jashar:


Sweerie, you're obviously not getting me.
Being aroused can lead me to sin; so, I'd rather not get aroused.
What's the point of getting turned on when I can't go all the way?
E no follow na

I got your point all along.

But what if you're capable of not allowing it lead to sin??

AgapeCharis:
I got your point all along.

But what if you're capable of not allowing it lead to sin??

sirr:

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By brother, as long as its french kissing, it will surely give you both "lustful thoughts. Hours after, days after, etc lustful desires. & we ask ourselves, if only a lustful look is a sin already, what wud we classify a fore-play/"intimacy kissing" as (among the unmarried...). Its jus amazing how ethics will say "passionate kissing is sin also, but I had to accept this even if it wasn't easy.
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(Ethics says ..."What is the motive behind french kissing?" You felt like just kissing passionately?? So does sex is. Felt like expressing passion)
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(If you need a good explanation on this, I could and refer you to sites and biblical points where these tins cud be understood)

No need for referral. Let's dig it here

Let's start with this. What makes sex outside marriage sin??

AgapeCharis:
No need for referral. Let's dig it here

Let's start with this. What makes sex outside marriage sin??

sirr:

.No need bro.
READ YOUR BIBLE, YOU KNOW THE ANSWERS ALREADY.

AgapeCharis:
Aii. You're not willing to discuss.

sirr:
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My bro. Gods Truth is like a "two edged sword".
It cannot be argued because its the TRUTH.
All we need to do is MOTIVATE OURSELVES to obey the truth, Rather than argue it so to justify a "wrong doing".
God bless Us

sirr:
THE BIGGEST TRUTH ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS AND SEX (MUST READ)
1.For Ladies
2.For Guys
3.For both Ladies & Guys

1.Advice For Ladies--

If a guy tells you he loves you, and wants to have sex with you, believe me, he DOESN'T love you, all he wants is satisfaction from you..
Reasons-
1. If he loves you, he would want you for marriage, and not sex/pleasure, he would respect you and wait, he would see other beautiful things about you outside sex, He wouldn't be interested in sex because feels real happiness in him because of you. Now that's Love.
2. If you give in to him, Believe me, He will leave you for another lady, even if he eventually marries you, He would be a cheat because He has seen everything about you, you will soonest become boring to him... he wants something new outside.
3. If you say "NO" to him, and he leaves, he never loved you anyway. He only wanted a toy to play with (your body), but if he stays, then he likes you, (let's believe its temptation that made him request so much,,,that's if he stays)
4. If he says he wants to marry you, and because of that, you guys should have sex, BIG LIE--- why? because, if he wants marriage, he'll be busy planning, knowing you, your family, your attitude, your character, etc and making money too.
5. Everyman wants a faithful and God fearing wife, after going to clubs with him, when he's ready, he tells his friends, he wants someone that he can trust..... if you do "sex sex" with him and you think he would marry you, am so sorry for you, believe me--"NO BODY LIKES TO WEAR CHEAP MATERIALS" or "BUY PUBLIC MOTORS".
NOTE::: When Men are really in love, they are very scared to ask you for sex, you see them respecting and valuing you, they forget sex, they are always happy thinking of a future with you. Sex becomes unimportant to them.
(Every Guy is the same is because you have lost your value, keep it and see that everyman is not the same)

FOR THE MEN.-
When a girl is sex demanding and tells you that "if you really love her, you should prove it", or "she can not date a man who can not have sex", or that "you are not man enough", my brother, run from these kind of girls, especially for marriages...
REASONS.
1. They are never faithful after marriages. Why? Because they have seen all you can do, they want more outside, they get easily bored with one partner because it is a hobby already, what happens next?? INFIDELITY. And believe me, MEN HARDLY KNOW WHEN THEIR WIVES ARE CHEATING,
2. Imagine having children and some of these kids are not your biological children, (how would you know those that are yours sef). Women who have no self control during relationships will also not have self control after marriages because they never practised it in their youthful days, they end up sleeping with your gateman, colleagues, or even her own co-workers when you are out of town for business, etc.

3. They end up sometimes having birth related problems because of pasts abortions, abortion peels, etc and you end up suffering it with them in your marriage.

4. Women who can't do without sex in relationships can not hold your family spiritually, they are not good wives or mother, they are always complaining and are getting tired of you because you have nothing new to offer after marriage, then they start following Alhajis and CEOs.


For Both Boys and Girls who are okay having sex with each other.
If both of you are in a relationship and are fine having sex together in the name of love, you are both deceiving yourselves..
REASONS
1. Very soon, One of you is likely to leave the other, why? Loss of value---nothing new about you to anticipate for. He/she now knows you in and out, and soon will see someone better.
2. Research has proven that such relationships lead to unhappy marriages, no fun, no happiness after marriage. Why? both of you are already tired of each other...nothing new again because everything has already been revealed before the marriage--what happens next? Divorce, quarrels, unfaithfulness starts.
FINALLY, IT IS A GRIEVIOUS SIN, A MORTAL SIN, THAT GOD HATES THE MOST, 90% Of souls in Hell are victims,
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Pls my brovs & sisters, use your lifetime well, don't misuse it all because of pleasure


My dearest youths,,,,they are 1001 ways to show love and make love apart from sex....
Namely


1. Tell the other person that you love
them
2. Give a special present
3. Be there when they need a friend
4. Spend time together
5. Go to see a film.
6. Hug yourselves with laughter
7. Make sure the other person feels
important and respected
8. Kiss when people are looking
9. Kiss when people aren't looking ( Not French Kissing)
10. Tell the other person that you care
11. Hold hands
12. Visit each others parents
13. Buy presents for each other.
14. Cut each other's toenails
15. Talk about your feelings
16. Share dreams with each other
17. Gaze at each other
18. Sit together in the park
19. Take a walk together
20. Go out for a meal
21. Have a picnic
22. Go to weddings and marriages together
23. Give compliments
24. Cook a meal together
25. Plan and go on a trip together
26. Throw a party together
27. Just be there
28. Find out what's special for the other
person - and do it.
29. Eat dinner by candlelight
30. Go to a concert
31. Pray together
32. Propose marriage
Etc.
Love is Fun... .
Make it clean and keep your value
God bless

jashar:


My dear, outside of marriage, It is an appearance of evil. I'm speaking as a Christian now ooo and the Bible says to flee the appearance of evil.
As humans, we like to test our limits and conquer them. You and your partner are kissing for instance, how long will you be able to stop @ just kissing ehn?
Jesus himself said if you look @ a person with lust in your heart, you have committed fornication already.
Why then would I want to get aroused outside of marriage?

gofyourself:


so u r saying that if he married a virgin and try her and after 5 years he did everything with her in bed, he won't be bored BULLSHIT. so u r saying that virgin wife after sex with her husband (one and only) will not want to try outside dishes BULLSHIT. yes, percentage of divorce will be smaller of virgins, but maybe the reason is not sex? haven't u put this in thought? there are plenty of reasons how u can explain this social event! no need to put everything about sex. if i had virgin husband till marriage-s.hit, deaf would cheat! soon f.ucking boring, same sex everyday, plus u need to teach everything. pffff

gofyourself:


so as christian u as well perfectly informed that sex is just for making your children? so when u r done with kids u should stop wasting his sperm and no sex for u or u would die by giving birth to your 20th baby.

gofyourself:


so as christian u as well perfectly informed that sex is just for making your children? so when u r done with kids u should stop wasting his sperm and no sex for u or u would die by giving birth to your 20th baby.

jashar:





I don't get you.

sirr:
m.
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Bro, nice points, but the fact still remains unbeatable, by ethics and by the Bilbe.
PREMARITAL SEX IS WRONG, AND SINFUL,
There are other causes of malaria, but mosquito is always the main cause, so stop blabbing about "boredom with virgin and other bullshit".
Accept the fact and stop debating on "your one point"

sirr:
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Oga, stop asking a bot of unreasonable question. Your point is O.T.P.
Bless You as you try to obey God

gofyourself:


and never will

jashar:

Na you know jare.

sirr:
THE BIGGEST TRUTH ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS AND SEX (MUST READ)
1.For Ladies
2.For Guys
3.For both Ladies & Guys

1.Advice For Ladies--

If a guy tells you he loves you, and wants to have sex with you, believe me, he DOESN'T love you, all he wants is satisfaction from you..
Reasons-
1. If he loves you, he would want you for marriage, and not sex/pleasure, he would respect you and wait, he would see other beautiful things about you outside sex, He wouldn't be interested in sex because feels real happiness in him because of you. Now that's Love.
2. If you give in to him, Believe me, He will leave you for another lady, even if he eventually marries you, He would be a cheat because He has seen everything about you, you will soonest become boring to him... he wants something new outside.
3. If you say "NO" to him, and he leaves, he never loved you anyway. He only wanted a toy to play with (your body), but if he stays, then he likes you, (let's believe its temptation that made him request so much,,,that's if he stays)
4. If he says he wants to marry you, and because of that, you guys should have sex, BIG LIE--- why? because, if he wants marriage, he'll be busy planning, knowing you, your family, your attitude, your character, etc and making money too.
5. Everyman wants a faithful and God fearing wife, after going to clubs with him, when he's ready, he tells his friends, he wants someone that he can trust..... if you do "sex sex" with him and you think he would marry you, am so sorry for you, believe me--"NO BODY LIKES TO WEAR CHEAP MATERIALS" or "BUY PUBLIC MOTORS".
NOTE::: When Men are really in love, they are very scared to ask you for sex, you see them respecting and valuing you, they forget sex, they are always happy thinking of a future with you. Sex becomes unimportant to them.
(Every Guy is the same is because you have lost your value, keep it and see that everyman is not the same)

FOR THE MEN.-
When a girl is sex demanding and tells you that "if you really love her, you should prove it", or "she can not date a man who can not have sex", or that "you are not man enough", my brother, run from these kind of girls, especially for marriages...
REASONS.
1. They are never faithful after marriages. Why? Because they have seen all you can do, they want more outside, they get easily bored with one partner because it is a hobby already, what happens next?? INFIDELITY. And believe me, MEN HARDLY KNOW WHEN THEIR WIVES ARE CHEATING,
2. Imagine having children and some of these kids are not your biological children, (how would you know those that are yours sef). Women who have no self control during relationships will also not have self control after marriages because they never practised it in their youthful days, they end up sleeping with your gateman, colleagues, or even her own co-workers when you are out of town for business, etc.

3. They end up sometimes having birth related problems because of pasts abortions, abortion peels, etc and you end up suffering it with them in your marriage.

4. Women who can't do without sex in relationships can not hold your family spiritually, they are not good wives or mother, they are always complaining and are getting tired of you because you have nothing new to offer after marriage, then they start following Alhajis and CEOs.


For Both Boys and Girls who are okay having sex with each other.
If both of you are in a relationship and are fine having sex together in the name of love, you are both deceiving yourselves..
REASONS
1. Very soon, One of you is likely to leave the other, why? Loss of value---nothing new about you to anticipate for. He/she now knows you in and out, and soon will see someone better.
2. Research has proven that such relationships lead to unhappy marriages, no fun, no happiness after marriage. Why? both of you are already tired of each other...nothing new again because everything has already been revealed before the marriage--what happens next? Divorce, quarrels, unfaithfulness starts.
FINALLY, IT IS A GRIEVIOUS SIN, A MORTAL SIN, THAT GOD HATES THE MOST, 90% Of souls in Hell are victims,
.
Pls my brovs & sisters, use your lifetime well, don't misuse it all because of pleasure


My dearest youths,,,,they are 1001 ways to show love and make love apart from sex....
Namely


1. Tell the other person that you love
them
2. Give a special present
3. Be there when they need a friend
4. Spend time together
5. Go to see a film.
6. Hug yourselves with laughter
7. Make sure the other person feels
important and respected
8. Kiss when people are looking
9. Kiss when people aren't looking ( Not French Kissing)
10. Tell the other person that you care
11. Hold hands
12. Visit each others parents
13. Buy presents for each other.
14. Cut each other's toenails
15. Talk about your feelings
16. Share dreams with each other
17. Gaze at each other
18. Sit together in the park
19. Take a walk together
20. Go out for a meal
21. Have a picnic
22. Go to weddings and marriages together
23. Give compliments
24. Cook a meal together
25. Plan and go on a trip together
26. Throw a party together
27. Just be there
28. Find out what's special for the other
person - and do it.
29. Eat dinner by candlelight
30. Go to a concert
31. Pray together
32. Propose marriage
Etc.
Love is Fun... .
Make it clean and keep your value
God bless

gofyourself:


u believe it-u obey it. i don't. what is unreasonable i don't understand? that sex is for multiplying and not for pleasure in christianity?

Raalsalghul:
Why are nairaland threads so formulaic? Someone please help me out.

sirr:
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Mrs GoFyourself, if you have a bible read it and you'll know sex isn't just for multiplying, its also for pleasure among the married, yet, not for the unmarried...
Except U are saying YOU DON'T BELIEVE IN THE BIBLE, then we'd be clear...

sirr:

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May God help U out

Lexaccord:
Nice write up

faith2ogesco:
NYC writeup. DAT deposition parts sounds scarryyyy and na only guys dey deposiy.? Girls no dey deposit part of deir soul for guys