I went to the park on Saturday, me and my girl, and sitting just close to us were another couple really having fun and smiling and kissing each other. Then her phone rang, she stood up very fast and moved away from the guy she was with, and went far away to answer her call. I was watching with a surprised face, as she was giggle and smiling so much while talking on the phone.

Now i told my girl, if you ever do that, its over.


So Ladies and Fella, wachu think about that. If your girl or guy does that, what would be your reaction? because the stupid guy was even smiling after she came back and started rubbing his brainless head.

Talk to me!

Thats because he trusts her

emmeno:

I went to the park on Saturday, me and my girl, and sitting just close to us were another couple really having fun and smiling and kissing each other. Then her phone rang, she stood up very fast and moved away from the guy she was with, and went far away to answer her call. I was watching with a surprised face, as she was giggle and smiling so much while talking on the phone.

Now i told my girl, if you ever do that, its over.


So Ladies and Fella, wachu think about that. If your girl or guy does that, what would be your reaction? because the stupid guy was even smiling after she came back and started rubbing his brainless head.

Talk to me!

If she ever does what? Giggles and smiles whilst on the phone?  

As much as you may suspect her of 'cheating' or what not you really don't have any hard evidence, be sure of it first and THEN decide on what to do, don't just jump to conclusions because she was giggling and smiling 'a bit too much' whilst on the phone otherwise you could end up making a very BIG mistake

What if she was talking to her mum nko  

Talking to her mother and she's giggling like a chicken head?? Yeah kick her to the curb whenever you catch her doing such a thing.

It's all about understanding. most guys don't have patience at all. There was a night me and my girl sleeping and her phone ring. she now took my phone and call the person back, i now find out it was a guy. she no i was awake and still talking. so if na you what will u do?

chika98:

Talking to her mother and she's giggling like a chicken head?? Yeah kick her to the curb whenever you catch her doing such a thing.

Nothing is impossible

Anyway poster, the point is, don't just jump to conclusion, get some hardcore evidence first, even if she was talking to a boy, she may not neccessarily be cheating on you with him, he could just be a friend, a schoolmate etc just cracking jokes and that is why she is giggling like a chicken head

Girls also, don't jump to conclusion with your man, proof is neccesary

Ib, see forget proof. If you were the one with your guy and he suddenly got a call and moved away from you. For God's sake, you're his girl, so even if the caller is his mum, he can still stay with ya, u understand. I'm not jumpin into conclusion but i would really really have a long talk after that call.

emmeno:

Ib, see forget proof. If you were the one with your guy and he suddenly got a call and moved away from you. For God's sake, you're his girl, so even if the caller is his mum, he can still stay with ya, u understand. I'm not jumpin into conclusion but i would really really have a long talk after that call.

No problem with talk o, talk for as long as you like, infact sha, if it was me, I would do the same thing (as in talk)

It's just that you said

Now i told my girl, if you ever do that, its over.

Causing me to assume that just by seeing her giggle and smile like a mad man you would end the whole thing without any form of consultation

Consultation comes before Expel

Okie dokie emmenokie

Did you ever think that maybe the guy she moved away from actually knows that he is the "other man". Maybe her boyfriend, the call she took, does not know about the "other guy".

So technology your girl would never do that to you but would do that to her "other man", when she was with him and you called.

sistawoman:

Did you ever think that maybe the guy she moved away from actually knows that he is the "other man". Maybe her boyfriend, the call she took, does not know about the "other guy".

So technology your girl would never do that to you but would do that to her "other man", when she was with him and you called.

true

@ topic

assumptions r to blame for many broken relationships

HR.hotness:


true

@ topic

assumptions r to blame for many broken relationships

That is how she will telling someone else "oh baby I miss you too" right there in your face! Wake the F up!

@poster
Are u fine??
She cud have been talking to anyone, so because she was smilling and laughing on the fone she must be cheating
I pity ur gf

chika98:

That is how she will telling someone else "oh baby I miss you too" right there in your face! Wake the F up!

so he shd start obsessing about every call and cramping her abi? in d name of love. . .

abegi, giv d girl space. . . if she cheats and u catch her, it makes it all d better becos u trusted her and she abused it. if u dont giv her d benefit of a doubt u r essentailly pushing her away

HR.hotness:

so he should start obsessing about every call and cramping her abi? in d name of love. . .

abegi, giv d girl space. . . if she cheats and u catch her, it makes it all d better because u trusted her and she abused it. if u don't giv her d benefit of a doubt u r essentailly pushing her away

No at least this one is happening right in his face! What is wrong with talking in front of the bobo?

chika98:

No at least this one is happening right in his face! What is wrong with talking in front of the bobo?

thats d thing, she cld hav been talkin to anyone. . . u shd see d way me and my dad talk, its very had to believe he is actually my father. . . it isnt wise to jump to conclusions. some actions can be very misleading



tope, No 4 is so lush

saw sumthin like that d other day, i just stood there drooling for a good 20 mins  

HR.hotness:

tope, No 4 is so lush

saw sumthin like that d other day, i just stood there drooling for a good 20 mins

Lol . . . . i know rite
Altho i like no 3 better

tope2000:

Lol . . . . i know rite
Altho i like no 3 better

u knw what? i take that back. . . no 2 has to be it. . . i can see it now with a short flowing dress and dark red toe nails

HR.hotness:

u knw what? i take that back. . . no 2 has to be it. . . i can see it now with a short flowing dress and dark red toe nails

Women and their short attn span. See as this whole thing don turn to shoe tok now

HR.hotness:

u knw what? i take that back. . . no 2 has to be it. . . i can see it now with a short flowing dress and dark red toe nails

Yeah . . no 2 is fierce but i kinda have sumthing similar

chika98:

Women and their short attn span. See as this whole thing don turn to shoe tok now

Hehehehehe . . . . abeg u 2 choose ur own

tope2000:

Yeah . . no 2 is fierce but i kind of have something similar

Hehehehehe . . . . abeg you to choose ur own

I could myself rocking 2 with a nice short dress. You gotta show legs sometimes u know

I went to the park on Saturday, me and my girl, and sitting just close to us were another couple really having fun and smiling and kissing each other. Then her phone rang, she stood up very fast and moved away from the guy she was with, and went far away to answer her call. I was watching with a surprised face, as she was giggle and smiling so much while talking on the phone.

Now i told my girl, if you ever do that, its over.


So Ladies and Fella, wachu think about that. If your girl or guy does that, what would be your reaction? because the stupid guy was even smiling after she came back and started rubbing his brainless head.

Talk to me!

The guy might not be the fool here. The girl might indeed be the ode. See, Dude is getting paid by the girl and is like on the job. She fleeces her runs and deposits 1/2 the funds with da playa. You ain't never heard the saying "Pimpin ain't easy, but someone gotta do da dirty job. Hoez and Broz just wanna have fun.

mmm thats fishy but evidence before conclusion maybe its just a friend

Brainless head indeed, i mean didn't you shoot d guy?

@ Post, in this kind of situation you don't jump into conclusion
that she was talking to her boyfriend, you should try to ask to get
explanations, though if i were in your shoes i wouldn't feel comfortable,
why can't he pick the call right there beside me?

See, i brought this topic here cos i know loads of people do it. But for God's love, she was jus there kissing and smiling to this guy, and zooooooom, she stood up, walked away and started giggling like a half naked chicken on the phone.  See her attitude would definately tell you that a guy is spinning her on the phone

Ok Fine maybe i took the "i'll break up with ma girl" a lil bit too far, I don't know about you, it would be better if i don't even answer that call and prolly give an excuse (to the caller) than doin sumthin suspicious lyk dat.

All i'm saying is, if she could be kissing him and saying sweet things there, she should also be able to answer her call there.

Why on earth would anyone cheat someone he claimed to love?

emmeno:

See, i brought this topic here because i know loads of people do it. But for God's love, she was jus there kissing and smiling to this guy, and zooooooom, she stood up, walked away and started giggling like a half naked chicken on the phone. See her attitude would definately tell you that a guy is spinning her on the phone

Ok Fine maybe i took the "i'll break up with ma girl" a little bit too far, I don't know about you, it would be better if i don't even answer that call and prolly give an excuse (to the caller) than doin sumthin suspicious like that.

All i'm saying is, if she could be kissing him and saying sweet things there, she should also be able to answer her call there.

She did not answer the call from her bf in front of her other man out of respect for him. Trust me if the girl is cheating it was not on the guy she was with but instead the guy on the phone. The guy she was with knows about the bf and is happy to play second fiddle to him because after all he is problly getting his manliness wet and it does not matter to him what she tells her bf, just so long as she keeps slobbing his knob.

I'm guessing you still don't have any hard evidence

Such is life

sistawoman:

She did not answer the call from her boyfriend in front of her other man out of respect for him.  Trust me if the girl is cheating it was not on the guy she was with but instead the guy on the phone.  The guy she was with knows about the boyfriend and is happy to play second fiddle to him because after all he is problly getting his manliness wet and it does not matter to him what she tells her boyfriend, just so long as she keeps slobbing his knob.

Sorry gurl, i no gree wit dis

ibkaye:

I'm guessing you still don't have any hard evidence

Such is life

IB, check dis out, dis story aint about me, so ia int got any evidence. All i'm sayin is, if i was in the guy's shoes, Bleep all evidence, wat she did right there is evidence enough