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Love Hurts!! 4 Things You Must NEVER Do After A Break Up by Kenneth205(m): 6:11pm On Dec 13, 2014
Desperation often takes over after a bad a break-up happens, especially for serious relationships. At those moments, there are 4 things you must never do.

Love hurts. Yes it does. In fact, according to some people, true love hurts even more than casual romance.

Sometimes, in the midst of all the hurt, we give up and the relationship is killed, with the good things it came with.

In some unfortunate scenarios, one of the parties is still hoping for the romance to continue while the other one may have gone as far as getting someone new. Sad.

When a break-up happens, especially for serious relationships, there is this desperation that befalls the hurt party.

But like all things done in desperation, it sometimes leads to more problems.

Anyway, here are 4 things Wha’anda things you should NEVER do after a break up:

1. Do not pine over old text messages. Ah, those old text messages are evil. You read them —the mushy moment messages, and your heart goes into frenzy. Best thing is to just either delete them (if you are sure there is no comeback) or try to ignore them.

2. Do not begin to listen to forlorn love songs like Akon’s sad ‘Lonely’ or Eamon’s butt-hurt ‘Bleep What I Said.’ It is best that you also avoid songs that tune up your emotions, soft like Enya’s beats or even Radiohead. The reasons is that these songs bring a rush of emotions that might make you cry your eyes out or do something much worse —like suicide!

3. Do not begin to stalk your ex on Facebook (Social media). Trust Wha’anda, the more you read about the person’s activities, the worse you’ll feel. You just might be unfortunate to read updates about you or learn that he or she is getting married. A status update or a tweet can crash your whole day. So stay off their social media profiles until you move on.

4. Do not stop loving. The easiest cure for a heart-hurt is falling in love again. See, staying alone for a zillion years will neither erase the sad event nor make you immune to the need for sex and love. Paid or random sex will also not be a good as sex inside a
relationship, even if it will eventually crash. So you gotta go out there and get someone who appreciates you instead of crying over spilt milk while the person you are pining over is living the life.

There you go…Stay in love and stay happy.
Re: Love Hurts!! 4 Things You Must NEVER Do After A Break Up by Ezedon(m): 6:22pm On Dec 13, 2014
this poßt. remind me of my ex, whom i recently broke up with due to too much listening of gossip
Re: Love Hurts!! 4 Things You Must NEVER Do After A Break Up by mkpakanaodogwu(m): 6:31pm On Dec 13, 2014
Ezedon:
this poßt. remind me of my ex, whom i recently broke up with due to too much listening of gossip
eyaa
Re: Love Hurts!! 4 Things You Must NEVER Do After A Break Up by jbaby265(f): 6:32pm On Dec 13, 2014
hmmm i gat a question for u @op..

when your guy stoped calling u for no reason..no quarrels no argument..he just stoped like that and when u try calling him he responds rudely..What do i call that? or what do u think is wrong?
Re: Love Hurts!! 4 Things You Must NEVER Do After A Break Up by lgboks(m): 6:41pm On Dec 13, 2014
As soon as I got to the first number I realised I was reading the novel of a funny video I have on me phone grin (op no end the story well because at the end of the video the guy get another babe when make brain pass he ex) wink
Re: Love Hurts!! 4 Things You Must NEVER Do After A Break Up by Missmossy(f): 7:07pm On Dec 13, 2014
Hahaha true though grin
Re: Love Hurts!! 4 Things You Must NEVER Do After A Break Up by Nobody: 7:55pm On Dec 13, 2014
jbaby265:
hmmm i gat a question for u @op..

when your guy stoped calling u for no reason..no quarrels no argument..he just stoped like that and when u try calling him he responds rudely..What do i call that? or what do u think is wrong?
lol xmas tinz on point #Autobreakup
Re: Love Hurts!! 4 Things You Must NEVER Do After A Break Up by Longstride: 8:30pm On Dec 13, 2014
[size=16pt]GUILTY grin[/size]
Re: Love Hurts!! 4 Things You Must NEVER Do After A Break Up by Kenneth205(m): 8:31pm On Dec 13, 2014
lgboks:
As soon as I got to the first number I realised I was reading the novel of a funny video I have on me phone grin (op no end the story well because at the end of the video the guy get another babe when make brain pass he ex) wink
gringrin.. Bt I didn't get diz 4rm any Video bro

jbaby265:
hmmm i gat a question for u @op..

when your guy stoped calling u for no reason..no quarrels no argument..he just stoped like that and when u try calling him he responds rudely..What do i call that? or what do u think is wrong?
My dear, that is Breakup Alert.

Ezedon:
this poßt. remind me of my ex, whom i recently broke up with due to too much listening of gossip

#Take Heart Bro.
Re: Love Hurts!! 4 Things You Must NEVER Do After A Break Up by dechandel(f): 8:51pm On Dec 13, 2014
jbaby265:
hmmm i gat a question for u @op..

when your guy stoped calling u for no reason..no quarrels no argument..he just stoped like that and when u try calling him he responds rudely..What do i call that? or what do u think is wrong?
Him breakup strategy no sexy o
Nawa o
Re: Love Hurts!! 4 Things You Must NEVER Do After A Break Up by braine(m): 4:08am On Dec 14, 2014
Number 4! Who told you sex outside a relationship after a break up for the main time is not sweet??
Re: Love Hurts!! 4 Things You Must NEVER Do After A Break Up by Maamin(m): 4:42am On Dec 14, 2014
braine:
Number 4! Who told you sex outside a relationship after a break up for the main time is not sweet??

Abeg help me ask am O!
Re: Love Hurts!! 4 Things You Must NEVER Do After A Break Up by Nobody: 5:02am On Dec 14, 2014
Kenneth205:
Desperation often takes over after a bad a break-up happens, especially for serious relationships. At those moments, there are 4 things you must never do.

Love hurts. Yes it does. In fact, according to some people, true love hurts even more than casual romance.

Sometimes, in the midst of all the hurt, we give up and the relationship is killed, with the good things it came with.

In some unfortunate scenarios, one of the parties is still hoping for the romance to continue while the other one may have gone as far as getting someone new. Sad.

When a break-up happens, especially for serious relationships, there is this desperation that befalls the hurt party.

But like all things done in desperation, it sometimes leads to more problems.

Anyway, here are 4 things Wha’anda things you should NEVER do after a break up:

1. Do not pine over old text messages. Ah, those old text messages are evil. You read them —the mushy moment messages, and your heart goes into frenzy. Best thing is to just either delete them (if you are sure there is no comeback) or try to ignore them.

2. Do not begin to listen to forlorn love songs like Akon’s sad ‘Lonely’ or Eamon’s butt-hurt ‘Bleep What I Said.’ It is best that you also avoid songs that tune up your emotions, soft like Enya’s beats or even Radiohead. The reasons is that these songs bring a rush of emotions that might make you cry your eyes out or do something much worse —like suicide!

3. Do not begin to stalk your ex on Facebook (Social media). Trust Wha’anda, the more you read about the person’s activities, the worse you’ll feel. You just might be unfortunate to read updates about you or learn that he or she is getting married. A status update or a tweet can crash your whole day. So stay off their social media profiles until you move on.

4. Do not stop loving. The easiest cure for a heart-hurt is falling in love again. See, staying alone for a zillion years will neither erase the sad event nor make you immune to the need for sex and love. Paid or random sex will also not be a good as sex inside a
relationship, even if it will eventually crash. So you gotta go out there and get someone who appreciates you instead of crying over spilt milk while the person you are pining over is living the life.

There you go…Stay in love and stay happy.
it's really hard for one not to do no 2,
But hard to do no 4.

Heartbreak pain sha(true luv o)

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