There is this girl i have known for close to four years now. I intend to spend my life with her, even though my parents are against it. And her parents have phobia for my tribe. As a result she started making fool of the relationship, and hearing all manner of advice that made her start changing suddenly, saying we don!t fit ourselves for marriage. And that am wasting her time. Just because i don't have a meaningful thing doing now. Should i get her pregnant? I mean am confused. She doesn't understand me. Her sister and other people keep telling her that am decieving her and wasting her time, and they keep recomending men for her. Nairalanders talk to me.

ftc [by the way if u try am u are OYO]

If you impregnate her then you are only proving her family right.
Just find something meaningful to do.
And eh .. Pray.

free her dude.....never u force ur luv on someone, if she was meant to be urs, she will surely be urs bt for now, free her since she isn't interested

You want to impregnate her and you dont have a good job abi?
Okay, continue..

Don't!

You don't have to do that!
Are u ready to father a kid now?
Are u ready to be a parent now?
If your answer is no, then please don't. It won't be a good decision for you and d baby!

If she leaves u, there is another girl in dis world who will love u more and you'll love her more

Tashamania:
You want to impregnate her and you dont have a good job abi?
Okay, continue..

Must a man have a good job to feel raw sex?


Behold God have given unto you freely and freely shall ye give unto men.

Tashamania:
You want to impregnate her and you dont have a good job abi?
Okay, continue..

Truckpusher:
Must a man have a good job to feel raw sex?


Behold God have given unto you freely and freely shall ye give unto men.

hes not just talking about sex, hes talking about bringing forth an innocent soul to suffer..


So you sabi bible?

Tashamania:


hes not just talking about sex, hes talking about bringing forth an innocent soul to suffer..


So you sabi bible?

And in your prophesy you've seen suffer written allover that child?


Oya ,chop backhand .

U need to talk to her, let her understand how much u love her and how serious u take the relationship. Make her see things from ur point of view, let her knw ur feeling abt how she's bn behaving lately

and about the parent stuff, u need to think twice man... Sometimes itz nt cul goin against ur parent

gede7744:

Nne, this kain laff wey you enter both under and on top go insert laff emoticon ,odikwa mma?

You want to bring a child into this world without any stable source of income ?


you are really wasting her time .

Truckpusher:
And in your prophesy you've seen suffer written allover that child?


Oya ,chop backhand .

The bobo no get good job na


Back to sender

Truckpusher:
Must a man have a good job to feel raw sex?


Behold God have given unto you freely and freely shall ye give unto men.

You give freely to all?
Akuna okwu

Please no Impregnate her at all,try and show her why she should not loose you

3cycle:

You give freely to all?
Akuna okwu

Concentrated akuna

Tashamania:


Concentrated akuna

Honestly, the guy is a pro
Girls don suffer.

3cycle:

You give freely to all?
Akuna okwu

Onye ara.

You dun escape again ,abi na Christmas holiday dem give una?

Tashamania:


Concentrated akuna

Nkita racha gi somewhere.

Lunatic

…and hearing all manner of advice that made her start changing suddenly, saying we don!t fit ourselves for marriage. And that am wasting her time .… Should i get her pregnant?

how fücking impressive; so after she fücking told you this, you guys are still fücking each other; how fücking awesome; but if that's not the fücking case how the fück do you want to get her pregnant; RAPE?

fück!! getting her fücking pregnant will do you no fücking good; it's best you fücking move on; get someone else.

How can you get her pregnant when she is obviously not into you?

I would be shocked to know that she allowed you stick it in-between her thighs when she does not feel you.

Abeg give her BELLE jooor

Ab025:
free her dude.....never u force ur luv on someone, if she was meant to be urs, she will surely be urs bt for now, free her since she isn't interested

seconded

Ab025:
free her dude.....never u force ur luv on someone, if she was meant to be urs, she will surely be urs bt for now, free her since she isn't interested

aristocrazzy:
If you impregnate her then you are only proving her family right.
Just find something meaningful to do.
And eh .. Pray.

aristocrazzy:
If you impregnate her then you are only proving her family right.
Just find something meaningful to do.
And eh .. Pray.

LogoDWhiz:
Don't!
You don't have to do that!
Are u ready to father a kid now?
Are u ready to be a parent now?
If your answer is no, then please don't. It won't be a good decision for you and d baby!
If she leaves u, there is another girl in dis world who will love u more and you'll love her more

aristocrazzy:
If you impregnate her then you are only proving her family right.
Just find something meaningful to do.
And eh .. Pray.

think about this

Thanks for all the advice, its only the guy that said i should relax and watch, if she is mine, she will come to understand. The issue of getting her pregnant is just a joke, it can't happen now. If she is mine she will calm. Thanks gr8 nairalanders

For one man, there are several "matching" women. Ditto for women. It is not a do or die. If she doesn't understand you and think you are wasting your time, then let her go. Coping with hostile in-laws is one thing. Coping with an unreasonable partner is worse. Getting her pregnant won't help you. If your woman's mind can be controlled by her parents now, it may also will be controlled after pregnancy. If she can't back u when u don't have anything, she's not reliable.

Just try to be successful in whatever u do. A successful man attracts women more than ants are attracted to sugar.

elokason:
The issue of getting her pregnant is just a joke, it can't happen now. If she is mine she will calm.

For your mind now you are smart, you don deceive us ba........Anuofia!

First, pregnancy isn't the solution.

2nd, go get something doing

3rd, it will be ok at the end

elokason:
There is this girl i have known for close to four years now. I intend to spend my life with her, even though my parents are against it. And her parents have phobia for my tribe. As a result she started making fool of the relationship, and hearing all manner of advice that made her start changing suddenly, saying we don!t fit ourselves for marriage. And that am wasting her time. Just because i don't have a meaningful thing doing now. Should i get her pregnant? I mean am confused. She doesn't understand me. Her sister and other people keep telling her that am decieving her and wasting her time, and they keep recomending men for her. Nairalanders talk to me.

marrying someone you don't love and want to take revenge on is not the best

except you want to live the rest of your live in misery and besides coming to nairaland to seek answers for your stupidity is a good indication that you are clueless

find work do abeg