durin my NYSC, a fellow copa toasted me n after a while i accepted, in d course of d rship, she kept on tellin me i was takin her 4granted cos she aproched me 1st, but i didnt see it like that. d point is dat, if girls feel so unconfortable about toastin guys, y den do they do it

it doesn't sound to me like she was uncomfortable. It really just goes back to the thought of men being the first ones to make a move and now that she did you are treating her like a LovePeddler or your head got too big because a girl approached you.

old skool thought .

omega25 is right

H202 is hydrogenperoxide

well i think the girls should contributed here

notice me:

durin my NYSC, a fellow copa toasted me n after a while i accepted, in d course of d rship, she kept on tellin me i was takin her 4granted because she aproched me 1st, but i didnt see it like that. d point is that, if girls feel so unconfortable about toastin guys, y den do they do it

Notice me!!!!

The question should rather be why shouldnt girls toast guys!!

Afterall, whats good for the goose, is also good for the Gander.

And any man who treats a woman like dirt or thinks less of her simply because she asked you out, is a small minded asshole. We ask ladies out everyday, and I don't see them taking us for granted, atleast not all of em'.

_{My opinion!!}

Really do girls toast guys in Naija? Even if they do, I dont think they do it outrightly. @ Notice me! Maybe u meant that u didnt need to toast her to get her. And now ur taking her for granted.

Girls toast guys for the same reason that guys toast girls. Satisfaction of a need/needs. No more no less.

A girl that toasts a guy is really desperate. . .

We dont toast we flirt. A girl that toast is desperate. The guy should do all the work . Thats how I see it anyway

I think it takes a confindent chic to toast a guy and dey shud feel good abt it not cheap. So ladies feel free to holla.

BabeX:

We don't toast we flirt. A girl that toast is desperate. The guy should do all the work . Thats how I see it anyway

Muza:
A girl that toasts a guy is really desperate. . .

WHY ARE THEY DESPERATE. THAT IS WHY SOME GIRLS STAY SINGLE FOR TOO LONG

tyric:
I think it takes a confindent chic to toast a guy and dey should feel good about it not cheap. So ladies feel free to holla.

IT IS NOT CHEAPNESS

Fact is I dnt tek her 4granted @all, on d contrary I was really cool about her , bt she’s always pikin fault and assuming it was bc she made d 1st move. I dnt trivialities such as being 20minutes late 4a reason I culd xplain are not takin anyone 4granted.

Fact is I dnt tek her 4granted @all, on d contrary I was really cool about her , bt she’s always pikin fault and assuming it was bc she made d 1st move. i dnt think trivialities such as being 20minutes late 4a reason I culd xplain are not takin anyone 4granted.

Maybe she was simply insecure. Because one girl did this to you doesn't mean ALL girls do. I don't understand the consistent generalizations on these boards. You only gave us one example of this and somehow now ALL girls do this?

Girls toast guys for the same reason that guys toast girls.

Guys should do the toasting and girls?, the blushing.

Please treat her like a queen she is,she rightly deserved that.She is a one in a million,any girl who has the nerve to get what she want by approaching me to express her feelings or what she felt for me,i swear i'll love her,respect her,cherish and adore her. Even if she is not my ideal girl,i won't take the relationship for granted.

BabeX:

We dont toast we flirt. A girl that toast is desperate. The guy should do all the work . Thats how I see it anyway

Why?

And I take it you want to be put on a pedestal afterwards?

fs:

. . .Because one girl did this to you doesn't mean ALL girls do. I don't understand the consistent generalizations on these boards. You only gave us one example of this and somehow now ALL girls do this?

word! _{mayb poster sef 4got 2 add [b]'9.ja' [/b]in d topic}

@ OP
ask d nxt babe whu toasts yhu

abomination.

Guy, what you are saying is true. I girl toast my sometime ago, but she kept complaining that am not serious with her because she approach me. I ve come to conclude that all girls that toast guys feel insecured. but the big question remains why do they toast guys yet the are not comfortable in the relationship.

A girl who toastes a guy ,, I consider mature and civilized, And most of all, perfect, she knows what she wants, if you don't want her,, it's left for you (the guy) to say to her,, am in a relationship,, or turn her down by saying, I really like you too, but, i'm not dating at the moment, but I certainly can buy you lunch anytime you want,

Just say something nice to her to make her laugh, she'll understand, And respect you more.

tradition

BabeX:

We dont toast we flirt. A girl that toast is desperate. The guy should do all the work . Thats how I see it anyway

D bold and brazen amongst you do "toast"

Ladies can "spin" guys. . . .they have the right to pursue emotional fufilment. . . .
meanwhile, the guys also have the right to decline or accept an offer.

IT'S ALL CONTRACT AND BUSINESS.