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8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by deparagon(m): 8:14am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Many Ladies are known to base their marital decisions on things that will not endure a life-time. These have led many of them into wrong marriages and life time bondage. We need to identify and deal with them: 1) HEIGHT: Every girl’s dream is to marry a tall, dark guy with a baritone voice, I wonder where they got the idea that tall guys are better in marriage. Hey Girls, tall guys can give you tall problems; it is not the height that matters but the depth of the guy in God and in character. 2) MUSCLE: Muscular and heavy looking guys are also fortunate, they are seen to be good suitors, and girls do say “they look manly” “they look like real men”. Sorry Girls, muscles do not make a real man, character and ability to shoulder responsibility do. A guy with muscle without character will use his muscles to deal with you and batter your beautiful face. 3) A WELL SET HOUSE: A guy with a well set house is the dream of any girl any day. Many girls will throw caution into the wind to grab a man who have a house with King size; beautiful Italian Setter, micro wave oven, home theater, refrigerator, gas cooker, Plasma TV,6 by 6 bed, well stuff Kitchen, Dining table, washing machine, dish washers, split unit air conditioner etc is a dream catch for girls any day. Sorry girl, a well set house is good but it may be a well set trouble if the guy is not a man of character, manners or discretion, he will make the house look like a prison yard for you. 4) FAT BANK ACCOUNT: Girls are fond of trying to know how rich a guy is by checking the guy’s phones for bank alerts. They joyfully decide to marry a guy when they discover the guy is very rich with fat Bank balance. What a mistake? They don’t want to know where the money is coming from; they don’t even want to know what the guy does for a living. What concerns them is the money that is available to be spent. Many girls ended up finding themselves entangled for life in this kind of situation, don’t base your marriage on GREED, it won’t turn to GREEN. 5) PLACE OF WORK: Some of our girls are in the habit of making marital decision base on the place a guy works. You dare not talk of marriage to them if you are a Teacher or civil servant. You dare not propose them if you are working with a small firm, or one man business. What an error? Girls note that, that a guy works in ACCESS BANK does not mean he will give you ACCESS to his heart or peace of mind. A guy that works in SHELL may put your life in a SHELL forever, you may not be the FIRST in the life of a guy that works in FIRST BANK, a guy that work in GUARANTEE TRUST BANK may not GUARANTEE your future. He may be working in NESTLE but not SETTLE you at home, So it is not about where he is working but about who is working in Him, God or devil. 6) ROMANCE: A young lady said, “The guy is romantic, hot and sexy, i will marry him” Stop girl!!!!, Romance is not enough for marriage. The truth is, most so called romantic guys don’t remain like that after wedding. Marry a guy base on qualities that will endure, romance don’t last forever, go and ask married women. 7) TYPE OF CAR: A whole lots of girls will be enticed by a guy driving a big and expensive car. Some will not even go out with a guy that does not have a car. If you want to mess yourself as a guy, ride on a bike to go and propose to a lady, you will hear the story of your life. Ladies, a guy that has a CAR may not CARE for you, life is not about CAR, it is about marrying somebody that will CARE for your future. AND: Most girls will readily marry anybody with US or UK passports, Lots of girls have destroyed their lives in the process of looking for somebody with a foreign passport to marry. RICH PARENT: Children of Rich parents are easy target for many young girls not because they are in love with them, but they know they will have access to money and connection. Many of these guys come from rich are pompous, cocky, proud and will be terrible and irresponsible husbands and fathers tomorrow but girls will not care about that, Most of these girls do live to regret their wrong decision. Don’t marry anybody just because the parents are rich, marry the person for who he is and the love you share together. http://totalfamilylife.com/2014/10/12-wrong-things-girls-check-before-marrying-a-guy/ 81 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by iceberylin(m): 8:18am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Will you advice ya sis to marry an opposite 123 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by unmask: 8:30am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Sorry op... I know break ups can be painful 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by deparagon(m): 8:40am On Jan 11, 2015 |
iceberylin: young man did u go through it carefully or u're just commenting so not to say u did'nt 36 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by pweetixandy: 9:05am On Jan 11, 2015 |
silly dude @op 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Oluwatosean(m): 9:10am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Xo in one word"marry a responsible guy". Ok,ma sister must to read dis one 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by iceberylin(m): 9:23am On Jan 11, 2015 |
pweetixandy:y |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by jnrbayano(m): 9:32am On Jan 11, 2015 |
iceberylin: How would you call someone's opinion "rubbish"? You are free to disagree with his opinion and you may also make him see reasons for your disagreement. Whatever happened to decorum. 64 Likes |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by deparagon(m): 9:40am On Jan 11, 2015 |
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Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by jnrbayano(m): 9:42am On Jan 11, 2015 |
These are endowments God bestowed on us to attract our opposite sex. Make no mistakes about this, the ladies are not guilty when they obey the law of attraction, same with guys. The preaching here should be, let the ladies not be turned into slaves of these attractive features. 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by starlingbawa(m): 10:09am On Jan 11, 2015 |
I guess I don't buy into most of what's on display here because it's not necessarily the case |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by dechandel(f): 10:51am On Jan 11, 2015 |
You just made a single point and numbered it differently 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Fraih(f): 12:58pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
So what are the right things to check? 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by pweetixandy: 1:48pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
iceberylin:m sorry,I was addressing the op not u 1 Like |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by iceberylin(m): 1:49pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
pweetixandy:Who u fooling 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by bigt2(m): 2:05pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
who no like better thing? In my opinion, girls dont like money per Se, they like attaching themselves to rich Men. DONT MARRY FOR MONEY, GO TO WHERE RICH PEOPLE ARE, AND GET MARRIED. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Nobody: 2:06pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
hmmmmm |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Maczeelly(m): 2:06pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Ok Next |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Nobody: 2:06pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
The number 1(one) thing they(gurlz) look up to,is his financial ability & capability. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by kilokeys(m): 2:06pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
is it now a crime to dream big? i employ all ladies to have this as plan A.. make sure u have up to plan W X and Y.. please the OP is a plan Z.. do not consider except u are crippled, have AIDS, blind with no womb 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by elantraceey(f): 2:06pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
I dont see anything wrong in place of work. |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by eke419: 2:07pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Very true
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Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by dmjinc(m): 2:07pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
who's hungry? am about to order a pizza 3 Likes |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by priscaoge(f): 2:08pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Hehehhe 1 Like |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by spanzed(m): 2:09pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Most of dem need already made men that's why most of them marry their Fathers mate to get all these....#Surulere 1 Like |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by pekeyim: 2:09pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Number 9 is nt calling me |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Nmeri17: 2:09pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
**mhurdified** OP I concur with yo numbers 2 and 5!! a woman will say she wants a man that is strong/muscular and hardworking but will pick a banker over carpenter or mechanic please who works harder between a mechanic and banker?? who gat more muscular looks?? 6 Likes |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Godwinsilas(m): 2:09pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Good for them, they will settle for less when they are 40 then the story will surely change. 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Jostico: 2:10pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
ops,i'm not here trying to prove superiority. But be known to the world is right to a common woman they are wrong 1 Like |
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by chidibond(m): 2:10pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
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Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by anthoniaz(f): 2:10pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
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