What advice do you want is to give you ehn?

Perhaps we help you beg him to keep his willy in his boxers?

He has a commitment phobia and you need to ask yourself if you are ready to be a single mother

veave:

Except its not this particular person i know... name starts with Ades--e

Still. 3 baby mamas Wow. Seems like he wants to spread his seed without the responsibility of marriage.
I tire for some men sha.

veave:
I know this guy. He works with glo. True or false op? Had about 3 baby mama on his case the last time i heard. And was asking another lady to get preggsie before he marries her.

Prolly trying to raise his own village

Women!
Why would u go ahead be having sex with someone u are not married to? If he can get the milk for free then he doesn't need to buy the cow. (Basic fact)
Before u go into any relationship, u should define it from the onset not along the way.
Now, I think it is time to move on with ur life. No need crying over split milk.

UjSizzle:

Still. 3 baby mamas Wow. Seems like he wants to spread his seed without the responsibility of marriage.
I tire for some men sha.

How can you tire for some men when she gladly ignored red flags?

She was on a mission albeit wrong target simples

echobee:
Hmmmmmmmm! ops,i am speechless . But ur mumu na first class ooooo . So,u need a pope to talk to u,before u get sense,abi?

ROTFL

ifyalways:
Seriously?

I don't know where they manufacture the type of fish brain ladies parading on NLD.

This Monday morning? Tufiakwa biko

BTW, the man didn't change so just stop right there with the " he practically changed" line. He didn't change nor pretend, you were simply foooolish.

See tori? Jeez! Anyway done is done. I'm sure you'd discard whatever advisory you get here the moment this guy calls you again so I won't bother offering any. However sisi, it's 2015, enter market buy yourself, 12 full yards of wisdom and self respect.

I need to buy you a drink for this

I wonder why girls will choose to stick to an idiotas that treat them like options mstewwwww.

jaybee3:

How can you tire for some men when she gladly ignored red flags?

She was on a mission albeit wrong target simples

Hunter got hunted?

Op
You don already do 'SME SME'
Open your eyes and acquire wisdom
No fall mugu again o!

This story is fake

rolled:
This story is fake

It has to be, for my sanity I choose to believe some bored teenager woke up and decided to play with our heads this Monday morning surely no woman can be this silly

tunrybabe:
Am writing this with a heavy and sorrowful heart, I need ur advice on wat next to do. To summarize my story, I met dis cute and handsome guy in his place of work over a year ago, precisely late 2013. After askn me out and since I wasn't into any relationship, I accepted and we got started. It was as if I av never dated before, I loved, cherished and respected him so much to a fault. I did everytin he wanted. But in turn, he was very strict and harsh on me. I would beg him to visit, despite the fact that I was the one calling him. He seldomly calls. He never allowed me visit him, giving excuses like he was scotting with a friend, months passed and it went on like dat, some times I get frustrated and feels like quiting, but I wouldn't just be able to do so. One day I decided to check him up on facebook, cos we weren't friends on fb. I discovered he had a wife and a son abroad. I asked him if he had any issue or if he was married, he denied and told me he wasn't married. Despite d fact dat I knew he was lying, I still continued with him. In short it was a hell of a time with him. To cut d long story short, he came crying to me one day that a woman abroad had a baby for him, which was supposed to be an arrange marriage in other for him to get his citizenship. And one tin led to d oda and d woman got pregnant and gave birth to a baby. He told me d lady collected a huge sum of money from him cos of d deal. He said wat is more surprising is d fact that d lady wanted to eat her cake and av it. Meaning she was interested in actually marrying him. According to his story, he wouldn't marry such a lady, since den, shes been in d UK with d child. After all, I continued with him, I forgot to chip it in that am a graduate from a Nigerian University and i am not workn presently. He told me point blank that not until I get a job, he wouldn't marry me. With that, I increased my hussling, after a while he made him self unavailable, I would call,n he wouldn't pick, for weeks, I decided to stop Calln him and move on. I later got a job in Lagos, and since we weren't talking, I dint inform him. A member of my church where I gave d testimony concerning my job happens to be a a colleague to my guy in their formal branch. I discovered dis woman called my guy and congratulated him concerning my job, Aldo I never knew until the my guy called me months later. I was so shocked to see his call, @ d same time I was happy, tears of joy were stripping down my cheek. Dis situation brought us together. While I continued my ordeal. Dis time he was better dan d formal, but he was still secretive and harsh, I later got a U.S visa which I told him abt. He was so glad, and d story changed. He was closer to me an we see often, I later got to know his family apartment in IB. But I never knew where he was staying. He would take me to his friends house and introduce me to them unlike before. I was contented at least I now know some pple with him. He said we would have our intro Ddec 2014, wen I got back from the states. Since den he's bin postponing it. I forgot to include it that, I discover anodda lady in Nigeria had a baby girl for him. And he said he wouldn't marry her too. That she forced d preg on him. Now I got preg, he stopped calling and changed wen he heard abt it. Someone called me some days later and was raining curses on me that am an harlot, that she has gotten all info about me. That she will deal with me. After d incidence, my guy has been misbehaving. Am so frustrated and feel like committing suicide. My preg is about 1 month old and I don't intend tampering with it.

What sort of human being are you? How can a human be this st.upid? Dnt you know that in your dealings with men, your brain must function better than your heart? Where did you see that he changed? he changed from what to what? You are not serious. All what you women keep reporting as change needs enough scrutiny and criticism. Where did you keep your brain? In his blokos?

Look at all what i bolded. obvious signs to tell you that this man needs to be dumped. Why should you have a baby for a man like this? Why? Why are you destroying your life like this? You used your two hands to destroy your life. So you will take such risk as having a baby for an irresponsible man that has shown he isnt ready for commitment then later come here and disturb us with sob stories? Who are you fooling here? What is wrong with you women sef? Must you all be at the receiving end? is there an unwritten code somewhere that says women must be at the receiving end? Why cant y'all break the jinx and stop creating pity parties for once? Haba! You knew all this yet you went ahead to have a baby for him. I have stopped wasting my precious time advising fish brained women like you because you lot never learn and never listen to advice. what you people need is criticism that will reset your brains. Now you are thinking of suicide. because of what? because of a problem you created for yourself? You must be joking!!

aisha2:


It has to be, for my sanity I choose to believe some bored teenager woke up and decided to play with our heads this Monday morning surely no woman can be this.silly

You are wrong. Many women are this silly, trust me

Babe, just in case its this same person you are talking about. Firstly remove the word 'my guy' from your mouth. I can boldly tell you that you are on your own. He has moved on to the next candidate... if all the advices above is not enough for you, then i doubt you'd ever be wise in this world again. Ndi igbo will say, "fikwaa isaa n'anya"

na wa o, what nonsense is this?
did he charm you (I mean spiritually)?
cause I don't see any reason why someone will be this ........... ( a beg am not ready to insult anyone this morning)

pleaeeeese move on with your life don't even think a second about him, and make sure you insult him like he is a piece of trash when else he calls.

if you're under spiritual control please go to mountain of fire and miracle ministry for deliverance.

what a painful pity

rolled:
This story is fake

could well be real. I've seen men treat women much worse than this. I've seen ladies act much more foolish than this. I've seen ladies messed up their lives because they are in "love".
you'll be amazed at the number of fish brained girls roaming the streets of naija.

xynerise:

You are wrong. Many women are this silly, trust me

Absolutely right. Such women are a disgrace to womanhood.

Sophyrocks:


Absolutely right. Such women are a disgrace to womanhood.

A lot of them really need re-orientation.

How are you dear?

xynerise:

Hunter got hunted?

Excuse me sir . Wetin u dey find for here this early momo? .
Hp u see as we finish aston villa yesterday ,dats a warning to u . Tell fredoooooooooo dat

The story is fake. I can never believe a lady will be dis stupid.

xynerise:

A lot of them really need re-orientation.

How are you dear?

True. Not just re-orientation, an overall reseting of their brains since they are not functioning properly.

I am fine thank you and you?

echobee:

Excuse me sir . Wetin u dey find for here this early momo? .
Hp u see as we finish aston villa yesterday ,dats a warning to u . Tell fredoooooooooo dat

You won a 16th position team and you are shinning your 98 teeth .

A warning to Man utd? You gotta be kidding me

Sophyrocks:


True. Not just re-orientation, an overall reseting of their brains since they are not functioning properly.

I am fine thank you and you?

I am fine as usual. It has been a while

I would have said its fake but for this past post, no be today the man start to carry her do mumu



obs/Vacancies / Re: A Nairalander Who Commited Suiccide by tunrybabe: 8:56am On Jul 12, 2014
This life is meant to be enjoyed to d fullest, and not kill ursef over issues like that. Am presently experiencing a heart break, will surely getover it. It's jes a matter of time. He probably didn't tink it tru. RIP to d deceased!
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I read your post again
I have to ask you this " ARE YOU MAD!!?"
ahn ahn!!

Be warned . I ave spoken . Where is fredoooooooooooooo? Mukina2,says he is in jail . Is dat true?

xynerise:

You won a 16th position team and you are shinning your 98 teeth .

A warning to Man utd? You gotta be kidding me

xynerise:

I am fine as usual. It has been a while

Really? I've been frequent in this section though.

Op if you are hoping that he will marry you because you're pregnant for him...sorry o! Right now he's with another girl telling her the exact things he told you...and how you tried to trap him.

It's not wise to 'trap' a man with pregnancy...I pity you because if he was not there for you when you were alone he's not going to be there for the baby.

aisha2:
I would have said its fake but for this past post, no be today the man start to carry her do mumu



obs/Vacancies / Re: A Nairalander Who Commited Suiccide by tunrybabe: 8:56am On Jul 12, 2014
This life is meant to be enjoyed to d fullest, and not kill ursef over issues like that. Am presently experiencing a heart break, will surely getover it. It's jes a matter of time. He probably didn't tink it tru. RIP to d deceased!
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So you see that women can be this brainless? I believed the story because i have heard similar sob stories as this from other fish brained ladies. Talk about women being the architects of their own misfortune. See where she even posted that. In the job/vacancies section. This Op never sabi wetin dey worry am. I have no pity for such women any longer.

Sophyrocks:


So you see that women can be this brainless? I believed the story because i have heard similar sob stories as this from other fish brained ladies. Talk about women being the architects of their own misfortune. See where she even posted that. In the job/vacancies section. This Op never sabi wetin dey worry am. I have no pity for such women any longer.

This was when she was probably looking for a job to use and win his love.
God has blessed her with a Job, God also gave her visa yet she still has zero value for herself instead of enjoying her blessings and living a happy life with what she has been given she clings on desperately to this character of a man and somehow believes she will be the " winner" let her see Annie Idibia oh after the dubai wedding shebi she is back fighting baby mamas desperately posting " happy pictures " per second on instagram to convince herself that she is happy