My ex and I were together for 1year. He didn't treat me right in the beginning, but after I called him out on it he began to make amends. Nevertheless, the damage was done and I resented him for his prior mistreatment towards me. In time he started to fall for me, but I couldn't get over his earlier treatment, so I began treating him badly as well. Eventually, he got tired of me not prioritizing him and he left. I was heartbroken, and went through the usual 'don't realize what you have until it's gone' phase. So I tried to win him back, but to no avail. He wanted to be friends, so I agreed. The friendship wasn't working, because you can't just switch from a relationship to a friendship immediately. Anyway, the breakup slowly started to take a toll on me, I couldn't eat, sleep, or function effectively. I realized that the only way I could get over him is if we went our separate ways. So I sent him a goodbye email. It was very sweet, wishing him luck in life and all the good things I'll miss about him, but he did not respond. Fellaz, I need you on this, why would you not respond to a goodbye email? Why not even acknowledge the fact that you received it, and respond with a farewell as well? Please inform. Thanks.

You said it was a goodbye email, how come you are still expecting a hello?

I'm not expecting a hello, I just thought we could disperse amicably. Why would you not respond to a farewell email?

perhaps you are no longer important to him and he doesnt consider acknowledging your email a priority.

Suga4ya:

I'm not expecting a hello, I just thought we could disperse amicably. Why would you not respond to a farewell email?

We are broken up. For me, the best way to avoid tension is to avoid you at all costs.
But if it bothers you that much, go to his job, call him, bombard his mail box, go to his house and ask. Just don't be shocked if he thinks you are crazy.

H2

It bothers me because he practically begged for my friendship, but now he can't even say goodbye? I don't want to bombard him. I'm in the process of moving on, but I keep wondering why he wouldn't respond. I have no intentions of contacting him, but I just wanted some male perspective on my pondering.

I'm sorry but you shudnt have emailed him, i don't think deep down u  the email was really about goodbye thats why you wanted a reply, u wanted a reply saying oh i want u back blah blah my advice is snap out of of it

He has reached what professional romantic analysts, agony aunts and so on call the ''point of no return

Una relationship get more twists and turns pass snake and ladders.

He prolly thought the whole thing through one random moment and epiphanically screamed ''SOD IT''

Just move on, if he wanted to contact you he could have done so

H2O2:

We are broken up. For me, the best way to avoid tension is to avoid you at all costs.
But if it bothers you that much, go to his job, call him, bombard his mail box, go to his house and ask. Just don't be shocked if he thinks you are crazy.

Speculative SieveSelective memory What happened to her right to closure like


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busybodyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy happy new year ooooo

Busy_body:

Speculative SieveSelective memory What happened to her right to closure like


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Anuofia, mechie onu, ewu!

busybein:

busybodyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy happy new year ooooo

It's a lie you mean we have not jammed this year Happy new year Iyalode***, i am on my knees

H2O2:

Anuofia, mechie onu, ewu!

Obiii ko dun mi, i no sabi wetin you talk, so hin no pain me

Busy_body:

Obiii ko dun mi, i no sabi wetin you talk, so hin no pain me

Rofl . . . . . .

B.T.W H202 When did u learn how write in igbo

Busy_body:

Obiii ko dun mi, i no sabi wetin you talk, so hin no pain me

rotfl o serious.

tope2000:

Rofl . . . . . .

B.T.W H202 When did u learn how write in igbo

Free me. Help the poster with her question.

busybody honey,u know u can always tell me to interpret for u,whenever one writes in igbo

tope2000:

Rofl . . . . . .

B.T.W H202 When did u learn how write in igbo

walahi talahi. . .

i could have sworn that was spanish

doyin13:

walahi talahi. . .

i could have sworn that was spanish

Lmao . . . . . doyin r u high again 2nite

H2O2:

Help the poster with her question.

I have added my 2 cents

busybein:

busybody honey,u know u can always tell me to interpret for u,whenever one writes in igbo

I know babe but i knew what he posted was curse words, like I eventually did with Agaba123, lol

Busy_body:

I know babe but i knew what he posted was curse words, like I eventually did with Agaba123, lol

Mbanu, what I wrote was "I Love You".

H2O2:

Mbanu, what I wrote was "I Love You".

I have seen Jenny use the word "ewu" and "anuofia" before, and I am sure she was not feeling that person ^{does she ever, when is she not spoiling for a fight}

But I like to give people the benefit of the doubt, so I would trust you and pass on your romantic message to Morenike, I don't want her to step on me and crush me with her high heels

Busy_body:

I have seen Jenny use the word "ewu" and "anuofia" before, and I am sure she was not feeling that person ^{does she ever, when is she not spoiling for a fight}

I'm a changed person now,old things are passed away

smone shout a thunderous hallelujah

busybein:

I'm a changed person now,old things are passed away

smone shout a thunderous hallelujah

We shall seeHallelujah

he treated me unfairly i spoke to him, he tried to make amends, but i cld not get over his earlier treatment, so he left, and you tried to win him back but it didnt work so we both agreed to be friends.

And now this good bye email thing girl the twists and turns in the relationship is unhealthy for both of you. some pple manage to remain friends with their ex but even this your own nor gree do. LET HIM BE, he has seen your farewell mail, mayb he sees no reason to reply, IT HAS ALL BEEN SAID AND DONE, this is a guy not a chick, has it occurred to u he probably has nothing to say to you, or does not want to say anything. This is a new year relax, u'd heal in no time.

busybein:

I'm a changed person now,old things are passed away

smone shout a thunderous hallelujah

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@ poster
he prolly doesn't know what to say or how to say it and that's why he hasn't replied.
I guess you are expecting a 'regret' mail from him so you can feel better and that's why you are upset he hasn't replied.
My advice to you;cut the crap and get over it! Even the world would one day come to an end!

we need to start givin out trophies for most ridiculous topic of the day, yesterday it was mental virgin , today its acknowledgin goodbye email, the guy doesn't deem it necessery to reply ur weird email, dunno y we r even respondin to ur weird topic, cum to think of it, y did u send an email when there is SMS or even a fone call, WEIRDO comes to mind,

MoneyRule:

@ poster
he prolly doesn't know what to say or how to say it and that's why he hasn't replied.
I guess you are expecting a 'regret' mail from him so you can feel better and that's why you are upset he hasn't replied.
My advice to you;cut the crap and get over it! Even the world would one day come to an end!

that got me laughing loud this night. phewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Benez6,

Please take your negativity to the nearest exit. Thx.

He let you have the last word. What else do you want him to say? He's probably the kind who hates to play email tag; he responds, you feel compelled to respond and so the game continues. Get over him already!