carefreewannabe:


I only know of one family where father refused to eat wife's food when he was angry. He would punish her by eating the other wife's food. I love polygamy.

Okay, in that scenario, it's a clear case of pitting one woman against the other, in order to make the former jealous of the latter, so he can prove a point to her, whatever that may be.

A wise woman in such a setting will use it to her advantage. Best way to punish wifey number 2 is to misbehave towards Oga as much as possible so that:

~ he throws a tantrum by not eating (so therefore she doesn't have to sweat it out cooking his favourite dishes or pounding his poundo)

~ he refuses to grace your bed (so A. you don't have to do bedmatics after getting drained from chasing after the kids + single handedly doing household chores, and B. you don't have to bear his loud snoring at night)

You just gotta learn how to deal with simple-minded men with one-track minds...

EfemenaXY:


He'll be lucky if there'll be any left overs for him to hide and eat.

#Important lesson: Men, learn how to cook!#

(for those who take pride in not knowing how to)

Very important indeed.

No woman should be allowed to use her cooking to manipulate a man.

Itz very immature.....and it wl hurts the woman's feeling.

EfemenaXY:


Okay, in that scenario, it's a clear case of pitting one woman against the other, in order to make the former jealous of the latter, so he can prove a point to her, whatever that may be.

A wise woman in such a setting will use it to her advantage. Best way to punish wifey number 2 is to misbehave towards Oga as much as possible so that:

~ he throws a tantrum by not eating (so therefore she doesn't have to sweat it out cooking his favourite dishes or pounding his poundo)

~ he refuses to grace your bed (so A. you don't have to do bedmatics after getting drained from chasing after the kids + single handedly doing household chores, and B. you don't have to bear his loud snoring at night)

You just gotta learn how to deal with simple-minded men with one-track minds...

She should simply give all the best parts of the chicken to her kids and enjoy them herself as the family wasn't what you would exactly call affluent.

I am sure the father would eat the biggest share so when he refuses to eat, everyone should rejoice in silence.

I hate it when a grown up man keeps silent and uses food to express himself,what is that?are we in pre-school or what?What happens in tabling the matter and resolving it.

So if a woman uses sex then it is a sin....ok

carefreewannabe:


Nothing, to each their own.

Not your problem, not mine either.

sure

sometimes the way folks think over here makes me cringe and if I decide to speak up, I would sound rude.

carefreewannabe:

Eh..hen na! He's gotta protect his image hence the hiding, but at the sametime, give in to the yawning hunger.

zeb04:
Wife cries ang beg....where in the hell have you seen that?
Or another story telling because nairaland is just full of boys with silly fantasies.

Now that bit is the undiluted, raw, truth.

If he rejects food, he will enter kitchen and cook his own that he wants to eat. I go even join am eat the one he made.
Problem solved.
No fighting in love

okotv:
sure

sometimes the way folks think over here makes me cringe and if I decide to speak up, I would sound rude.

Speak up in a polite way.

carefreewannabe:


To do what?

to let her know she did the wrong thing instead of rejecting her food

crackhaus:

Very important indeed.

No woman should be allowed to use her cooking to manipulate a man.

Well said.

All the more reasons why the male child should be made to learn how to cook, even if they hate it. It's one of the best ways a mother can ensure her son(s) will live independent lives and not become lapdog slaves to girlfriends / wives because of food.

carefreewannabe:

She should simply give all the best parts of the chicken to her kids and enjoy them herself as the family wasn't what you would exactly call affluent.
I am sure the father would eat the biggest share so when he refuses to eat, everyone should rejoice in silence.

lilmax:
to let her know she did the wrong thing instead of rejecting her food

Ok.

Do you mind telling me how you will let her know?

kristina1:
Itz very immature.....and it wl hurts the woman's feeling.

Says who?

cococandy:
If he rejects food, he will enter kitchen and cook his own that he wants to eat. I go even join am eat the one he made.
Problem solved.
No fighting in love

LOL

ROFL

edwife:
I hate it when a grown up man keeps silent and uses food to express himself,what is that?are we in pre-school or what? What happens in tabling the matter and resolving it.

So if a woman uses sex then it is a sin....ok

And this is where that popular Nollywood advice has never been truer..."Leave am. E go tire".

EfemenaXY:


Says who?

Some ladies cant stand their husby rejectin their food,some wl cry and plead.

carefreewannabe:


LOL

ROFL

Yes of course . Two wrongs don't make a right.
If he rejects my food I won't reject his.

cococandy:

Yes of course . Two wrongs don't make a right.
If he rejects my food I won't reject his.

And the family will eat together like a family should.

kristina1:

Some ladies cant stand their husby rejectin their food,some wl cry and plead.

i will only feel bad about his rejecting food if he did it as a result of illness or maybe he had a very bad day and lost his appetite.
You know what hurts him hurts me.

But not when he's rejecting it to punish me.

carefreewannabe:


Speak up in a polite way.

I detest public disgrace especially from the older folks here.

Imagine a stressed wife food rejected by the husband and she still begs him to eat. That's childish, wicked and uncalled for.

carefreewannabe:


And the family will eat together like a family should.

And live happily ever after

Speaking for myself, rejecting my food will be your own punishment because that ish will not work for me and it means denying yourself of food. Im too non chalant for petty stuffs like that. I think its immaturity and reeks of pettiness.

EfemenaXY:


Well said.

All the more reasons why the male child should be made to learn how to cook, even if they hate it. It's one of the best ways a mother can ensure her son(s) will live independent lives and not become lapdog slaves to girlfriends / wives because of food.

Who said anything about 'making' the male child learn how to cook?

I said no woman should be allowed to use her cooking to manipulate a man.

If the man can't cook, he should go to one of his mistresses' home and have a lovely fill of some good food & an appetizing dessert... or a darn restaurant - heck most upscale restaurants have chefs that cook better than the wife.

okotv:
I detest public disgrace especially from the older folks here.

It is not disgraceful to speak your mind in a polite way.

Imagine a stressed wife food rejected by the husband and she still begs him to eat. That's childish, wicked and uncalled for.

It's her choice to beg him.

Boy I try am my wife ate every every. since then haaa . . . .

cococandy:
i will only feel bad about his rejecting food if he did it as a result of illness or maybe he had a very bad day and lost his appetite.
You know what hurts him hurts me.

But not when he's rejecting it to punish me.

If he's rejectin it just to punish me,i wl swallow my pride and apologize if only am guilty,but if not,,,he's on a long thing.

kristina1:

If he's rejectin it just to punish me,i wl swallow my pride and apologize if only am guilty,but if not,,,he's on a long thing.

How about when it becomes a habit on his part and especially for offenses you weren't even aware you committed? Or minor offenses that he could just simply state and you apologize and everything goes back to normal?
But he chooses to reject food instead?

You will eventually get tired one day and let him do as he wishes. Whether to eat or go hungry.

fem29:


lol oooo you are right on the money , he is not hungry. My hubby tries that as well, and I just shrug and say ok ur not hungry. Listen men the only time you should be doing ish like this is before you have kids!. After caring for and feeding my twins I am drained! I have no time for mind games shikena!

is ur hubby broke? how can a man b hungry like a kid when he makes money. wen dere r tushite joints everywhere. u never jam stubborn type

EfemenaXY:


You missed the irony in her question.



Arrant nonsense.

Such a man isn't serious. Men who get high displaying such churlish behaviour do so because the zero-self-esteemed wives let them get away with it. Let him spend good money outside buying food till thy kingdom come. When he gets tired of eating junk, he'll make a u-turn, tail firmly tucked between his hind legs.

see dis one. u go everly regret am. na u go taya. wot stops him from having his fun with dose latest osheres dem. dey will help u bang him until he forgets his life and forget dat his wife is still a woman self. men need petting at times as much as women. is not ur brother we r talking abt here. except love has elude u guys totally

correctguy0900:


is ur hubby broke? how can a man b hungry like a kid when he makes money. wen dere r tushite joints everywhere. u never jam stubborn type

Na u sabi, if he likes let him go and eat in heaven I am sorry I do not have an extraordinate amount of time to stroke ego . I am stressed enough as it is. If here is an issue he needs to sit down and thrash it out with me instead of being childish .

Anyways our situation is very complicated.

I thought its just women that can be petty. So men can be petty too. Lol. Issorait. In the end, who is spending money and wasting food? NOT ME.

correctguy0900:



see dis one. u go everly regret am. na u go taya. wot stops him from having his fun with dose latest osheres dem. dey will help u bang him until he forgets his life and forget dat his wife is still a woman self.

Who's loss is it?
If he wants to lose his family and contract std over food great for him.