I see a lot of threads where ladies are pouring out their frustration and complain about how Nigerian guys keep demanding for sex at each single time.
According to them, the guys always demand for sex in exchange for any help rendered to a lady.
There are 7 possible reasons why this is happening:

1. The type of guys you're meeting or dating: its a known fact that many Naija girls like bad boys. Those irresponsible, but lively guys who can easily lighten them up and throw in surprises. You cannot be dating these type of guys and don't expect them to demand for sex from you. There are many responsible, disciplined and God fearing guys around, but the problem is dat most ladies don't like dating them, they prefer the bad guys.

2.The way you present yourself: ofcourse u can't blame a guy for demanding sex from you when you act, dress and behave like someone who is willing to give it. If you're d type dat usually dresses skimpy and flirts about, then don't blame a guy when he demands for sex from you.

3. You're making too much demand from him: You want him to pay your school fees, take you shopping, rent a house for you etc. Why won't he demand for sex What else can you possibly offer him?

4. He doesn't want to be ridiculed: whether ladies want to believe it or not, guys who give without demanding from ladies are usually seen as fools. In Naija we call them Mumu, Mugu, Maga and other unpalatable names. Guys have come to learn their lessons and therefore ensure to avoid being labelled a Maga by demanding to at least get sth from the lady who has taken sth from them.

5. Lack of trust: Many Naija girls believe in draining a guy and running away from him when he least expected. They device plans to achieve this goal. Some will desert you after financing their education or opening a business for them. In order to avoid being a complete fool, many guys demand for sex from ladies.

6. Its natural: Men are biologically built to want sex more than women. So its not an abnormal thing. Plus the way our ladies dress these days can drive a guy crazy. You ladies shud give kudos to guys for their ability to withstand temptation from your dressing.

7. Entitlement mentality of most ladies: Most ladies believe its their right to always receive from guys and not give anything. Infact to them its a favour to the guy. Some of them will even ask you a favour in a very rude way and still expect you to beg them to accept it, Lols. The guys on the other hand want to make sure that the ladies give out sth in return, and that's where sex comes in.

U can give more reasons...



Written by:
LaurelP

Because strafing sweet die.

We like it na..

Who doesnt like ibongi?

Even sound sultan z not. Ready to b any. Girls personal maga fr life

nzeaji:
Because strafing sweet die.

Abduletudaye:
We like it na..

mkpakanaodogwu:
Who doesnt like ibongi?

U guys need urgent medical attention seriously

tobillionaire:
Even sound sultan z not. Ready to b any. Girls personal maga fr life

Funny u
When did he tell u dat?

LaurelP:






U guys need urgent medical attention seriously

I agree

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All these 7 this, 5 that, 9 this, when shall it stop?

FLAWLES:
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I catch u red handed

Kazrem:
All these 7 this, 5 that, 9 this, when shall it stop?

When Jesus comes

spot on. num 2 esp.

LaurelP:


When Jesus comes

When is Bros J coming??

LaurelP:


Funny u
When did he tell u dat?

it is a naturally something

LaurelP:






U guys need urgent medical attention seriously

No be true? Or are you a saint?

As for me to be in relationship, what do you expect me to gain more than sex?

LaurelP:


Funny u
When did he tell u dat?

he was actually talking ironically in dat his. Natural. Something soundtrack

I agree with ya

What should be my benefit when datin a girl.I no date her jst 2 dey look her everyday when she no be television.

because kongi s a bastard

Abduletudaye:


When is Bros J coming??

Bros J
Ur not serious

nzeaji:


No be true? Or are you a saint?

So u don't know before

I think there is only one reason... which is, "its natural"

tobillionaire:
he was actually talking ironically in dat his. Natural. Something soundtrack

He was saying the truth nah

zoeee:
I think there is only one reason... which is, "its natural"

D only one u believe

7 reasons? no there is only one reason. It is wired into our DNA to try to carry on our genes

Let me say the most articulating thread I have on nairaland this month,all these reasons are so on point

I don't know why girls complain as if dey don't like sex

Itz not a Must in all relationship that men do demand for sex.. But sincerely,Nigerian gurlz ve really made Nigerians guyz too bad.. To the extent that multiple sexual partners re allowed..


All ends wit.. Nigerian gurlz and money.. They forgot to whom much is given much is expected from.

LaurelP:


He was saying the truth nah

u dey make me laugh, sound sultan of all ppl... Does that guy look like a saint?