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8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Ghanamustgo(m): 11:55am On Dec 17, 2014
8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You!!!

Whether a guy is just starting to date a woman or is in a committed relationship with her, there are small things that she may do without thinking twice that guys secretly love.
While there are many, here are eight to start.
1) Laying your head on his chest.
When laying on the couch watching TV or laying in bed after a long day, it’s one of the best feelings when a woman lays her head down on your chest and puts her arm over you.
As men, we enjoy feeling as though we are being protective, and this signifies that she feels safe in our arms.
2) When you text him first.
There is a lot of pressure on guys to always initiate conversation. Sometimes he may not know if he’s being too pushy or texting too much — he might overthink it and not text you at all, which could leave you wondering.
Guys like to feel affection too, and if he’s really into you, he will be thinking about you. Sending him a quick text will brighten his day and spark a good conversation.
3) When you tell him you appreciate him.
Some people are more affectionate than others, and there’s nothing wrong with however you are. Just remember, if a man puts in a lot of effort into your relationship (as he should), he will never complain about hearing how much you appreciate him.
While he should be able to read your feelings from your actions, some guys need a more direct approach. It will make him feel all warm and fuzzy inside.
4) Play with his hair while he’s driving.
I didn’t realize how great this one was until my girlfriend randomly did it one day. If you’re riding shotgun, reach over and lightly scratch the back of his head for awhile. Guaranteed to make him smile. (Don’t distract him too much though, he’s driving!)
5) Brag about him on Facebook.
Some girls go overboard with this. Way overboard. But, if your guy does something nice for you, it never hurts to talk about it or snap a photo of the impromptu dinner he had arranged when you got home from work.
It will show him that you appreciate him and are willing to share your appreciation and love for him with the world.
6) Really listen.
Women know better than anyone that really listening isn’t just a passive activity. It’s actually an action and it takes effort. Sometimes a guy has something important going on in his life, is working towards a goal, or is just stressed out about work.
When you really sit down, keep his eye contact and become genuinely engaged in a conversation about something important to him, it will let him know you care (even if he already does).
7) Text him when you’re out with your friends.
I’ve heard some really bad stories about guys who are insanely jealous or don’t “let” their girlfriend go out with friends, and especially with other guys. While I understand the apprehension, a man should be secure enough in his relationship (and trust his girlfriend enough) to not worry every second she is out without him.
If you have a man who is mature enough to tell you to go have a good time, text him every now and then during the course of the night just saying hello. It will make him smile and let him know that you’re still thinking about him when you’re out.
cool Be affectionate.
You don’t have to jump on him in public, but small things like taking his hand while you’re walking, hugging him in line at the grocery store, or hooking your arm into his as you walk into a party, will make him feel close to you and that you’re proud to be with him.
The little things go a long way.
*****
Men are relatively easy to please. When we say that, we mean it. We don’t require a lot to stay happy and we really do love doing things for our girlfriend to make her feel special.
That being said, relationships are a two way street. The good news is, it doesn’t take grand romantic gestures to make a man happy, just slip a note in his pocket to find during the day, or kiss him on the cheek while you’re watching TV.
These small things will make him (and you) smile.
Source:http://www.informationng.com/2014/03/8-things-guys-secretly-love-but-wont-tell-you.html
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by olimeh13(m): 11:57am On Dec 17, 2014
u get sagem my x-5 charger

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Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by naijaboiy: 12:07pm On Dec 17, 2014
grin
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Dyt(f): 12:10pm On Dec 17, 2014
olimeh13:
u get sagem my x-5 charger

I rem that phone
Which series came with econet?

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Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by olimeh13(m): 12:14pm On Dec 17, 2014
Dyt:




I rem that phone
Which series came with econet?

u get the charger??
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Rapmoney(m): 12:15pm On Dec 17, 2014
Bullshi.t!!! Bullcrap!!! My kpoli dor off. Who get lighter?
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Nobody: 12:25pm On Dec 17, 2014
definitely not for Nigerian girlz.
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by marveangel(m): 12:27pm On Dec 17, 2014
No 1 so true for me.....I seriously dig that.......but DON't touch my hair no even in ma dream.....I don't like it.
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by kaima1984(f): 12:32pm On Dec 17, 2014
marveangel:
No 1 so true for me.....I seriously dig that.......but DON't touch my hair no even in ma dream.....I don't like it.
even when her hair is smelling? cheesy
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by justmag(m): 1:12pm On Dec 17, 2014
Everything sounds true...but number 4!! If a girl does that we may end up in a ditch!! Lol it may get too ticklish...lol
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Beennkumar(m): 1:14pm On Dec 17, 2014
grin
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by sexymoma(f): 1:21pm On Dec 17, 2014
eminentme:
definitely not for Nigerian girlz.
That Cos Naija Guys Won't Appreciate All Dis. angry So Y The Stress, The Only Thing They Know Is Food And Lotta Sex angry
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by KingTom(m): 1:29pm On Dec 17, 2014
kaima1984:
even when her hair is smelling? cheesy
Chai Why evils na grin
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by tobechi20(m): 1:53pm On Dec 17, 2014
Tell them your ATM PIN
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Nobody: 1:53pm On Dec 17, 2014
Hmmmm, i Ceeeeeee
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by ireneony(f): 2:07pm On Dec 17, 2014
op are u sure this really works for the average nigeria guys, especially no. 4 , most nigeria guys dont like it, they complain they dont allow women to touch their hair. no.5 hmmm u wan spoil their show for facebook.
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Deapexboy(m): 2:33pm On Dec 17, 2014
Jst lyk Dililah play wit samson hair..snd am to hell
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Nobody: 2:58pm On Dec 17, 2014
sexymoma:
That Cos Naija Guys Won't Appreciate All Dis. angry So Y The Stress, The Only Thing They Know Is Food And Lotta Sex angry
and what do u girls give in return?
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by sKeetz(m): 3:31pm On Dec 17, 2014
ireneony:
op are u sure this really works for the average nigeria guys, especially no. 4 , most nigeria guys dont like it, they complain they dont allow women to touch their hair. no.5 hmmm u wan spoil their show for facebook.


Are you mtn?? Cause you are everywhere I go undecided
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by ireneony(f): 3:34pm On Dec 17, 2014
sKeetz:


Are you mtn?? Cause you are everywhere I go undecided
i dont even know u exist undecided
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by sKeetz(m): 3:39pm On Dec 17, 2014
ireneony:
i dont even know u exist undecided

You do now undecided
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Nobody: 4:41pm On Dec 17, 2014
No. 9 and 10 nko? undecided
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Purity1(f): 5:00pm On Dec 17, 2014
So true
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Purity1(f): 5:03pm On Dec 17, 2014
eminentme:
and what do u girls give in return?
genuine love and care
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Purity1(f): 5:07pm On Dec 17, 2014
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Dyt:

I rem that phone
Which series came with econet?
. You bad o
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Stephxoblessed(f): 5:08pm On Dec 17, 2014
@Op are you sure this is what all guys love or its actually what you love?
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Ghanamustgo(m): 5:43pm On Dec 17, 2014
Stephxoblessed:
@Op are you sure this is what all guys love or its actually what you love?



Try them on me may be that will give you the answers you are seeking for.
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Ghanamustgo(m): 5:46pm On Dec 17, 2014
Purity1:

genuine love and care

Genuine love!!!! You turned him to your ATM and you don't want him to fu.k u abi?
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Ghanamustgo(m): 5:50pm On Dec 17, 2014
kaima1984:
even when her hair is smelling? cheesy

Don't tell me you date dirty girls!!! Cover my nose
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Purity1(f): 5:51pm On Dec 17, 2014
Ghanamustgo:


Genuine love!!!! You turned him to your ATM and you don't want him to fu.k u abi?
No be me talk am nah..
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Ghanamustgo(m): 5:54pm On Dec 17, 2014
Purity1:
No be me talk am nah..

LOL so who talk am?
Re: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love by Purity1(f): 6:10pm On Dec 17, 2014
Ghanamustgo:

LOL so who talk am?
na your hand type am.

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