carefreewannabe:


I am in a relationship.

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obowunmi:
What if man violates the contract and the woman does not want to leave.

He won't change but you stay with a cheating husband, whose fault is it?

Timbuktou:
Like kings and their subjects, bosses and their employees, parents and their children? You girls are funny.

Sophyrocks:


And adultery is totally prohibited in the bible. It is even a criteria for those who want to be in the kingdom of God. People will mention solomon, abraham, david and co but will forget the consequences of their polygamy. God allowing men of those days to marry more than one wife does not mean he is in support. Just because God has not destroyed satan does not mean he is in support of satan. That was why he sent Jesus to set the records straight and jesus had to repeat it again that a man must have only one wife and they will become one flesh. Not one man and many wives. None of the christians then in jesus time married more than one wife. Greed no go allow them hear word.

lawdy:
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What a load of horse shit. How do you prove dat christians in " jesus time" never married more than one wife.Feel free to quote The bible. But sha methinks Broda you can lie ooo.

Timbuktou:
Like kings and their subjects, bosses and their employees, parents and their children? You girls are funny.

Timbuktou:

1. As a matter of fact.

2. We could write a book on this, I'd rather not go into this. Time and energy sapping. Check my most recent posts on the boys night out thread for further clarification.

3. Very little? Because I refuse to believe your own version of events? Only strenght, yet women will not willfully marry a man of lower status than they amongst other pairing/coupling factors?

4. I said only men? Oh, ok, then.

TV01:


If it's not marriage, it ain't marriage.

I not climbing any mountain for a mere relationship ,


TV

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carefreewannabe:
Nobody asks you to climb a mountain. It's not your life but mine.

^{**Sophyrocks - for the third time, I'm asking you to come and update us about this chap saying hi, hi** changes dp again !}

bukatyne:


Please make me head usher, now I am begging

Timbuktou:
Oh, better. I'm working on making you first lady of the ministry. Smile, sis, Jesus loves you.

PS: was involved in a car crash, an okada man felt I didn't need a door and side mirror. Will get back to your other points.

bukatyne:


1. Try cleaving to three and come to testify

2. Your point, very true though monogamy has an edge over polygamy when it comes to been peaceful

3. I am not blaming Jacob here, Laban's trickery was one of the consequences of deceiving his father and cheating his brother. As for law against such stuffs, it was until Moses' time and even at that, it was jungle justice kind of stuff

4. You would have served him

5. Who suffered spousal abuse? Lot or Jacob? Abraham was not polygamous but he slept with another woman outside marriage to give him a child (courtesy his wife)

6. Try

crackhaus:

carefreewannabe:


1. Do you consider a king a superior human being?

2. Do you think your boss is a superior human being?

3. Do you think kids are inferior human beings?

carefreewannabe:


1. Who says it is a fact? You?



2. I saw them and since the thread is for boys, I remain silent there.
Just for your information, like here, a lot of what you say is wrong and tells me that you have simplistic views.



3. You don't even know my own version.
And what is your point?




4. You did, in your last post.

Onegai:

1. My dear, no need for this. My apologies if it smarted a little.

2. But to be honest, your opinion won't help you. You can't go into a market expecting everyone to cheat you, without it happening. You cannot go into marriage expecting to dictate things according to your tune and it will somehow be a pleasant experience for all.

3. If you want a wonderful woman, respect yourself and respect her. That's it, that's all.

4. Understand that, when you need financial help from your wife, if she doesn't give it doesn't mean she doesn't care, it means she doesn't want a situation where later on, your ego as a man is dented because of it (are there not some times your parents came to your rescue and you resented them. Because you thought you were grown-up enough to handle things? How much more so a wife!)

5. Understand that most women who stay with cheating husbands are doing so because of the social and financial implications of being married to a big man. If the situation won't kill me, I'd rather be "Mrs Otedola" than ex-Mrs. Otedola and if he's embarassing me out there by cheating publicly and disrespecting me, only then will I divorce him (I'm speaking from experience).

6. Women aren't staying because of some archaic conditions, my bro-in-law's grandmother (Yoruba) left her first hubby at a time all you men feel wives were staying in unhappy marriages.

7. Just be the best you can be emotionally to a woman, be strong for her and be considerate, tolerant and kind and not selfish. You will never need to demand for submission or respect, she will freely give it and she will put your happiness high up there. All the best

Timbuktou:


1. Well, not I but, those who have gone before I and those who have dedicated their existence to understanding the phenomenon that is the male-female pairing/coupling imperative.

2. Alrighty, then.

3. What is your opinion?

4. Oh, then, consider my post corrected for accuracy.

Timbuktou:

1. In the context of the kingdom; superior to subjects.

2. In the context of the workplace; superior to subordinates and employees.

3. In the context of the home, and in their growing up years; inferior to their parents.

Are you going to ask if a doctor is superior to a cleaner too?
Because if you are, I'd appreciate if you accounted for context.

carefreewannabe:


1. You are comparing apples and oranges.

2. The first example shows how in*sane it is to claim that a certain group of people is superior by birthright because they were born into a certain family.

3. The second example shows that comparisons between companies and families are futile. A boss can tell you what to do because he / she pays you.
If you want to copy such a contract agreement and make it the foundation of your relationship / marriage, then your wife's submission will increase or decrease with the size and weight of your pocket.

4. Would you like it?

5. As for the third example, I can only say that children are superior to adults in many ways. This example shows that positions in a system can be flexible, rather than fixed.

6. Last but not least,

7. YES, a cleaner can be superior to a doctor.

8. Some doctors operate on people for the sake of money even if the procedure is unnecessary and bears risks.
Some cleaners would not steal a kobo, given the opportunity to do so without being caught, even if they and their families have very little.

9. It's sad that we judge people so easily and so blindly.

Timbuktou:


1. So you think.

2. You asked if kings were superior, to which I answered that in the context of the kingdom they would be. Whether by birthright or by conquest, a king is superior to his subjects in the context of the same kingdom. Stop beating about the bush.

3. Not all bosses are employers, and even if they were in the context of the workplace they'd be superior to subordinates/employees.

While you're trying deliberately strawman my position, let me remind you that, the superiority of a king over his subjects is not the same contextually as that of a boss-subordinate. Why, therefore, do you think a relationship between spouses has to be in the context of the workplace ? I made those analogies because your point was that there's no superior of inferior person anywhere, which I don't agree with. Simple, really.

4. As to liking whether my wife submission would be a function of my financial status everytime, I wouldn't like but, I wouldn't hate it either, I would simply understand it. You see, women today are openly and unashamedly hypergamous, I've got the memo and act accordingly. It is what it is. You might try to bury your head in the sand about it, still doesn't change the fact.

5. The flexibility of any system does not preclude the existence of laws and principles. Flexibility of children is under the dictates off their parents. They can listen to daddy or go get their own house and live as they please. While they bunk with daddy, though, they better stick to his rules. Now that's flexibility

6. I'm tempted to call your comprehension skills into question. It would seem you're arguing for the sake of it. The reason I asked you to account for success is because context dictates everything. I'm well aware that a cleaner could be superior to a doctor which is why I posed the question with conditionalities.

7. Miss me with that judgement tripe.

carefreewannabe:


You have again proven that you have extremely simplistic approaches.

Even if parent is superior to a child, for example, in the way that it can tell the child what to eat or wear, the child is superior to the parents at the age of five when it comes to memory games as it has a visual memory that an adult cannot have unless he or she is autistic.

Even if a boss is higher in rank than his employees, for example, an employee can still be superior when it comes to the performance of particular tasks.

Therefore, no human being is superior / inferior to another.

Anyway, enjoy making your woman feel like your inferior, you seem to need it.

I will go to work now and even my boss will not make me feel inferior.

Timbuktou:
Your boss doesn't need to make you feel inferior. You know your place, he knows his. That's all that matters.

carefreewannabe:


My boss is female.

What makes you think you are superior to your (future) wife?

Timbuktou:

Well, then, she knows her place

Very funny, Carefree

carefreewannabe:


Please, tell me. I am really interested in your way of thinking.

What makes you think that you are superior to your wife?

Timbuktou:

What did you have for breakfast?

Was it filling? You hungry?

carefreewannabe:


Why are you trying to avoid the question? Is it so difficult?

Timbuktou:
Changed my mind. Look up

carefreewannabe:


I am not going to look it up but I am happy for your wife and your daughters.