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Re: Husband Rejecting The Wife's Food. Immaturity Or Punishment For D Wife by Serenity22: 8:18am On Dec 26, 2014
This attitude is funny to me. I remember a story I was told of a woman whose husband rejects her food anytime they have a quarrel. She would then have to beg n apologise for the things she did and even the ones she didn't do. Then one day as usual they had a quarrel and the man rejected food, and herself was not even satisfied with her own that day. She quietly ate the food without any apologies.
At midnight she woke up to the sound of pots n plates, meanwhile there was no single food in the house. From that day, anytime they had a quarrel and she offered him food he'd eat first then continue the fight afterwards cheesy

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Re: Husband Rejecting The Wife's Food. Immaturity Or Punishment For D Wife by Nobody: 10:21am On Dec 26, 2014
Serenity22:
This attitude is funny to me. I remember a story I was told of a woman whose husband rejects her food anytime they have a quarrel. She would then have to beg n apologise for the things she did and even the ones she didn't do. Then one day as usual they had a quarrel and the man rejected food, and herself was not even satisfied with her own that day. She quietly ate the food without any apologies.
At midnight she woke up to the sound of pots n plates, meanwhile there was no single food in the house. From that day, anytime they had a quarrel and she offered him food he'd eat first then continue the fight afterwards cheesy

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Re: Husband Rejecting The Wife's Food. Immaturity Or Punishment For D Wife by EfemenaXY: 12:21pm On Dec 26, 2014
Serenity22:
This attitude is funny to me. I remember a story I was told of a woman whose husband rejects her food anytime they have a quarrel. She would then have to beg n apologise for the things she did and even the ones she didn't do. Then one day as usual they had a quarrel and the man rejected food, and herself was not even satisfied with her own that day. She quietly ate the food without any apologies.
At midnight she woke up to the sound of pots n plates, meanwhile there was no single food in the house. From that day, anytime they had a quarrel and she offered him food he'd eat first then continue the fight afterwards cheesy

Lol!

Bushness redefined. grin grin

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Re: Husband Rejecting The Wife's Food. Immaturity Or Punishment For D Wife by Nobody: 3:40pm On Dec 26, 2014
Sophyrocks:


Wow!! You have not read them but you quickly jumped to conclusions that i approved such an action. I was sarcastic in my comment. The person whom i quoted understood me perfectly. why couldnt you? My advice: Please go back and read them SLOWLY. My comment is sooo simple to understand if you really understand english. No offence meant.

SMH.

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Ezibless:
Even as a single lady,i see rejected food as a punishment.


Imagine enduring all that heat and trying hard to satisfy the consumers and after everything they start giving me stories embarassed

e dey pain sha....
Chai

Gal you are very beautiful, you can try me o I won't reject your food wink
Re: Husband Rejecting The Wife's Food. Immaturity Or Punishment For D Wife by Ezibless: 7:35pm On Dec 26, 2014
ShahzadNonso:

Gal you are very beautiful, you can try me o I won't reject your food wink

Ok.
Bring money make i go market. I never write list sha,but i fit manage N70,000. grin
Re: Husband Rejecting The Wife's Food. Immaturity Or Punishment For D Wife by Nobody: 8:49pm On Dec 26, 2014
Ezibless:


Ok.
Bring money make i go market. I never write list sha,but i fit manage N70,000. grin

Only? No p.
You can follow me back so we go discuss how the money will get to u
wink
Re: Husband Rejecting The Wife's Food. Immaturity Or Punishment For D Wife by SAMBARRY: 9:02pm On Dec 26, 2014
Better hungry never cash am. tongue

make e con live for our area where eateries close by 7pm and to get decent eatery he go spend fuel of at least 1,000 naira to buy food wey Don almost finish. Na back of the pot tins he go chop. He will sit up.shiooorrr.who has time to be baby sitting an adult tongue
Re: Husband Rejecting The Wife's Food. Immaturity Or Punishment For D Wife by eckersley: 4:40am On Jan 07, 2015
edwife:
I hate it when a grown up man keeps silent and uses food to express himself,what is that?are we in pre-school or what?What happens in tabling the matter and resolving it. undecided undecided

So if a woman uses sex then it is a sin....ok
As much as I nvr wanted to respond due to d childish replies,
your highlighted puerile comment cannot be overlooked

1. It's your type that blv the man's duty is to provide money, discipline to the kids and protection for the family
while the SOLE DUTY of d wife IS TO PROVIDE SEX
Well I blame society and men who hv accepted that BS
Well, read thru my posts on NL,
Sex is a two-way street. Women want and like sex as much as men

Try that sex withholding game with me and u go hail.
AFTER LIKE 2 YEARS, U will not only come begging with ur pastor, but ur family and village head

When it comes to sex, I operate the rule of 2
[ALL MEN READ THIS TO KNOW HOW TO HANDLE SEX BS FROM WOMEN]
https://www.nairaland.com/1984853/man-two-cars-trek-around/32#27898565

2. It's ur type that will use sex to arm-twist their boyfriends/husband.
Using it as a bargaining chip.
No new phone, handbag, shoes, recharge card etc, no sex

When it comes to domesticity, here's my stance
https://www.nairaland.com/1984755/why-living-nigerian-wife-abroad/1#27789011

What differentiates you from a PROSTI.TUTE?
Re: Husband Rejecting The Wife's Food. Immaturity Or Punishment For D Wife by eckersley: 4:44am On Jan 07, 2015
crackhaus:

Who said anything about 'making' the male child learn how to cook?

I said no woman should be allowed to use her cooking to manipulate a man.

If the man can't cook, he should go to one of his mistresses' home and have a lovely fill of some good food & an appetizing dessert... or a darn restaurant - heck most upscale restaurants have chefs that cook better than the wife. gringrin
DJ Finish Work.
Hmmnn. I see u
Re: Husband Rejecting The Wife's Food. Immaturity Or Punishment For D Wife by efxmen: 7:31am On Jan 07, 2015
trendphemmy:
my brother's wife complained dat he rejected her food, I smiled and told her he isn't hungry, she should feed herself and her daughter den go to bed. no time for iranu. as for me I can neva reject my wife's food, because I bought it with my hard earned money.


what could be your reason for rejecting ur wife's food
Sincerely I must say u aren't helping ur brother's marriage. Infact I'm surprised at the only advice u could give to a woman who is ur blood brothers wife. What makes u feel she is happy about that advice u gave to her over ignoring her husband. I'm pretty sure if you continue with such ill advices and she consistently listens to u then u would personally assist ur sister in law in losing her marriage to ur brother. As a good brother in law u should at least go an extra mile to find out what the problem actually is and prefer nicer ways to resolve the dispute btw them because marriage is a very sensitive business and must be managed with utmost care and wisdom. Try to also talk to brother to hear him out then whatever the case do all it takes to settle the problem so that peace can reign btw the couples again. Please be guided
Re: Husband Rejecting The Wife's Food. Immaturity Or Punishment For D Wife by efxmen: 8:05am On Jan 07, 2015
EfemenaXY:


You missed the irony in her question.



Arrant nonsense.

Such a man isn't serious. Men who get high displaying such churlish behaviour do so because the zero-self-esteemed wives let them get away with it. Let him spend good money outside buying food till thy kingdom come. When he gets tired of eating junk, he'll make a u-turn, tail firmly tucked between his hind legs.
Everyman has his own unique way of putting his wife in check which is perfectly in order as long as it works for him and makes his home a happier place. And just like u said earlier ur own man may get tired of his own disciplinary strategy and always come back to u with his tail firmly tucked btw his hind legs. Well I'm not one of such men who wld get his tail tucked btw hind legs for his wife anyway. So we should Kno our partners very well and be smart enough to identify what disciplinary strategy brings desired positive results.

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Re: Husband Rejecting The Wife's Food. Immaturity Or Punishment For D Wife by Bosch10(m): 9:26am On Feb 11, 2015
trendphemmy:
my brother's wife complained dat he rejected her food, I smiled and told her he isn't hungry, she should feed herself and her daughter den go to bed. no time for iranu. as for me I can neva reject my wife's food, because I bought it with my hard earned money.


what could be your reason for rejecting ur wife's food
i cant reject my wifes food o,bt i can do that only when she doesnt heed to what i do tell her.i leave her to her own since she doesnt obey me.
Re: Husband Rejecting The Wife's Food. Immaturity Or Punishment For D Wife by Bosch10(m): 9:34am On Feb 11, 2015
fem29:


lol oooo you are right on the money grin grin, he is not hungry. My hubby tries that as well, and I just shrug and say ok ur not hungry. Listen men the only time you should be doing ish like this is before you have kids!. After caring for and feeding my twins I am drained! I have no time for mind games shikena!
see you,if he no chop from you for 1 year,na you go come create thread for that time
Re: Husband Rejecting The Wife's Food. Immaturity Or Punishment For D Wife by Bosch10(m): 9:41am On Feb 11, 2015
carefreewannabe:


I only know of one family where father refused to eat wife's food when he was angry. He would punish her by eating the other wife's food. I love polygamy. grin
hmm,or he shuld eat from a woman he has married outside abi
Re: Husband Rejecting The Wife's Food. Immaturity Or Punishment For D Wife by Nobody: 2:03pm On Feb 11, 2015
Bosch10:
see you,if he no chop from you for 1 year,na you go come create thread for that time

Lol I no send o, but he cannot oo, my food sweet die, by the time I prepare some crazy Efe riro with stock fish and assorted and poundo, how can he resist grin

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