wud he wann@ leave the girl when he aint got no job?

can u kinda explain this thing better cos from d way i see it, he aint got enough stuff 2 say he wanna leave her and like diddy4 said y wuld he wanna leave her wen he ain't got no job and d gurl do?