From all my observations as a nairalander, this topic has become a great concern and we really have to discuss abt it and know why such mentality has come to stay in d minds of online users. Nairaland is a forum dat contains more dan a million youths of which we interact with everyday physically, share our thoughts with and if possible, get to meet our future spouses..we can't say for sure dat the girlfriend or boyfriend we meet doesn't have an account with nairaland so why den do we keep fOoling ourselves with such mentality? Now d question goes to you out there reading this. What are your valid reasons for not getting too personal with a nairalander? Please try as much to clarify your reasons.. For example, if your reason is that nlanderS are fake, let us knw why and what makes a nairalander real. Thanks

Because 90% of people here take up a fake personality

So what if the girl I'm eying is actually a dude, duuude! Odikwa, very risky!

So all those messages sent like "thinking of you babe", would actually be used to turn the guy ON?

Nna, riskay business!

samflexxy:
Because 90% of people here take up a fake personality

So True, you inclusive!

samflexxy:
Because 90% of people here take up a fake personality

Are you among the 90 percent?

many nl guys use female monikers and dps

hmmm...
its risky, nd i dnt like it. thats y i will never meet a nairalander, talkless of dating one!

samflexxy:
Because 90% of people here take up a fake personality

woow dats a whole lot of percentage bro. R u amongst dem?

It all started from the bottom






For me, I feel I have no Match here

And thatz Cuz iam Real

EroticAngelina:
hmmm...
its risky, nd i dnt like it. thats y i will never meet a nairalander, talkless of dating one!

Babe u harsh oh!
So we just dey waste our time


Guys,u have heard her.

fake fake n fake! liars creating a false personality online




by their fruits u shall know em cheers

EroticAngelina:
hmmm...
its risky, nd i dnt like it. thats y i will never meet a nairalander, talkless of dating one!

ok angelina, I want to put dis question to u. I believe you hav a boyfrnd. Do u think he is on nairaland? Or do u think he uses other social platforms like badoo, wechat etc

mirexxx:
fake fake n fake! liars creating a false personality online




by their fruits u shall know em cheers

so supposing all nairalanders are liars who create false personalities, what does dat make of u? Or d mods?

Nlanders are faker than a tecno phone

alberto2k:
It all started from the bottom






For me, I feel I have no Match here

And thatz Cuz iam Real

what does it take for a nairalander to be real? What r dose factors dat makes a nairalander real? Tell us

Cutehector4u go ahead and tell us the name of the nairalander you want to date. I volunteer to help you woo her

Cutehector4u:
so supposing all nairalanders are liars who create false personalities, what does dat make of u? Or d mods?

most r fake i didn't say all. wetin bring mods come here na

mirexxx:
fake fake n fake! liars creating a false personality online




by their fruits u shall know em cheers

tell us what are the factors dat u think dat makes a nairalander real?

How am I sure the op is a male or female?

Most peeps here live and breath on fake personality

Its hard to meet someone reall...though have meet some peeps online who seem real

Cutehector4u:
tell us what are the factors dat u think dat makes a nairalander real?

add dat 2 ur post! u'l get answers. uv quoted me twice alredi its okay pls. i said wat i noticed n dats all. u could av a different opinion. bye

Cutehector4u:
what does it take for a nairalander to be real? What r dose factors dat makes a nairalander real? Tell us

This Real applys to u.. As an Individual
Not as a Nairalander...
Most N'Lers in here be forming thiz and that... Am just sick n tired of all dat bullshiit and all dat craap!

teewai3:
i thought wen u ar young, you were told not talk to strangers, why on earth will you date one! it doesnt feel natural, because its not!!! and there ar too much fake online ursers especially on Nairaland

gbam!

only few girls are real here....u ll jst keep on wastin ur time on a dude like u.....some girls will use their friends pics cus dey r nt sure of themsefs

Cutehector4u:
woow dats a whole lot of percentage bro. R u amongst dem?

I try to be my self here on nl pple who knows me outside of nl can testify to this fact besides am not on nl to find love or girlfriend so why will I put up a fake personality

Linqsz:


Babe u harsh oh!
So we just dey waste our time


Guys,u have heard her.

yes oo. U guys are just wasting ur time. Ive told nl guys that i will never date them, but they wont listen, so i will keep on enjoying the love and attention

mirexxx:
add dat 2 ur post! u'l get answers. uv quoted me twice alredi its okay pls. i said wat i noticed n dats all. u could av a different opinion. bye

pls am sorry for gettn u annoyed. And actually it doesn't call for such harsh temperaments. Its just a forum whr people r free to their own opinions so I really wanted to knw why u say most people are fake... I believe ssomeday u wil get interviewed on tv, and asked personal questions.. I do hope u won't display such temperaments..

Cutehector4u:
ok angelina, I want to put dis question to u. I believe you hav a boyfrnd. Do u think he is on nairaland? Or do u think he uses other social platforms like badoo, wechat etc

he uses other social netwrks, i dnt know if hes on nairaland or even knws about nl, cos hes a very busy person unlike me.

sseunth:
only few girls are real here....u ll jst keep on wastin ur time on a dude like u.....some girls will use their friends pics cus dey r nt sure of themsefs

woow dats one of d best comments av seen so far coming from a guy.. Ur reason is valid. True that

EroticAngelina:
yes oo. U guys are just wasting ur time. Ive told nl guys that i will never date them, but they wont listen, so i will keep on enjoying the love and attention

Its not all about dating dear.
You could make friends and hangout in real life.

ok,what if the guy you're dating happens to be a nairalander who hardly login...eh! Shey u go breakup when u know?

The lord bless us in mysterious ways oh

Cutehector4u:
pls am sorry for gettn u annoyed. And actually it doesn't call for such harsh temperaments. Its just a forum whr people r free to their own opinions so I really wanted to knw why u say most people are fake... I believe ssomeday u wil get interviewed on tv, and asked personal questions.. I do hope u won't display such temperaments..

y would any1 get angry over ntin i'm cool o don't take tinz too serious


av a nice day

EroticAngelina:
he uses other social netwrks, i dnt know if hes on nairaland or even knws about nl, cos hes a very busy person unlike me.

lol comon who doesn't knw abt nairaland... Or do u want to tell me ur dating a sugar daddy? Just joking... I bet he is on nairaland..