The Highly Successful, Self-Confident, and
Independent Woman

The alpha female is supreme among other
females. She is also the queen among them.
Other females often look to the alpha female
for leadership. However, there are some
females who feel threatened by the alpha
female because this female tolerates no
nonsense and does not believe in gameplaying
and upmanship. Now here are the ten
characteristics of the alpha female:

(1) She is never embarrassed to ask for what
she wants.
Assertive is not a word that she is
uncomfortable with. In fact, being assertive is
second nature to her. She believes that all
right thinking people should be never been
hesitant regarding having their desires and
wants met.
To her, you should be able to be responsible
for your own life and take care of yourself.
The very idea that a person who refuses to ask
for what he/she wants is a total anathema to
her. Does that person want to be rescued?
Asking for what one wants is what life is all
about. Her motto is that life is for the takers
and participators. Being indecisive and wishy
washy is not in her vocabulary.

(2) She enjoys being on an equal or superior
spar with men.
Why not? The idea that she
must subvert her intelligence and other strong
attributes and characteristics because she is a
woman is so 19th century. She believes that a
confident, intelligent, and mature man is not
threatened bya powerful and highly successful
woman.
In fact, such man welcome such women
because they are on a par with them.
Furthermore, she believes that men are just
other people, no more, no less. She does not
believe in playing the weak damsel in distress.
In fact, she is loathe to play silly, coquettish
games of any kind. In fact, this inane
affectation would sicken her to say the very
least. Her motto-weak and insecure men need
not apply!

(3) She is not passive regarding the pursuance
of any type of pleasure.
To her being a woman
is not equated with being passive. Not at all.
She is oftentimes the initiator regarding
seeking all avenues of fulfillment. This often
including the sexual arenas. To be passive in
her eyes means to be acquiescent in life and
she is anything but acquiescent. In her eyes,
that is equivalent to being owned and she does
not want to be owned-not by tangle and/or
intangible constructs. She is proactive
regarding approaching her life. To her, life is
for the active and aggressive!

(4) She does not mind being wildly and
uninhibitedly feminine and sexy.
To her, being
feminine, beautiful, and sexy are not antitheses
to being independent, powerful, and liberated.
In fact, the former words are quite analogous
to the latter words. She views sexual
stereotypes is limited and atavistic labels that
limits the full human being. She believes that
human beings are beyond stereotypes which
are only artificial constructs to describe the
full human being. To her, the old stereotype of
being a feminine woman is morbidly
suffocating to her. She refuses to view the
being beautiful, feminine, sexy, liberated, and
independent as oxymorons.

(5) She does not mind at all if a man earns less
than she does
....as long as he contributes to the
relationship and upholds his end regarding
household responsibilities. Who says that a
man has to earn more than a woman? Not her.
She does not subscribe to such outdated and
utterly sexist paradigms and philosophies. She
believes what a person earns is not based
upon gender but by measured and
immeasurable qualifications. She feels that it is
quite normal and acceptable in some
circumstances for a woman to outearn a man,
so be it. She does not mind being the
breadwinner in the family if need be.

(6) She believes in having a career to establish
her self-worth and independence.
She believes in being a contributor to life. She feels when
one contributes to life, one is truly a full and
authentic person. She also feels worthwhile as
a consequence of being a contributor.
Furthermore, a contributor always leave a
posthumous mark to the society and world at
large. In other words, the contributor have
made an imprint in life.
For her a career does that. A career is why for
her to use and exhibit her intelligence and
talent for the world to see. She also gets a
sense of self-actualization regarding a career.
In her eyes, nothing makes a woman more self-
fulfilled and self-actualized than to have a
satisfying career. It is the ultimate aphrodisiac
and elixir in her eyes. Besides that, having a
career means power and power has its own
rewards. Being powerful means calling a shot
caller which translates into OWNERSHIP.
Nothing makes an alpha woman happier than
to own and be in charge of one's destiny.

(7)She thrives on being in responsible positions
and being in charge.
Being responsible for others is equate to power for her. She is highly, if not prodigiously, intelligent. She also
believes that she is more than highly capable
of the task at hand. Since she knows that for a
fact, who is better than she to assume high
powered and responsible positions. She is THE
BEST at what she does and NO ONE can do it
better than she.

Furthermore, power means being a mentor and
of help to others, cultivating, encouraging, and
develop their human potential for her good
and that of the firm. To her power is an
integral part of the human construct. Either
one has power which means that one can be
highly proactive and influential in the events of
humankind or one is utterly powerless, always
being at the behest of others. She refuses to be
on a proverbial leash, only answering to
herself.

( She refuses to believe in the antiquated
concept that one becomes less agile and more
infirm with age.
Age is just a number to her.
Besides, it is such an artificial construct which
means nothing in the scheme of things. She is
the type of woman who often remains vital in
her old age.
She thinks that anyone who succumbs to
atavistic stereotypes regarding aging needs a
good psychiatrist or better yet should starting
broadening his/her life perception-and fast!
She, for one, is not going to become an old
lady.
Think of Betty White, a nonagenarian, and
Rita Moreno, an octogenarian, quite youthful
ladies who totally exemplify that one is as
young as one believes one's self to be. These
ladies keep being fierce and get even more
fiercer with each passing year!

(9) She does not believe in complaining and
whining.
She sees complaining and whining as
abject passivity and refusal to improve the
negative circumstances of one's life. She
furthermore view complaining and whining as a
sign of being a borderline psychotic. She
figures that if one is mentally healthy and
mature, he/she should remedy his/her life if it
is less than positive and/or satisfying.
She believes that everyone's life has some
percentage of difficulty and hardship in it. To
just complain and whiny is a total waste of
energy. That energy is better served in
assessing, challenging, and solving what
adversities, difficulties, and/or other problems
one may have. Besides she maintain, other
people, unless they are close to you, are
uninterested in listening to your lamentations.
She staunchly believes that complainers and
whiners are total wimps who should be
horsewhipped into sanity and maturity! There
is no need to say on this issue!

(10) She takes no quarter and believes in no
excuses.
She believes if one makes one bed,
he/she should lie in it, either for good or bad.
In other words, one reaps what one sows. If
one exerts little or no effort, do not expect to
reap tremendous rewards.
She finds it totally nonplussable that many
people want success and other types of
rewards in life but refuse to put in the
necessary organization, planning, and sacrifices
to obtain their goals. When they do not
achieve their desired goals, they blame
everyone and everything but themselves.
This excuse making really incenses her to the
multillionth degree. Stop with the excuses
already, she reasons. To her, people find it
easier to make numerous excuses if their lives
do not go the way they want than to look into
the issues at hand. Her motto is that each
person has what he/she strives for and
deserves, nothing more and nothing less!
In summation, the alpha woman is a no-
nonsense woman. She is supremely confident
and self-assured. She knows what she wants,
how to ask for, and obtain it. She is also a true
realist, no sugarcoating life situations for her.
She likes life at its most unadulterated essence.
She appreciates the good and can learn and
improve from the bad in life. She also knows
how to make the bad exceedingly beneficial for
her.

She does not believe in antiquated gender
stereotypes for that does not even tough the
iceberg with her as far as she is concerned.
She is beyond stereotypes.
She is a take charge
woman who makes no excuses in life. She is
and has what she earns and deserves. Now you
have my synopsis on the ten characteristics of
the alpha female. The alpha female is totally
unique among other women! In fact, she is a
prototype of women in the 21st century and
beyond.

Source: http://gmwilliams.hubpages.com/hub/Ten-Characteristics-of-the-Alpha-Females

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Hmmm I need a woman of such?
Where art thou woman?

is it a good thing to have one?

My woman can't be an alpha female....
cos I've got no woman

Alfa female indeed..imam nkor?

she is unmarried,lonely, angry and bitter. he heheheheheheh

I can identify

dechandel:
Op sweetie. Pls define feminism for me

my dear..feminism was piloted by Alpha Females.

Most men who do not see nor aware of these traits in women before been committed often find themselves at loggerheads with such women.

As per your request...Feminism is an idea,a system of belief and a movement (political) that seeks the equal rights,treatment,power,benefits,opportunities,as same as men and re-definition of roles of women in any society.

mikolo80:
she is unmarried,lonely, angry and bitter. he heheheheheheh

On the contrary many are...and their word is power in such union....except with Alpha Males of cos.

wetdspace:
Hmmm I need a woman of such?
Where art thou woman?

They are every where but more notably in the following areas:

Politics,Judiciary,Media,Education,Religion and High Profile Business empires.

donodion:

On the contrary many are...and their word is power in such union....except with Alpha Males of cos.

ok

...

Hmmmm, tnx buh i dnt need such woman in my lyf

Oluwatosean:
Hmmmm, tnx buh i dnt need such woman in my lyf

Lol....do you know if your current sweetheart is one.There are many alpha females out there in recession mode,awaitng the right moment to unveil their personality.

These pointers here are just pointers to inform you of who men ended up with. There are Alpha females,Beta females and....Alpha females wanna-be.

And they are not in Nigeria

lilmax:
And they are not in Nigeria

jaburata

dechandel:
Op sweetie. Pls define feminism for me

Am a feminist,I can tell you more abt it,but u must follow me somewhere

A good number of Malaysian women have this characteristics....

Well I'll be damned!!

Bona fide alpha female.

*singing bey's "gurls run the world"......

Proud member of this here sorority since the 1980s.


Oh no....dont get it twisted. Respect that....

I play this game well. Hate the game not the player.


Ask the few men who have the pleasure of knowing me intimately and they will tell ya.......

I made them feel like a man. They still wore the pants. And I wore the skirts, and heels.

Like it. Hate it. Tweet that # dont give a rats @$$. #

*CLICK*

Chiadanin:
Well I'll be damned!!

Bona fide alpha female.

*singing bey's "gurls run the world"......

Proud member of this here sorority since the 1980s.


Oh no....dont get it twisted. Respect that....

I play this game well. Hate the game not the player.


Ask the few men who have the pleasure of knowing me intimately and they will tell ya.......

I made them feel like a man. They still wore the pants. And I wore the skirts, and heels.

Like it. Hate it. Tweet that # dont give a rats @$$. #

*CLICK*

and that's difference between an Alpha Female and a feminist.However they been made to feel as a man still revolves round your calls and rules.
An Alpha female wont mind been in a relationship as long the man " learn to cope" with her whims and caprices.Core course 001

faqman:
A good number of Malaysian women have this characteristics....

Really? despite been a largely popularized islamic nation?.

Are the alpha females attracted to strong, assertive men, just like them or beta males?

worwor, bitter and lonely girls who have elapsed their era of palatability and sexual allure be like,

i am an alpha female, thats why men are scared/avoid me, meanwhile you're just a hideous looking ogre.








i love my women sublime, calm and collected as a true african.

donodion:

Really? despite been a largely popularized islamic nation?.

yes oo..

Zeemoor:
Are the alpha females attracted to strong, assertive men, just like them or beta males?

Precisely my dear.Alpha females have strong attrction to alpha males with equal or superior intellectual tendecies.While on the other hand,Beta males are devastatingly attracted and much committed to Alpha females, not the other way round.Remember "Domination".."Power", is the key here.Its either she have it her way or you walk.

An Alpha female would rather keep a discreet connection with alpha males while still in involve with beta males.As most times,Beta males are in their book more of a Pet than Partner....(sound harsh but true.Imagine what you do with your lovely pet to get a clearer picture).

The word "submission" in a union is a call to war with Alpha females unless...the male is the one to submit.

An Alpha Male knows how to "tame" Alpha females by utilizing their weak points,a feat most Beta males would rather abstain from in the interest of peace

faqman:

yes oo..

wow...who would have thought an islamic nation would have a social system where the women calls the shots.

donodion:

They are every where but more notably in the following areas:

Politics,Judiciary,Media,Education,Religion and High Profile Business empires.

Yes bro... Well said. And they act like they're tough. One only need the secret to break their defense.

donodion:

wow...who would have thought an islamic nation would have a social system where the women calls the shots.

that is malaysia ooo...they dont really restrict their women...
you will see women driving exotic cars
even sef the former vc of my school na woman...

wetdspace:


Yes bro... Well said. And they act like they're tough. One only need the secret to break their defense.

True.But bro Apha Females are naturally endowed with cunning,witty and manipulative skills to always have their way.They are die hard go getter.Once an Alpha female sets her mind on an instance and is determined...she uses all resources to get what she wants.Shes hardly a failure.In all her ambition and pursuit.

An Alpha female is A Domina.