@Nzebiddle
just take note.

JahzaraAde:
@Nzebiddle
just take note.

Obviously he was only trying to humour her. In anycase if really the op's not taking this with a pinch of salt, then she may well be paranoid. @JahzaraAde.

cocostrawberry:
I am quite disturbed at the moment. Something my boyfriend said has been playing on my mind over and over

So my boyfriend of 6 months has been trying to get me to Nigeria for sometime now. So one day I asked him why is he so in a rush to take me to Nigeria. ... His reply was he wants to use me for rituals


Now at first I took it as a joke that he was teasing me however he never said he was and perhaps he was actually saying the truth.

Am I being paranoid?? Or do I actually have reason to be concerned. Why say something like that in first place?

Is this Nigerian humor that I perhaps am not getting?

Am very confused. I wanted a Nigerian perspective on this that's why I am asking here

@ Op, if am your boyfriend. i will say the same thing, it's sarcasm, we have been dating for 6 months and you are over there and am over here, am asking you to come over and you are asking me why do I want to see you. I want to use you to do ASUN, my advice, get your ass down to Nigeria because he is missing you more than life, unless you want him to get admitted in the hospital before you make a move.

cocostrawberry:
Lol yes he is but if he ever messes up at least I know who to call . Good luck with the hunting, am sure it will not be hard to find a Gh wife . Where in Ghana are you based?

Its hella hard,since i dont push a beamer or have 6 figures in my account,im working on my 6pacs though,maybe that will give me an edge,im based at achimota

Batman123:
@Coco my advice will be to ditch that man and get a Gh guy so that you have peace of mind. You will always be wondering and it's always better to be safe then sorry.

Another thing as you can see by nneka and opios and their irk. Majority of Nigerians hate Ghanaians so don't be surprised at some of the nasty comments you will get.

Now just imagine you going to a country that hates your ppls guts. What will happen to you there?

A word is enough for the wise.

Lol. Are you sure you are ok?

purplesummer:


You are welcome...but sincerely, I'm thinking your boyfriend probably has a certain sense of humour that you've not come to terms with. I bet he was just kidding. However, keep your eyes and ears open. Good luck!

Lol... its too late in the night to be liking someone but i like your nose amd side burns.

charismaticdave:


@ Op, if am your boyfriend. i will say the same thing, it's sarcasm, we have been dating for 6 months and you are over there and am over here, am asking you to come over and you are asking me why do I want to see you. I want to use you to do ASUN, my advice, get your ass down to Nigeria because he is missing you more than life, unless you want him to get admitted in the hospital before you make a move.

my boyfriend is based in Ghana too and not Nigeria

Is it the same boyfriend whose tribe or state you just opened a thread about?

amosamali:



Una juju Strong too

I wonder o.

The lady is forming posh.

itstpia8:
Is it the same boyfriend whose tribe or state you just opened a thread about?

Yes

itstpia8:


I wonder o.

The lady is forming posh.

forming posh ? Lol that's a first

redcliff:


Lol. Are you sure you are ok?

Am beyond okay. Truth hurts..