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My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by Suga4ya: 11:10pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
My ex and I were together for 1year. He didn't treat me right in the beginning, but after I called him out on it he began to make amends. Nevertheless, the damage was done and I resented him for his prior mistreatment towards me. In time he started to fall for me, but I couldn't get over his earlier treatment, so I began treating him badly as well. Eventually, he got tired of me not prioritizing him and he left. I was heartbroken, and went through the usual 'don't realize what you have until it's gone' phase. So I tried to win him back, but to no avail. He wanted to be friends, so I agreed. The friendship wasn't working, because you can't just switch from a relationship to a friendship immediately. Anyway, the breakup slowly started to take a toll on me, I couldn't eat, sleep, or function effectively. I realized that the only way I could get over him is if we went our separate ways. So I sent him a goodbye email. It was very sweet, wishing him luck in life and all the good things I'll miss about him, but he did not respond. Fellaz, I need you on this, why would you not respond to a goodbye email? Why not even acknowledge the fact that you received it, and respond with a farewell as well? Please inform. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by H2O2: 11:11pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
You said it was a goodbye email, how come you are still expecting a hello? 4 Likes |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by Suga4ya: 11:13pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
I'm not expecting a hello, I just thought we could disperse amicably. Why would you not respond to a farewell email? |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by Nobody: 11:17pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
perhaps you are no longer important to him and he doesnt consider acknowledging your email a priority. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by H2O2: 11:26pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
Suga4ya:We are broken up. For me, the best way to avoid tension is to avoid you at all costs. But if it bothers you that much, go to his job, call him, bombard his mail box, go to his house and ask. Just don't be shocked if he thinks you are crazy. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by Suga4ya: 11:31pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
H2 It bothers me because he practically begged for my friendship, but now he can't even say goodbye? I don't want to bombard him. I'm in the process of moving on, but I keep wondering why he wouldn't respond. I have no intentions of contacting him, but I just wanted some male perspective on my pondering. |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by tope2000(f): 11:35pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
I'm sorry but you shudnt have emailed him, i don't think deep down u the email was really about goodbye thats why you wanted a reply, u wanted a reply saying oh i want u back blah blah my advice is snap out of of it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by doyin13(m): 11:36pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
He has reached what professional romantic analysts, agony aunts and so on call the ''point of no return Una relationship get more twists and turns pass snake and ladders. He prolly thought the whole thing through one random moment and epiphanically screamed ''SOD IT'' |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by Vonny: 11:40pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
Just move on, if he wanted to contact you he could have done so |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by Busybody2(f): 12:06am On Jan 06, 2009 |
H2O2: Speculative ~ ~ |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by busybein: 12:07am On Jan 06, 2009 |
busybodyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy happy new year ooooo |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by H2O2: 12:08am On Jan 06, 2009 |
Busy_body:Anuofia, mechie onu, ewu! |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by Busybody2(f): 12:09am On Jan 06, 2009 |
busybein: It's a lie you mean we have not jammed this year Happy new year Iyalode***, i am on my knees |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by Busybody2(f): 12:10am On Jan 06, 2009 |
H2O2: Obiii ko dun mi, i no sabi wetin you talk, so hin no pain me |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by tope2000(f): 12:14am On Jan 06, 2009 |
Busy_body: Rofl . . . . . . B.T.W H202 When did u learn how write in igbo |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by H2O2: 12:17am On Jan 06, 2009 |
Busy_body:rotfl o serious. |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by H2O2: 12:17am On Jan 06, 2009 |
tope2000:Free me. Help the poster with her question. |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by busybein: 12:18am On Jan 06, 2009 |
busybody honey,u know u can always tell me to interpret for u,whenever one writes in igbo |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by doyin13(m): 12:18am On Jan 06, 2009 |
tope2000: walahi talahi. . . i could have sworn that was spanish |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by tope2000(f): 12:21am On Jan 06, 2009 |
doyin13: Lmao . . . . . doyin r u high again 2nite H2O2: I have added my 2 cents |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by Busybody2(f): 12:23am On Jan 06, 2009 |
busybein: I know babe but i knew what he posted was curse words, like I eventually did with Agaba123, lol |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by H2O2: 12:25am On Jan 06, 2009 |
Busy_body:Mbanu, what I wrote was "I Love You". |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by Busybody2(f): 12:37am On Jan 06, 2009 |
H2O2: I have seen Jenny use the word "ewu" and "anuofia" before, and I am sure she was not feeling that person does she ever, when is she not spoiling for a fight But I like to give people the benefit of the doubt, so I would trust you and pass on your romantic message to Morenike, I don't want her to step on me and crush me with her high heels |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by busybein: 12:40am On Jan 06, 2009 |
Busy_body: I'm a changed person now,old things are passed away smone shout a thunderous hallelujah |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by Busybody2(f): 12:47am On Jan 06, 2009 |
busybein: |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by touchmeder: 12:58am On Jan 06, 2009 |
he treated me unfairly i spoke to him, he tried to make amends, but i cld not get over his earlier treatment, so he left, and you tried to win him back but it didnt work so we both agreed to be friends. And now this good bye email thing girl the twists and turns in the relationship is unhealthy for both of you. some pple manage to remain friends with their ex but even this your own nor gree do. LET HIM BE, he has seen your farewell mail, mayb he sees no reason to reply, IT HAS ALL BEEN SAID AND DONE, this is a guy not a chick, has it occurred to u he probably has nothing to say to you, or does not want to say anything. This is a new year relax, u'd heal in no time. |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by doyin13(m): 12:59am On Jan 06, 2009 |
busybein: From[i] Eshu[/i], e turn to Luciferette |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by MoneyRule(m): 1:04am On Jan 06, 2009 |
@ poster he prolly doesn't know what to say or how to say it and that's why he hasn't replied. I guess you are expecting a 'regret' mail from him so you can feel better and that's why you are upset he hasn't replied. My advice to you;cut the crap and get over it! Even the world would one day come to an end! |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by benez6(m): 1:13am On Jan 06, 2009 |
we need to start givin out trophies for most ridiculous topic of the day, yesterday it was mental virgin , today its acknowledgin goodbye email, the guy doesn't deem it necessery to reply ur weird email, dunno y we r even respondin to ur weird topic, cum to think of it, y did u send an email when there is SMS or even a fone call, WEIRDO comes to mind, |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by touchmeder: 1:15am On Jan 06, 2009 |
MoneyRule: that got me laughing loud this night. phewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by Suga4ya: 1:23am On Jan 06, 2009 |
Benez6, Please take your negativity to the nearest exit. Thx. |
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email by StephenP(m): 1:24am On Jan 06, 2009 |
He let you have the last word. What else do you want him to say? He's probably the kind who hates to play email tag; he responds, you feel compelled to respond and so the game continues. Get over him already! |
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