I have no GF, and truthfully i am not so polite or friendly with females (at least not anymore). Since i was little i found out that females were always drawn to me but i didnt know why. In my church so many guys envied me cuz i was the kinda guy that all the girls wanted to be friends with, cuz so many girls liked me other girls just wanted me also. But at a point i went severely ill and it affected my appearance so greatly and to my shock all the girls that wanted/liked me stoped being friendly to me, it was as if they all just planned to hate me they didnt even look at me anymore. I almost cried to know that people only liked me for how i looked before i went ill, after some months i recovered and these same girls started to become friendly again but this time i ignored them all and till today i literally dont talk to girls anymore, they are so shallow. If a girl likes u most times its cuz of how u look, lose that looks for a day and see the attitude she would give u, u would almost cry and wish ur looks came back.

That's not always or necessarily the case!

Gays everywhere

They are moved by what they see alone(...and hear atimes ),They don't love you for who you are but for how you look, Mundane things. That's just the irony of life.

I think most people are shallow to an extent. Some just more so than others. For most women its more your
confidence, how you approach them, what you say how you say it and how you carry yourself. If you are able to spark an emotional attraction in a woman your appearance becomes less important. I
think it goes the same for guys also.. my opinion anyways

but Op we like them being shallow in some ways because if they were deep we would
need penis the size of a horse —-——------—>

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Don't blame them, they were scared of whatever ailment could make a fine boy become ugly. You weren't complaining when they flocked around your looks, and not your intellect, why complain now?

How does your story even make them shallow?