cococandy:


Who's loss is it?
If he wants to lose his family and contract std over food great for him.

cococandy:


Who's loss is it?
If he wants to lose his family and contract std over food great for him.

correctguy0900:


easier said. marriage matter is not about "na u know o" everyone dey do his/her part to save it. divorce isn't fun

Sophyrocks:


My sister, that is clearly how he intends to solve issues in his marriage. If you have any issues with your wife, all you need do is reject her food, bleep a wh0re and eat outside. Create another problem to solve a problem. Problem solved. hehehehe.

SMH. no wonder they say "marriage aint for kids". A lot of people still have some growing to do in their old age.

cococandy:

I guess his role in solving the problem includes not talking about what's upsetting him, rejecting his wife's cooking, eating outside and having fun with what was your choice of words again? Osheres?
Yea and forgetting that his wife is a woman too.

In your books do men have any responsibility or role to play in keeping the love growing and the marriage lasting Asides from being selfish and petulant?

cococandy:


How about when it becomes a habit on his part and especially for offenses you weren't even aware you committed? Or minor offenses that he could just simply state and you apologize and everything goes back to normal?
But he chooses to reject food instead?

You will eventually get tired one day and let him do as he wishes. Whether to eat or go hungry.

Sophyrocks:


My sister, that is clearly how he intends to solve issues in his marriage. If you have any issues with your wife, all you need do is reject her food, bleep a wh0re and eat outside. Create another problem to solve a problem. Problem solved. hehehehe.

SMH. no wonder they say "marriage aint for kids". A lot of people still have some growing to do in their old age.

Austin234:
I cant believe dat dis is coming frm u. I have cherished most of ur contributions in NL. But dis, no no no. Neither do use problem to solve problem.
Sorry, i mean no harm

Mintayo:
Some ladies here are not sincere. I don't buy the idea of the husband not eating his wife food. But no sincere woman will like the fact that the husband rejects her food, after spending several hours preparing some dish,and anticipate that he will love the food and commend you, husband now comes and says he is not eating, you will just smile and let that slide? Some ladies and insincerity... smh.

Tenderlover:
Childish to me,if my hubby don't eat my food toh he is not hungry nah. Case close! After forcing my two kids to eat cos they prefer liquid,where will i get d strength to force an adult abi beg an adult to eat. The one that surprises me is when a lady does that. I know a woman who goes on hunger strike wenever she has iSsues with her hubby,she will cook for the family but she herslf will not eat. Some people shaa. Communication is key in marriage,throwing tantrums like kids I don't get it.

Mintayo:
Some ladies here are not sincere. I don't buy the idea of the husband not eating his wife food. But no sincere woman will like the fact that the husband rejects her food, after spending several hours preparing some dish,and anticipate that he will love the food and commend you, husband now comes and says he is not eating, you will just smile and let that slide? Some ladies and insincerity... smh.

kandiikane:
This is what happens when your life revolves around the kitchen or you are made to feel like your life revolves around it. Once you believe that, that's when they can use it against you, if your hubby does not eat your food na your life don end be dat.

crackhaus:

Are you paying them any attention?

You should know how the family section women roll by now.

crackhaus:

Who said anything about 'making' the male child learn how to cook?

I said no woman should be allowed to use her cooking to manipulate a man.

If the man can't cook, he should go to one of his mistresses' home and have a lovely fill of some good food & an appetizing dessert... or a darn restaurant - heck most upscale restaurants have chefs that cook better than the wife.

psucc:
Boy I try am my wife ate every every. since then haaa . . . .

EfemenaXY:


Really?

And you think wifey won't gladly serve his rejected meal (incidentally paid for, by Oga), to that young, fit, toyboy with the ripped six-pack and tight büttöcks?

Una never start...

Richy4:
It is just to register his displeasure over an issue or attitude the wife is putting up. It has nothing to do with punishment. It means I want nothing to do with you and your food for now. It is done by quite men who loved their wife, who cannot beat them and cannot win a shouting match.

correctguy0900:



see dis one. u go everly regret am. na u go taya. wot stops him from having his fun with dose latest osheres dem. dey will help u bang him until he forgets his life and forget dat his wife is still a woman self. men need petting at times as much as women. is not ur brother we r talking abt here. except love has elude u guys totally

crackhaus:

Does she have a young fit toyboy with ripped six-packs and a tight bottom, or is she day dreaming as usual?

crackhaus:

Bro don't be a spoilsport, we should let the ladies type their fingers away and bullshiit us...

It's like everything needs to be spelt out in words and sentences before some women can access every possible angle and fully grasp a situation before coming to conclusions.

EfemenaXY:


Oya keep dreaming. Hungry hustling guys are 2 a penny. Beck check out the Dating & Meet Up Zone here in nairaland where they shamelessly advertise their "wares".

Richy4:


I taya my brother. How are u doing this holidays

correctguy0900:



know today dat even adults r sometimes childish. even d wife similarly behaves like dat at times. it's just for d other to act maturely at dat moment. das why two peeps can't just b childish at once. I tell u, d man or woman as d case maybe, doesn't need more dan u reminding him calmly and in subtle manner how childish it is for u both to b acting up over spilled milk. seize dat chance to teach him like a teacher at dat moment. logically layout ur points why is unreasonable to refuse food over nothing, why is not d best way to resolve ish through dat means.

I tell u most solemnly, should couples resolve ish d way u just described, tinz will escalate to unmanageable proportion. I am not married, but I watch my parents undergone it da year like a school. everyone was happy in d end