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| . by Nobody: 10:34pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
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| Re: . by kaythinks(m): 10:42pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
man, just do it......the thinking and the doing leads to the feeling. |
| Re: . by BluePearls(m): 10:45pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
You sounded like you had a terminal illness or something. 1 Like |
| Re: . by Nobody: 10:51pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
kaythinks:I don't get you What should I do |
| Re: . by demelza: 10:54pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
Dont blame your current state on introversion. I am also a "konk" introvert but I can be the life of any gathering I want to be. I can deduce that you are anti-social. |
| Re: . by Nobody: 10:54pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
See what technology has done to you, shame on you, just because of phone and PC,u forgot that u needed real human beings,now ur complaining....nawa oooh bros. Clubbing and goin to parties doesnt make you the coolest dude,last tym i clubbed was over 4yrs ago,i seldom attend paeties too..But when i wana converse with someone,am Super Good...Just learn how to relate with people, at first u will be made jest of,but with time you will get better...Dump most of those nairaland or bbm pals ooo,cos u will never get to see many of them till u die..Moreover its the physical friend that knows and cares about u more than the online peep..Goodlucke,,pls not Jonathan ooo 3 Likes |
| Re: . by Nobody: 10:55pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
Justdulla:Thanks.. |
| Re: . by alberto2k(m): 10:56pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
You need hypher - crazy friends like iceberylin, samflexxy, unibenstudent... They'll infect u with their craziness and introvert will be history Am a crazy fellow too... But I still dey yaba left, those guys I mention above, dem don escape tay tay  *currently planning my own yaba left break*  |
| Re: . by Nobody: 10:56pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
demelza:So what your advice for me Plsssss |
| Re: . by Nobody: 10:57pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
alberto2k:Hilarious..thanks..but I need tips on what to do that will help me |
| Re: . by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
Just avoid been too comfortable,,you are too much in ur comfort zone,get the f.uck off ur comfot zones,,makes friends even it causes u great discomfort,,practise maketh perfect,,just go to gatherings even if u are odd,,your friends will understand u and merge with u as u are.. |
| Re: . by Mrcapability7: 11:03pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
oh am just lyke u am shy and lack knowledge hw to make friends but to get rid of the shynes i started fu*ckin every bitches at our backyard 1 Like |
| Re: . by demelza: 11:04pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
kevinberry:have you tried putting yourself out there? Have you tried being the one to call others instead of waiting for them to call you? Do you have hobbies or interests that can easily put you in contact with others? I used to be in your shoes not until I joined the choir in my school church and that has been the best thing to happen to me. It brought me out of my shell and gave me huge amount of confidence. Take an interest in other things outside of your shell. |
| Re: . by alberto2k(m): 11:04pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
kevinberry: Guy leave that phone and make cool friends in real Itz not necessary that u start clubbing and going to parties before the introvert part of u dies Kill the introvert part of u, if e no gree die... If u get frnds way be extroverts and u open up to them... Dem go help u kill am! The buttom-line remains make cool  friends |
| Re: . by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
First of all Get off the Internet Take a walk Talk to someone, just say hi! you have neighbors, associated with them. Being an introvert shouldn't derive you from talking to people, try to talk to people around, join clubs in school or church. |
| Re: . by Mprex(f): 11:12pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
kevinberry:aww. Dont make it sound so bad dearie. I am an introvert too and as if thats not enough, I've got a slight stutter too. Does that surprise you? So you see, you aint alone in this shit. But you need to start somewhere. I'l advice you to make friends online. I mean friends you can talk with, laugh with, joke with online. When you are very free with someone online, you wont be scared of meeting the person offline. And pls, dont get addicted to this site, its incurable  one more thing, clubbing and partying doesnt change your nature. You can do all the clubbing in the world and you will still be an introvert. Its a thing of the mind so you need to start working on your mindset and your thoughts before you get to the physical part |
| Re: . by Nobody: 11:18pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
Mprex:Thanks Dearie,Really appreciate your comment.. Mind to be my friend.. |
| Re: . by Ab025(m): 11:20pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
@poster.....just take a walk out to the nearest ahawo joint to wherever u live, ask for the "best girl", when they bring her to u, pay her for a hot 2hour performance, i bet when she has finished ravishing you, u wont be shy for a while......use a CD o |
| Re: . by Mprex(f): 11:27pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
kevinberry:you are welcome. I dont mind |
| Re: . by Blackeard(m): 11:31pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
Lmao Nigga! You're not dying. If u want to let go of this kinda life...move, you're not a tree. Leave that mental cocoon you're encased in. Put yourself out there, go out. Make friends. Don't just stay in ur house whining. Being an introvert doesn't mean you shouldn't be a fun person. I'm an introvert too (sort of). But with the way I am people like to have me around them. Change your mindset. U won't make friends in this "self-pity" state. Be confident. If u see something u like, go for it. Take it. Its yours!! |
| Re: . by Nobody: 11:31pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
Mprex:thanch you Wait a minute on nairaland do we add or follow Cus am confuse |
| Re: . by laidian(m): 11:45pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
I wouldnt have said it better! Being an introvert isnt a sin, and that is the best you can be. I do things excellently when i am alone. Only work on your deficiency to relate with people in real world smoothly. Please see caution in your conversion. |
| Re: . by Mprex(f): 11:48pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
kevinberry:lols. You click on a person's profile and you follow or send a private mail |
| Re: . by Nobody: 11:50pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
Mprex:alrit thanks once more |
| Re: . by Nobody: 11:56pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
A big thanks to all who gave me tips on what to do I really appreciate it @unibenstudent hope to see you very soon@benin,currently@warri..once more I say thank you for your tips.. |
| Re: . by Mprex(f): 12:03am On Jan 26, 2015 |
kevinberry:you are welcomed |
| Re: . by Nobody: 12:22am On Jan 26, 2015 |
This post better be on health section. |
| Re: . by drmikeadams(m): 12:33am On Jan 26, 2015 |
Hehe just buy me alomo,I will be ur best friend,, we will go hunt chicks ,,if u hunt 10 girls a day,one will gree for u,,,u can go to drinking joints and offer to buy some one drink ,it can be a guy,,go to viewing centers and watch ball u make more friends in there,,guys love football and argument,,,just step out,,,,me na introvert too,I don't go to parties or clubbing,I don't know I still have dis way making friends,,,I love my origin too,,, |
| Re: . by Nobody: 1:02am On Jan 26, 2015 |
Nneka123:u said I should say hi,so hiiiiii. |
| Re: . by Nobody: 1:08am On Jan 26, 2015 |
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| Re: . by Nobody: 1:11am On Jan 26, 2015 |
laidian:don't mind them,all of them are saying go out there,mcheeew,a lot of fake friends out there,op if U are rich u better be careful, fake friends out there they will kill u. |
| Re: . by Nobody: 1:16am On Jan 26, 2015 |
[quote author=sauceny post=30136433][/quote]is the car on ur siggy for sale? |
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