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Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by crackhaus: 4:29pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
adebisicutie:Are you saying that in all the 50years some people have stayed married, it's improbable that a man may have coerced his wife into having sex with him even once? |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by cococandy(f): 4:34pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
adebisicutie:or the boy could be underage and as such his consent can't be considered valid. Imagine a 15yr old boy lured into having sex with a 40yr old woman. That is r@pe right there. The sad thing is that the little boy won't even know he has just been raped. Instead he might see it as an achievement. |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by crackhaus: 4:38pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
cococandy:Isn't this because most boys/men usually don't assume the 'victim stance' when it comes to experiences with girls/women? |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by adebisicutie: 4:42pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
crackhaus: The normal thing is to appeal to the woman, the same way a woman will appeal to her husband if he turns her down . If the problem persists then you move on to intervention but never force. No decent man will ever force himself on his wife 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
crackhaus: Based on what? A loving, passionate, healthy relationship and ra.pe?? It's not as common, but a man can indeed be ra.ped by a woman. It's usually done with the help of drug or drink, not much different from the usual tactic |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by adebisicutie: 4:43pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
crackhaus: A lot of women in the US and UK have been jailed for statutory rape 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by coogar: 4:43pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
cococandy: we shall continue to educate you.... www.nairaland.com/attachments/1931602_image_jpeg9f360c5ab7736510df54c882e9dbf188 adebisicutie: why limit it to statutory räpe for women? so it's only when her victim is a child that she can be guilty of räpe? is that law not ridiculous? 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
adebisicutie: It's common sense, isn't it? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by crackhaus: 4:47pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
Timbuktou:Indeed, and still you wouldn't call it r.ape nonetheless. |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by crackhaus: 4:53pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
adebisicutie:And how many of those did the boy involved report to the authorities himself as 'r.ape'? |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by crackhaus: 4:58pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
ileobatojo:Madam with 'uncommon sense', are you still on my case but without the balls to address me directly? Lmao.. I hope you hold a 'Scientific Invention Patent' or 'Nobel Prize' with this your uncommon sense though...joker! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by cococandy(f): 4:59pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
crackhaus:who's fault is that If you guys love being grabbed fvcked against your wish,good for yous we don't have to like it too Hence we report. The onus is on the boy to report such an experience instead of seeing it as a boost to his manhood that he was able to bed a woman more advanced than him 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by cococandy(f): 5:01pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
coogar:still women are jailed for such crimes? Huh? Educate yourself first. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by crackhaus: 5:02pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul:Agreed. |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by coogar: 5:02pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
crackhaus: her reply is hilarious.... we said a woman cannot legally rapê a man, she said a lot of women have been jailed for statutory rapē. according to her logic, a child is a man. cococandy: statutory rapë is an act of räpe against a minor(a child)....a boy is not a man. you need education. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by Nobody: 5:04pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
crackhaus: Well, it's true. I, however, disagree with your underhanded assertions in that post I quoted |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by crackhaus: 5:04pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
cococandy:Okay, we're not fighting. The discussion is about a husband and wife (two grown adults), let's put that back into perspective. |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by adebisicutie: 5:12pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
coogar: I've already said above that the laws about rape are old fashioned and they need to be updated because yes a woman can commit rape |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by adebisicutie: 5:15pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
crackhaus: I don't have the statistics on that, before boys were taught to consider sex with an older woman as a conquest so majority of them will rather brag about it to their friends than report it. But now young boys are gradually beginning to understand that it isn't something to boast about to their friends but rather a thing to report because it is a crime |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by coogar: 5:17pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
adebisicutie: so why aren't the soldiers of "gender equality" fighting for this since we are supposed to believe all they care about is the equality of the genders? they would rather argue over gender wage discrimination, child custody & FGM. |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by crackhaus: 5:22pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
adebisicutie:I understand the process of cajoling and convincing, but we're back to the same question. Is it improbable that a 'decent man' in a marriage of over 50years could have forced/coerced his wife into sex, even if it was just once? |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by crackhaus: 5:28pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul:About citing r.ape after the act, only if there was already a strain in that marriage/relationship? |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by lolababe331e: 5:29pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
crackhaus: Any man who has ever forced himself on any woman, his wife or otherwise is not decent 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by cococandy(f): 5:30pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
crackhaus:an adult woman can still rape a man.. Yea we know men are generally stronger but cases where a woman can over power the man by the use of drugs or whatever happen too even if it is rare. Have you heard the term "made to penetrate"? Used to describe a situation where a man is made to have sex without his express consent. It is recognized and the offender is liable to get jail time |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by coogar: 5:30pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
crackhaus: i think it depends on what each individual classifies as force or coercion. i used to know a dude who told me his girl likes it violently. they must scuffle, tear each other's clothes to shreds before she can get her "high". she needs a bit of adrenaline to enjoy sėx. now - in the eyes of the law, it could be argued it's rapë. hell, if she walks to a police station after the act, the boyf would get a räpe charge. one just needs to be careful - get everything behind closed doors on tape. |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by cococandy(f): 5:34pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
coogar:nope. An employer made to have sex with his female boss is a victim of statutory r@pe too. And I thought you were intelligent. You even hard some dimwits like your post. Gosh y'all need some time out to go back to high school. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by Nobody: 5:35pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
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Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by Nobody: 5:36pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
coogar:By the way, this is the future of sexxual intercourse. Who knows how long before 'yes means yes' becomes the reality of our lives. |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by crackhaus: 5:37pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
lolababe331e:Noted! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by coogar: 5:38pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
cococandy: you are a bush woman! statutory rapë is primarily centred on the age of consent, nothing to do with boss/employee relationship. if the employee is over the age of consent, statutory rape does not apply. do you know the meaning at all or which school had the gall to grant you a certificate with this level of illiteracy? 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by crackhaus: 5:39pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
cococandy:I'm guilty of liking his post But you're also liking posts that make absolutely no sense, does that make you a dimwit also? 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by coogar: 5:44pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
crackhaus: she's the half-wit here.... boss/adult employee forced sex is statutory räpe to her & yet she has access to the internet, she would rather watch telemundo than learn about the world around her 1 Like |
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