Dating is good, it exposes both of you. You know
yourselves better, and yes, no one is perfect, but you are
aware of each other’s imperfections, you work to adjust it.
I know many people will argue that dating helps you to
know the right man or woman-there is actually no perfect
one, dating only helps us to get familar with each other,
along with our good and bad sides. Because of that
argument, people continue to jump from one girl/boy to
another in search of mr or mrs right, and most times this
search is frustrating because non of those you meet seem
to be right in your perception, so who then is the right or
perfect one? Are you perfect to start with? At the end of
the day, we hurt ourselves instead of finding what we
desired.
These are the effects of dating who you’ll not marry.
You feel guilty of your past deeds. Especially the females,
you remember all the rough play you had with some guys
back then, and you feel guilty.
You are hurt: As one relationship terminate and the other,
there are always tears of heartbreak.
You may develope feelings for your past lovers, and then
you may just cheat. This can kill your marriage, you know.
You are likely to love your present spouse less than you
normally would.. Because you’ve loved several men or
women before, and it seems love is not even real again.
You may be ashamed of some people you dated before,
especially when you attain greatness.
Please, keep to one boy or girl and be faithful to him or
her. Let your first love also be your last love. I know what
I’m saying. The love and affection you share is
unqualifiable.

*Just strolling*

It's possible you date just one person and it leads to a good marriage.
It's also possible you date several people and then end up in a good marriage.
The second is more likely to be than the first. Why? Experience... This experience will guide you in the eternity called marriage.
You cannot compare a newly hired staff who has worked in several multinational firms, across different environment and roles, to the new staff who has worked only in one firm for same years

I was here

Catwalks in

Phinalphantasy:
It's possible you date just one person and it leads to a good marriage.
It's also possible you date several people and then end up in a good marriage.
The second is more likely to be than the first. Why? Experience... This experience will guide you in the eternity called marriage.
You cannot compare a newly hired staff who has worked in several multinational firms, across different environment and roles, to the new staff who has worked only in one firm for same years

I get ur point hun .tnx