pweedyuz:
it's ur decision bae
if u r not ready den u r not ready nd u tell him dat..
if he acknowledges dat fact,,, ,,,,,good.
if he doesn't,,,,,,, I'm thinking,,"he probably wants to hit nd run''. *IMO*

simplemach:
After two months you tell me its too early? My sister, are u sure u really like this guy or u just want to get something from him and then let go afterwards. You better giv him the thing and seal the relationship.

sweetbaby22:


You think that will SEAL the relationship?

Shawl001:
Babe... ℓ̊ tell you, when you give him sex at this early *hour*, you are only unleashing something greater upon ur relationship. That's a bad foundation †☺ build upon. The relationship will crash, (definetly). So, my candid advice, pls don't introduce sex into d relationship. There are other ways †☺ prove Ɣ☺U̶̲̥̅̊я love †☺ each other, other than sex. U̶̲̥̅̊ guys won't be able †☺ contain it if you try (sex) out now. Pls don't. Both øƒ you should sit down aπϑ trash things out. Establish a purpose ƒσя being in that relationship, aπϑ both øƒ U̶̲̥̅̊ should agree †☺ it. #ma opinion though#

pweedyuz:
it's ur decision bae
if u r not ready den u r not ready nd u tell him dat..
if he acknowledges dat fact,,, ,,,,,good.
if he doesn't,,,,,,, I'm thinking,,"he probably wants to hit nd run''. *IMO*

sweetbaby22:


You think that will SEAL the relationship?

faithugo64:
Dearie its too early to start having sex,let your r/ship be built on something more stronger and lasting,having sex with him is not a guarantee that you will have a great r/ship
please wait till you are ready

sweetbaby22:
Is it ok to have s-ex with a guy you just met?
What happens after having s-ex with a guy too soon?

Met a very nice guy and its over 2 months now but I feel its still early to have se-x. We have had situations when it was about happening and I said I wasn't ready and apologized. Although he isn't insisting but sometimes I see the frustration on his face. I just feel its still too early... now he feels I am not attracted to him and don't see him in a romantic way.

I don't know how to let him understand that its not like that, I just want to build the relationship first. and I am having the feeling that the relationship might spoil if we do it.

Or maybe I am over thinking things....

guys what do u think....

Equado:
its her decision you say...y do you girls think that when you're 'ready' we guys would always be ready?

lolaredvelvet:



That answers your question my dear, a woman's instinct never stirs her wrong.

Maybe its just me, but most relationships where sex is rushed ends very badly and leaves the woman with emptiness and heartbreak. Sad part is that most of the time our gut instinct warns us but we compromise.

Matthew 12:34 ...for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.

pweedyuz:

it goes both ways brother......*vice versa*
I wasn't discriminating.

if d girl is nt ready,,,den d guy should free her.
if wen d girl is ready nd d guy no con dey ready,,,,den d girl should exercise patience also..**after all,she started it.**

so Yes,,it's her decision.

valyzubxx:
if taking you out on lunch dates and taking you on shopping spree 'too soon' didn't sabotage the relationship, I don't see how sleeping with him 'too soon' will....

AdeniyiA:
I am confused here why are young people not ready to discuss marriage but sex during dating? and to think it's only 2 months , one begins to wonder how many men they'd sleep with before marriage (IF they'd ever get married) ,
Why nd how will a man wants to get married to you if you've given your ALL during dating
That's why it's good for a lady to fill nd develop her mind with good knowledge of values, moral issues and norms so she speak or discuss these with any man she's with. If all a girl can say while sitting with her are sensual nd insensitive talks, the man sees nothing good in her rather than a sexual object.

pweedyuz:

it goes both ways brother......*vice versa*
I wasn't discriminating.

if d girl is nt ready,,,den d guy should free her.
if wen d girl is ready nd d guy no con dey ready,,,,den d girl should exercise patience also..**after all,she started it.**

so Yes,,it's her decision.

jmoore:
There is no difference between sex on the first date and sex on the 1,000th date.

FYI, sex is not love and love is not sex.

harrysterol:
but the girl was ready to collect gifts abi? Is ok

pweedyuz:

did anyone say anything about gifts here

please ,,,sweetbaby22,,, is gift items included anywhere in ur post ??

harrysterol:
she said d dude is caring, do u need a prophet to tell u what it means

pweedyuz:

did anyone say anything about gifts here

please ,,,sweetbaby22,,, is gift items included anywhere in ur post ??