SemuhleB:
Lol the haters have arrived. Anyways its a Sunday. Not in mood for quarrels. Op I agree with what volvo said. I can never be with someone I don't trust 100%.

I think there is a bigger problem then just what he said to you. Maybe you should consider calling it quits. That way you will have peace of mind. My 2 cents.

When are you going to visit Nigeria?

all4naija:

When are you going to visit Nigeria?

SemuhleB:
When are you going to invite me

I would love to! You quite know I am not living in Nigeria. The truth is that you wouldn't like to visit Nigeria because you are afraid of the people. You are scared of cannibalism based on stereotype and that is holding you back from visiting. I know you would love the locals for their friendliness and swag.

Go Nigeria, the true GIANT of Africa.

all4naija:

I would love to! You quite know I am not living in Nigeria. The truth is that you wouldn't like to visit Nigeria because you are afraid of the people. You are scared of cannibalism based on stereotype and that is holding you back from visiting. I know you would love the locals for their friendliness and swag.

Go Nigeria, the true GIANT of Africa.

JiggamanGh:


Would that stop you from being a product of greencard

PTUI!

Batman123:
@Coco my advice will be to ditch that man and get a Gh guy so that you have peace of mind. You will always be wondering and it's always better to be safe then sorry.

Another thing as you can see by nneka and opios and their irk. <b>Majority of Nigerians hate Ghanaians</b> so don't be surprised at some of the nasty comments you will get.

Now just imagine you going to a country that hates your ppls guts. What will happen to you there?

A word is enough for the wise.

cocostrawberry:
I am quite disturbed at the moment. Something my boyfriend said has been playing on my mind over and over

So my boyfriend of 6 months has been trying to get me to Nigeria for sometime now. So one day I asked him why is he so in a rush to take me to Nigeria. ... His reply was he wants to use me for rituals


Now at first I took it as a joke that he was teasing me however he never said he was and perhaps he was actually saying the truth.

Am I being paranoid?? Or do I actually have reason to be concerned. Why say something like that in first place?

Is this Nigerian humor that I perhaps am not getting?

Am very confused. I wanted a Nigerian perspective on this that's why I am asking here

SemuhleB:
When it comes to Witchcraft etc one can never take enough precaution.

There was a South African lady who went to Nigeria and never came back. Rumours were that she was eaten. Anyways best thing would be to talk to your boyfriend about it. Maybe he does not know about the effect it had on you. Also don't go to Nigeria just incase

iamord:
its childish of him to use such a line! and should not be taken serious. you don't need to come . unless it's something urgent .

Batman123:
@Coco my advice will be to ditch that man and get a Gh guy so that you have peace of mind. You will always be wondering and it's always better to be safe then sorry.

Another thing as you can see by nneka and opios and their irk. Majority of Nigerians hate Ghanaians so don't be surprised at some of the nasty comments you will get.

Now just imagine you going to a country that hates your ppls guts. What will happen to you there?

A word is enough for the wise.

cocostrawberry:
I am quite disturbed at the moment. Something my boyfriend said has been playing on my mind over and over

So my boyfriend of 6 months has been trying to get me to Nigeria for sometime now. So one day I asked him why is he so in a rush to take me to Nigeria. ... His reply was he wants to use me for rituals


Now at first I took it as a joke that he was teasing me however he never said he was and perhaps he was actually saying the truth.

Am I being paranoid?? Or do I actually have reason to be concerned. Why say something like that in first place?

Is this Nigerian humor that I perhaps am not getting?

Am very confused. I wanted a Nigerian perspective on this that's why I am asking here

prettydiva89:

no b babe,na guy

TDstarr:
actually that is a very matured answer, imagine the girl i love asking me suspiciously i want to take her to my country, she looks like a suspicious person.....dat question is enough to piss me off

TDstarr:
do you know if he wants you to meet his parents?? you are just being paranoid, if he wanted to use u for rituals will he tell you?? if i love a girl i would want her to follow me to nigeria to see my roots, pls dont let him get the hint that you are suspicious you might change his mind about yourself

cocostrawberry:
I am quite disturbed at the moment. Something my boyfriend said has been playing on my mind over and over

So my boyfriend of 6 months has been trying to get me to Nigeria for sometime now. So one day I asked him why is he so in a rush to take me to Nigeria. ... His reply was he wants to use me for rituals


Now at first I took it as a joke that he was teasing me however he never said he was and perhaps he was actually saying the truth.

Am I being paranoid?? Or do I actually have reason to be concerned. Why say something like that in first place?

Is this Nigerian humor that I perhaps am not getting?

Am very confused. I wanted a Nigerian perspective on this that's why I am asking here

youmour:
Please tell me u broke up with that ritualist.

Good lawd u r beautiful,ur lips is like magnet,im attracted to em plus uve got perfect sets of teeth unlike mine which is like bugs bunny.i want u girl

cocostrawberry:
lol. Am really flattered but am still with my bf and am not leaving him.

I actually spoke to him about it and he could not stop laughing. He said am too paranoid that even if he was a ritualist, of all people around why would he use me

youmour:



Dammit,can we be close buddies at least.

Mind if i send you a PM?

cocostrawberry:
I don't believe a man and a women can just be 'close buddies'. We can be close buddies on here but I leave Nairaland on Nairaland. This is how ish starts and I firmly believe in prevention rather than cure if you get what I mean

youmour:



Uhm i dont know what u mean oh,except u dont trust "yasef" dont worry i wouldnt take it there,i totally respect the fact you are already in a relationship,who knows maybe we could go on a double date someday when i get hitched...make i no lie sha, Tema girls dey bi keke

cocostrawberry:
lol its not that. Thanks though you so sweet

youmour:



Cocostrawberry,my two favorite addiction

cocostrawberry:

youmour:



Hope my brother is treating you good,if he isnt call on me to set him straight, its Ghanaian girls hunting season,i need to wife one sef