These are the things you need to give or show your lover from this 2015:
1. ATTENTION:
Do not make your lover feel that loneliness he or she felt previous years, do not make him/her feel abandoned and do not allow him/her cry over boredom. Listen to him/her whenever he/she wants to discus or tell you something. Make out time for him/her, give him/her the feelings that he/she has someone he/she is dating, respond to his/her pings and chats and dont always wait for him/her to be the first to start conversation or chat.
2. CARE:
Showing care to your lover doesnt only mean spending on him/her, it doesnt mean buying him/her the whole world. Show him/her some sense of belonging, let him/her know that he/she has a place in your heart, be there when he/she has problems, help him/her carry her burdens, stay with him/her in times of weakness and troubles.
3. CONCERN:
People always think that "CARE" and "CONCERN" are same but practically, they are not. You may care about someone but you may not show concern or be concerned about him/her. Showing care is trying to solve someone's problem, providing someone's needs in a little way you can, asking about someone's affairs, etc. Showing concern is when those problems, affairs and needs bother you and give you sleepless nights. Do not let him or her carry the burdens alone from this year.
4. TEACHING:
Nobody knows everything, nobody knows all. From this 2015, teach your lover those things you think he/she lacks which attracts you to other girls/guys. Impact in him/her new things, new good ideas, new relationship technics, new ways of showing love, etc. You dont walk away because he/she lacks some ideas, stay and help him/her out. You that is being taught, you owe him/her listening manners, listen because he/she means well for you and the relationship.
5. PEACE OF MIND:
Let the thoughts of you be like a cooling water to his/her soul and mind from now onwards, be the person he/she runs to and feels relaxed and comforted when troubled, dont give him/her any reason to feel disturbed.
6. SUPPORT:
Support him/her in his/her good dreams, good decisions, etc. Some people seem to leave their lovers when he/she makes a new decision such as "No sex", No excessive spendings", No Clubbings, etc. You dont need to start showing less love to your lover because he/she makes a new decision in the relationship rather you support him/her.
7. DIRECTION:
You dont need to quarrel with him/her when he/she makes a mistake, what you need to do is to correct and direct him/her. Nobody is perfect, so dont try to make case out of everything which can be controlled through direction.
8. ORGANISATION:
You need to organise yourself for him/her, you need to coordinate yourself for him/her. Make the work less stressful for him/her by organising your life and your place for him/her. You also need to help him/her organise himself/herself if he/she lacks this.
9. SINCERITY:
If you have not been sincere to him/her all these while, its time for you to appreciate the time he/she has sacrificed for you and with you till 2015. Be transparent, let him/her see himself/herslef through you, be open to him/her, let go that secrective nature of yours.
10. TRUST:
He/she needs your full trust from now. Stop doubting him/her, stop giving him/her the impression that he/she is cheating on you.
11. FAITHFULNESS:
If truly you love him/her, its about time you showed him some faithfulness, appreciate and reciprocate that love with faithfulness, I think he/she deserves it from you from now.
12. LEAVE HIM/HER:
If within you; you have checked very well and realised that both of you are not compartible, kindly and honourably leave him/her let him/her find that person that is meant for him/her instead of deceiving him/her.

Woww!!
FrontPage.

I agree with you op

No.4 is most important.
Its nt all abt sex.

Beautiful

onstelly:
Beautiful

Wow!!! Onstelly,its bn a while here.

Was ready 2 give her some of that dis year but she broke up with me on new year eve. What a cruel world. Now my best friend is my blanket n nairaland.

Franca2:

Wow!!! Onstelly,its bn a while here.

Oh my dear, you can say that again but I'm back now lol
In btw happy birthday dear

Franca2:
No.4 is most important.
Its nt all abt sex.

Mind yourself oh

i smell america

fact..

onstelly:

Oh my dear, you can say that again but I'm back now lol
In btw happy birthday dear

Thanks dearie...someone has bn askin me abt ur whereabt...I guess u knw who. Send me mail.

Franca2:

Thanks dearie...someone has bn askin me abt ur whereabt...I guess u knw who. Send me mail.

Lol I don't know oh, will mail you right now

Franca2:

Thanks dearie...someone has bn askin me abt ur whereabt...I guess u knw who. Send me mail.

Did u get my mail

onstelly:

Did u get my mail

I did and I hv replied u.

Is dis post for both male and female or jst one?