OP the best advice I have for you is to abort the pregnancy and take time to rethink your life

You dont want to bring a child into the world with your current state of mind and I am certain the guy would deny the pregnancy from day 1

Blackbeauty:
Nigerian girls making stupid decisions since 1960....i really dont know what to say because am amazed by the op's degree of foolishness..from the story..u were even the only one in that relationship..now u went ahead to get pregnant for the same man..its your party..the decision to keep the child or not relies on u..IMO that child deserves someone with a more balanced view of life..not a lady who thinks with the fairytale concept of life she has pictured in her head!give the child up for adoption..cos u are simply mot ready to be a mother!

Sistah, blaming her for deciding in a way she wasn't ready for isn't going to help her.
Sometimes people can have all sorts of protection and seemingly ideal relationship and still get pregnant and still get in trouble. She don't need to hear how much she failed and is not ready.

She needs to hear things can get better even with situation she's in and how to handle that pregnancy if she's keeping it, and how to live after. She needs courage and not guilt. She already is in a compromising situation and she's looking solutions. Let's not make it more difficult.

BlackLeopard:


Sistah, blaming her for deciding in a way she wasn't ready for isn't going to help her.
Sometimes people can have all sorts of protection and seemingly ideal relationship and still get pregnant and still get in trouble. She don't need to hear how much she failed and is not ready.

She needs to hear things can get better even with situation she's in and how to handle that pregnancy if she's keeping it, and how to live after. She needs courage and not guilt. She already is in a compromising situation and she's looking solutions. Let's not make it more difficult.

Very nice.

tunrybabe:
Av read all ur comments. And I agree that av been foolish, can't believe this is happening to me. Am I dreaming? I already promised God and d unborn baby that I won't commit abortion, if not d preg is just 3 weeks. Iv learnt my lesson. Thanks to all
To dose that tried to mail me, d mail addy isn't functioning now, u can get me on 080523231**. I need ur sincere advice plsssssssssssssssssssssss.

I like the fact that you agree to have been foolish, but when are u going to get over the foolishness??

Why is your phone number up there?? Please edit that post and replace with another contact means.

Driven:
Forgive me all, but I just want to be enlightened. My question is: what's the name of the drug that people take to embolden them enough to have unprotected sex in this century of Aids?

Please, can someone tell me? Please?

You're thinking anything in aphrodisiac group of substances.
But bottom line, you just don't do unprotected sex.
Especially as you said, 'in this century of AIDS'. AIDS isn't a boogeyman that will evade you by magic. It's real and it kills.

Sophyrocks:


And that is what i do not like about women. All these sob stories are what scare single ladies away making marriage look horrible. This is why when a woman relates a sob story of how her boyfriend/husband supposedly 'changed', one needs to ask questions as to what sort of relationships they had or agreed to have. How can a lady whose role model is annie idibia, take all sorts of sh1ts while dating, turns around and start blaming men for it? I think parents most especially mothers are failing woefully in their responsibilities to mentor their daughters on the proper mindset to have towards marriage. You cannot give what you dnt have. If you dnt have self esteem as a mother your daughters wont also. How many mothers even counsel them on developing healthy self esteem? Their mothers will pass the same 'victim' mindset to them. Some mothers dnt even have time to counsel their daughters. can you blame these ladies much? all they know is their daughters must bring a man to marry them. It doesnt matter who or what sort of man he is. 'Go and marry, Go and marry'. Thus, the 'annie idibia' frenzy.

@ bolded, WORD

BlackLeopard:


You're thinking anything in aphrodisiac group of substances.
But bottom line, you just don't do unprotected sex.
Especially as you said, 'in this century of AIDS'. AIDS isn't a boogeyman that will evade you by magic. It's real and it kills.

Lol. Trust me, that was a rhetorical question. I was a bit bewildered when I finished reading the original post which 'reported' several women pregnant for one man, including the op...meaning everyone's been throwing caution to the wind!

aisha2:


Lol call her/ him and ask these questions, poster no go gree answer here he/ she don leave number for page 2

It is true

We need to know What she wants

Might be a scam like you pointed out

Driven:



Lol. Trust me, that was a rhetorical question. I was a bit bewildered when I finished reading the original post which 'reported' several women pregnant for one man, including the op...meaning everyone's been throwing caution to the wind!

Throw the words " I will marry you" at a Nigerian girl and she doesn't mind getting HIV by having unprotected se-x with you.

veave:
I know this guy. He works with glo. True or false op? Had about 3 baby mama on his case the last time i heard. And was asking another lady to get preggsie before he marries her.

Jesuuuu chrstiii, are you for real

Lawdhamercy, OP pls confirm it its him ,

Advice I cannot give you, you have been too foolish for words, good luck!

BlackLeopard:


You, fwck, shut your foolish mouth about something you know nothing about.
You never gon be a mother so either have something nice to say or hide your nasty face.

see i no borrow money from any of ur generations to buy phone or sub...if u dnt lyk my comment pls kindly ignore, then if u ar praying for bad news in ur lyf or d lyf of ur love ones u can qoute me again..besides its only eediots lyk u that wont see that OP is only fooling herself .....olosi ara e mi o mo n kan to kan e pelu opinion mi, its high tym some start dealing wit oloriburuku lyk u, telling me i cn neva be a mother, ma je ki n fi inu to n bi mi ni irole yi mu e..

veave:
I know this guy. He works with glo. True or false op? Had about 3 baby mama on his case the last time i heard. And was asking another lady to get preggsie before he marries her.

O pari.

A serial impregnator.

ileobatojo:


I sincerely hope you're right. No one should be this daft.

Hahahahahahahahaha!

ileobatojo:


O pari.

A serial impregnator.

Ile abeg, no kill me...

Which one be serial impregnator again?

fem29:



Jesuuuu chrstiii, are you for real

Lawdhamercy, OP pls confirm it its him ,

Advice I cannot give you, you have been too foolish for words, good luck!

It was not a funny matter then oh. Hmmmn

bukatyne:


Ile abeg, no kill me...

Which one be serial impregnator again?

My sister, na so o.

How kind of you

BlackLeopard:


Sistah, blaming her for deciding in a way she wasn't ready for isn't going to help her.
Sometimes people can have all sorts of protection and seemingly ideal relationship and still get pregnant and still get in trouble. She don't need to hear how much she failed and is not ready.

She needs to hear things can get better even with situation she's in and how to handle that pregnancy if she's keeping it, and how to live after. She needs courage and not guilt. She already is in a compromising situation and she's looking solutions. Let's not make it more difficult.

Same old story.

Meanwhile, I'm sure there was a nice guy somwhere, patiently waiting for your love. But you chose to ignore him and continue with someone who treated you badly and had multiple children out of wedlock.


Now ur here crying for us. Wat do u want us to do?

Oya sorry. Mtcheeew

Your foolishness is out of this world. What a shame to the women folk. You probably have a low esteem, that's why your sheepishly behaved the way you did. Did he cast a spell on you? How old are you? Do you have parents? While sincere and available men may have been coming your way, yet you remained on your foolish expedition. You even gave a testimony? Committing adultery and fornication with a man that has a Ph.D. in impregnating women. Wonders shall never end. You don't need any help.

OP, look at the bright side - at least you didn't marry him, seems like that would have been worse
Pick yourself up and tell yourself you deserve better. What does not kill you makes you stronger and wiser

OP! U are a stewpid ignorant fool! As I read ur write up, be like say make I land u heavy BLOW for ya face! ODE!

Driven:
Forgive me all, but I just want to be enlightened. My question is: what's the name of the drug that people take to embolden them enough to have unprotected sex in this century of Aids?

Please, can someone tell me? Please?

Beats me too...

Maybe at that point in time the brain was operating at another frequency and common sense evaporated

aisha2:


Throw the words " I will marry you" at a Nigerian girl and she doesn't mind getting HIV by having unprotected se-x with you.

Word! I have seen this for real.

Let the guy have small money, throw in the I will marry you and its unprotected open sesame.

Driven:
Forgive me all, but I just want to be enlightened. My question is: what's the name of the drug that people take to embolden them enough to have unprotected sex in this century of Aids?

Please, can someone tell me? Please?

The not my portion, I am anointed/ a chosen / aids happens to bad people as punishment.

No be naija?

MMotimo:
OP, look at the bright side - at least you didn't marry him, seems like that would have been worse
Pick yourself up and tell yourself you deserve better. What does not kill you makes you stronger and wiser

This sha.

Kassidy90:

see i no borrow money from any of ur generations to buy phone or sub...if u dnt lyk my comment pls kindly ignore, then if u ar praying for bad news in ur lyf or d lyf of ur love ones u can qoute me again..besides its only eediots lyk u that wont see that OP is only fooling herself .....olosi ara e mi o mo n kan to kan e pelu opinion mi, its high tym some start dealing wit oloriburuku lyk u, telling me i cn neva be a mother, ma je ki n fi inu to n bi mi ni irole yi mu e..

Lol I love how incapable of talking rationally so many men here once called out are, shine on, this is totally funny.
Do you throw around those comments of how powerful you are in real life too or just on nairaland
You fwcked up, you keep fwcking up coming when people are hurt to kick some more, I have fwck all liking of bullies, and all your mojo threats are empty bullshit.

BlackLeopard:


Lol I love how incapable of talking rationally so many men here once called out are, shine on, this is totally funny.
Do you throw around those comments of how powerful you are in real life too or just on nairaland
You fwcked up, you keep fwcking up coming when people are hurt to kick some more, I have fwck all liking of bullies, and all your mojo threats are empty bullshit.

No one is threating anyone here my point is if u dnt like someone s opinion on sometin try n ignore instead of being mr know all.......and again pls dnt qoute again

Has anyone called thr poster yet? Abeg call and give us gist/ feedback

@ poster, please watch this, maybe you'll learn something from the little girl

https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=858960624161909&set=vb.386149218109721&type=2&theater

Cheers.