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Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by NiceMan4(m): 10:57pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
It really amuses me as to why girls are just not sincere and straightfaward with what they want. Eventhough I've always thought that girls are controversial, it never appeared so clear as this until my experience. Normally, I'm the kind of guy that the girl I truly like or even love, as long as she is not my girl friend; I don't allow any sexual thought to come to play in my mind, because I respect her, and doesn't see her as a sex object. But the thing now is kind off bringing negative result will I say. One very clear one was a girl I met at an examination centre some years ago, we became close and she told me about her boy friend. We went out some couple of times, and she told me her bf was accusing her of cheating, that some of his friends must have seen me with her; I was not too supprised, because anyone around us will think we are the happening couples. So, I called her boy friend without her consent and explained things to him sincerly, and he was really impressed that if I was actually guilty, I wouldn't have called him. Later she knew about it, and everything was cool and calm, as our three became friends. Nothwithstanding that, she kept wanting to come to my place and I was turning it down with excuses, and she then invited me to her house. I was not comfortable, because I didn't want to compound issues between her and her boy friend. She kept insisting, and I finally went there, and behold, after a short while b4 I could finish eating what she offered me, her bf came, and that made me feel bad. I was like what will he be thinking I'm doing here. I got more uncomfortable eventhough he didn't make any suspicious face. Shortly I told them I was leaving, and they escorted me. Later in the evening that day, she texted me appologizing that she dien't know her boy friend would be coming,and that text message wondered me. Why would she be appologizing to me,? Was it bad that her boy friend came in? Or she had an ulterior motive maybe to seduce me? Another day, she kept insisting I come to her place again, but I swore never to go again, I was ok with our normal friendship of calls, chats, and maybe having dates in public places one in a while. She kept insisting and insisting that I come, but I turned her down, and that was how our friendship crumbled. She no longer picked my calls. When I discussed it with my guys, they simply mocked me by saying I was dull and all that, that she needed s€.x and all that. Could this really be so, eventhough its obvious. This is a girl that was not even my girlfriend, and we chatted like good friends without strings attached. The fact is I liked the girl (I still like her) and we shared many things in common, she appeared decent. What could she had wanted more? Why are some girls not sincere, let me not generalize. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by naijaboiy: 11:13pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
Eeyah |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by Cruzeiro(m): 11:17pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
get used to it. |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by Mrcapability7: 11:29pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
first of all i want you all to congrate me for getting under my eight months girlfriend pant yesterday but wetin de screw me up she lied being a virgin.. Back to the point Op do you need to asked us when ur niggas already told you the calamity, maybe her boyfriend network isn't deriving her the full satisfication and she needed a new maintenance to service her to full satisfication.. Just contempt her again 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by Nobody: 11:32pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
Mrcapability7:lwkm! |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
Story of op's life. A very sad story. where the heck is my tissue? |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by folawiyoma(m): 11:40pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
If na me, the gurl go don dey shout halle halle I like it hehe by now. Guy na you no no wetin you want. Abi what is the point in liking a gurl you are depriving? In my word u will get a jail term at least to get some sense into yah brain |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by Mrcapability7: 11:41pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
Nneka123:Nneka mi sweet origin e were fine shape and bodi,wia u de ping frm? |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by Nobody: 11:45pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
Mrcapability7:you get money o |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by Nobody: 11:47pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
op u dull sha, babe wnts u 2 shine ha congo and u were forming mr nice guy |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by Mrcapability7: 11:51pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
Nneka123:that one no be problem for mr capable as u already check real swag*dp* |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by InZA: 11:51pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
I wonder what is in that her house that she's always wanting you to come over for Some girls sha * DEEP SIGH * |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by Nobody: 12:01am On Jan 30, 2015 |
my own opinion; you are a real MAN, you are not an ordinary MALE cos you have control over something this difficult. who knows what would have become of you if you befell that ... your respect would have reduced. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by Nobody: 12:05am On Jan 30, 2015 |
Nneka123:I've been looking for you since you left that morning! you forgot your pant and wore my boxers oh. please when are you coming back? |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by NiceMan4(m): 6:17am On Jan 30, 2015 |
shadowgwalker:I'm just impressed by this bro. I'm seriously laughing at the statements of the kids above, who think about sex and nothing else. Non control for sex is the beginning of lack of success, respect and everything. Life is more than sex, I don't joke with my personality. If I want sex, I get it the right way. I never regretted anything with her, I'm proud of my stand, I know that one day, she'll still come to beg me, and when she comes, I won't accept her because I now want the sex, but to continue our normal ways. I only pose thir question to get more light from girls in this forum as to why they act like that. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by Nobody: 6:43am On Jan 30, 2015 |
great |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by Karleb(m): 7:07am On Jan 30, 2015 |
Even my 4yr old sis knows what she wanted. |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
NiceMan4: this is one hard thing to control once you start. if anybody likes, let the person insult me too but I regret starting up my sex life before marriage. every fun has a reward and sacrifice. |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
Mrcapability7:Money make them keep for your hand Na him you dey fluant |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by Mrcapability7: 5:53pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
kevinberry:lol na so bro |
Re: Why Are Girls Not Sincere With What They Really Want? by Nobody: 7:47pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
OP am proud of u. Kip it up. |
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