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An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by badassProdigy(m): 2:08pm On Jan 24, 2015
Ever liked someone so much that your crush slowly turned into an obsession? Do you like someone but are too scared to ask them out? It may be a crush or puppy love, but it could also be a dark and dangerous form of love called LIMERENCE you've got for the person all this while...

WHAT IS LIMERENCE?

Limerence is a state of mind when you know that you like someone but yet at the same time, you can’t describe it as love. But you would also be crazy about this person and to the world, you would proclaim this form of affection as a crush. Limerence is a dangerous feeling that just can’t be explained.

IS LIMERENCE A FORM OF LOVE?

This is the confusing part. Limerence is always assumed to be the same as love, but it is actually very far from it. In love, you want to share the best moments of your life with someone special, but when you’re struck by limerence, all you want is this person’s attention.
You feel elated and on top of the world when you are given any sort of attention from this person. But if this person doesn’t reciprocate your advances, you can get really upset and depressed. Limerence is a form of affection that has no middle path. You can either be ecstatic in limerence or miserable in limerence.


DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND LIMERENCE

There are a few striking differences between love and limerence:

#No Physical Intimacy!!!
For an individual who is experiencing limerence, there is no thought given to the physical act of making out. Getting physical with your crush is not essential or satisfying to a person who experiences limerence, unlike a person who is physically attracted to someone.

#You Want your Crush to Feel Grateful...[/i]
When you’re physically attracted to someone, you want to be with them, and you most definitely want to get passionate with them. But when you are attracted to someone via limerence, you would create fantasies where you’re the hero or the heroine of your crush’s life.

[i]So don't be confused...................



Source: www.lovepanky.com/love-couch/broken-heart/is-it-a-big-crush-or-limerence[/color]
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by iceberylin(m): 2:15pm On Jan 24, 2015
Bøøked sha undecided
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by alberto2k(m): 3:52pm On Jan 24, 2015
Incase shagrin
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by mirexxx(f): 3:57pm On Jan 24, 2015
okay smiley
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by badassProdigy(m): 4:15pm On Jan 24, 2015
alberto2k:
Incase shagrin
incase wetin...?
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by alberto2k(m): 6:36pm On Jan 24, 2015
badassProdigy:

incase wetin...?
incase it hits lalasticlala undecided
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by badassProdigy(m): 7:15pm On Jan 24, 2015
alberto2k:
incase it hits lalasticlala undecided
#badMan
wetin b lalasticlala abeg
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by alberto2k(m): 7:23pm On Jan 24, 2015
badassProdigy:

#badMan
wetin b lalas.ticlala abeg

Its a new word, it simple means Frontpage

Check N'L dictionary to confirm bro
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by Nobody: 8:11pm On Jan 24, 2015
Elantraceey come and join me *what will you drink*
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by elantraceey(f): 8:14pm On Jan 24, 2015
Ipledge:
Elantraceey come and join me *what will you drink*

lool , anything smiley
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by Mprex(f): 8:21pm On Jan 24, 2015
Cool write up. I think limerence is the right word, crush is just a slang. My thoughts tho
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by Nobody: 8:21pm On Jan 24, 2015
elantraceey:


lool , anything smiley
come and interprete what the op is saying...
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by elantraceey(f): 8:22pm On Jan 24, 2015
cool
Ipledge:
come and interprete what the op is saying...


I think the op explained itself
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jan 24, 2015
elantraceey:
cool


I think the op explained itself
i will like ur own explanation,hope you know y
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by passionate88: 8:26pm On Jan 24, 2015
Jisos!, Muhammadu (not Buhari o) I need to see a psychologist as soon as possible
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by elantraceey(f): 8:27pm On Jan 24, 2015
Ipledge:
i will like ur own explanation,hope you know y
.


nope i don't
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by Nobody: 8:28pm On Jan 24, 2015
elantraceey:
.


nope i don't
so you can also lie shocked cry
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by elantraceey(f): 8:29pm On Jan 24, 2015
Ipledge:
so you can also lit shocked cry


i don't get you
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by badassProdigy(m): 9:28pm On Jan 24, 2015
passionate88:
Jisos!, Muhammadu (not Buhari o) I need to see a psychologist as soon as possible
somebody help a lost niccur...
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by badassProdigy(m): 9:29pm On Jan 24, 2015
alberto2k:


Its a new word, it simple means Frontpage

Check N'L dictionary to confirm bro
were d dico dey i beg...
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by badassProdigy(m): 9:30pm On Jan 24, 2015
Mprex:
Cool write up. I think limerence is the right word, crush is just a slang. My thoughts tho
may be u're right...
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by alberto2k(m): 10:17pm On Jan 24, 2015
badassProdigy:

were d dico dey i beg...

E dey oga Se.un's safe keep
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by badassProdigy(m): 10:20pm On Jan 24, 2015
alberto2k:


E dey oga Se.un's safe keep
grin
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by Nobody: 11:14pm On Jan 24, 2015
Ok so na lime I get for this girl
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by badassProdigy(m): 11:37pm On Jan 24, 2015
kevinberry:
Ok so na lime I get for this girl
no b only lime nah orange grin
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by Dannidom(m): 12:09am On Jan 25, 2015
Intererting
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by Nobody: 12:15am On Jan 25, 2015
badassProdigy:

no b only lime nah orange grin
no na grape
Re: An Eye Opener: Has It Been Limerence Or Crush All This While... by badassProdigy(m): 12:21am On Jan 25, 2015
kevinberry:
no na grape
cheesy badass

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