NEROSKY:


That song is actually trending in New York, ur location?

OliverQuinny:
Dear Nairalanders, I am in a relationship with someone that hurt me when I needed her most. We met a while ago while I was still hustling on the streets of PortHarcourt. I was working in a small firm then, but I was doing all I could to make her happy. The job wasn't well paying, so I had to quit to pursue my Masters Degree and professional qualifications. The money stopped rolling in and we both started having issues. She became very difficult and eventually she left me sha, for no concrete reason. But I strongly believe its cos I quit the job.

I still loved her, and wished she wud change her mind. Some years later, I got a job in one of the multinationals and was sent abroad on an official assignment. I met her again at the airport in London and we became friends. We started chatting and she visited me on a saturday. One thing led to another, and we were intimate. The feelings started rekindling, but I just couldn't forget the way she treated me when I needed her most and I am afraid that shez back cos of my wealth.

Recently, she told me shez one month pregnant and am contemplating marrying her, but the way she hurt me when we were in Nigeria keeps taunting me. I keep having these flashbacks. Am actually scared that she will repeat the same behaviour in d nearest future even though it seems she has changed.

Please ur advice is needed here. Mature minds only.

OliverQuinny:
We broke up cos we were also having arguements, and the moment I quit the job, it was kinda the "right time for her to strike". She explained why she acted that way though, said she wasnt mature enuff and dat she was just a baby then. I have since forgiven her, but my mind woudnt stop flashing back and am worried especially now that am considering marriage.

OliverQuinny:


I think I am.

diddydiva:

you are wicked!!!

Face the truth. You got back with her to revenge.

you planned it all.

Anyways I don't blame u but the gullible lady who can't make her no a no.

it's truly your decision so make it.

bisous:


At least you know her flaw I.e not dating a broke man....
I know it must hurt knowing you couldn't count on her when the chips were down..but truth is it could be that at that time you were also not lovable.....you know how a man gets when he has lost his means of livelihood......that may have been the case and since she says she was immature she may have learnt her lessons .....now she is pregnant for you not marrying her won't be a good idea.....especially because the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know

OliverQuinny:
Dear Nairalanders, I am in a relationship with someone that hurt me when I needed her most. We met a while ago while I was still hustling on the streets of PortHarcourt. I was working in a small firm then, but I was doing all I could to make her happy. The job wasn't well paying, so I had to quit to pursue my Masters Degree and professional qualifications. The money stopped rolling in and we both started having issues. She became very difficult and eventually she left me sha, for no concrete reason. But I strongly believe its cos I quit the job.

I still loved her, and wished she wud change her mind. Some years later, I got a job in one of the multinationals and was sent abroad on an official assignment. I met her again at the airport in London and we became friends. We started chatting and she visited me on a saturday. One thing led to another, and we were intimate. The feelings started rekindling, but I just couldn't forget the way she treated me when I needed her most and I am afraid that shez back cos of my wealth.

Recently, she told me shez one month pregnant and am contemplating marrying her, but the way she hurt me when we were in Nigeria keeps taunting me. I keep having these flashbacks. Am actually scared that she will repeat the same behaviour in d nearest future even though it seems she has changed.

Please ur advice is needed here. Mature minds only.

NEROSKY:


What's IMO

negrito:
hey sharrap. Birds of the same feathers flock together. You girls always wants reap from where you didn't sow. Oh now cos he has money it's now she knows she was immature? Woe betide your hopeless life for even advising him to marry her.

bisous:

looking at your other posts I realise dignifying you with a response will be attempting to to bath in a pit latrine,and on that I'll pass
However for your curse may it be heaped back on you pressed down,shaking together and running over....
FYI: Half of what Nigerian girls have turned into is a product of what the men have turned the society too,I once dated a guy who had nothing but dreams and I was even feeding him from my network marketing job he was even cheating on me with the money I will handover to him I took it in my stride
,As soon as the money started rolling in for him,he became a totally different person and I became the butt joke of his numerous gfs,I stuck it through until he wanted to cap it with beating me up.
The fact that we don't open bashing threads for Nigerian guys doesn't mean some of us haven't gotten our hands seriously burnt .
At op has a baby on the way for them to make out the way they did it means there are embers there that rekindled the flame

sansid:
Hmmmm....Exactly what I went through in the hands of a lady I loved so much too. Same loss of job cos of msc n she abandoned me for another guy. The only difference between you n me is the fact that I hv moved on. I now have a decent job in Abuja with lots of prospects. Will never go back to ma ex. Never believed she would leave me, not ivn at that tryin moment. That experienced nearly damaged me emotionally as I was finding it difficult to trust ladies.
if she did b4,she can still do it again.
God will help you

nma24:
What is ur advice now

OliverQuinny:
It is real. Am actually scared she might change in the nearest future.

chymystique:

In My Opinion

chymystique:

I hope you are not marrying her because of the pregnancy.You are in a position to know if she is suitable for you or not.The decision is entirely yours but don't marry out of pity.As for the pregnant you can take care and responsibility of that even outside marriage.Think and pray over it.Good luck bro.

well well, imo, I dont believe cause a woman got pregnant for u that u must marry her.. I think you should not propose to her YET.. wait a while and use the period to make up your mind if she's what you want in a woman.. this is your future and no one is gonna help u live it and the decisions u make today determines a lot in future. I dont wanna start casting stones @ u cause the deed has been done already



PS Checked your profile now and saw You just opened this account 50mins ago.. u knw wan use your old moniker?

OliverQuinny:
Dear Nairalanders, I am in a relationship with someone that hurt me when I needed her most. We met a while ago while I was still hustling on the streets of PortHarcourt. I was working in a small firm then, but I was doing all I could to make her happy. The job wasn't well paying, so I had to quit to pursue my Masters Degree and professional qualifications. The money stopped rolling in and we both started having issues. She became very difficult and eventually she left me sha, for no concrete reason. But I strongly believe its cos I quit the job.

I still loved her, and wished she wud change her mind. Some years later, I got a job in one of the multinationals and was sent abroad on an official assignment. I met her again at the airport in London and we became friends. We started chatting and she visited me on a saturday. One thing led to another, and we were intimate. The feelings started rekindling, but I just couldn't forget the way she treated me when I needed her most and I am afraid that shez back cos of my wealth.

Recently, she told me shez one month pregnant and am contemplating marrying her, but the way she hurt me when we were in Nigeria keeps taunting me. I keep having these flashbacks. Am actually scared that she will repeat the same behaviour in d nearest future even though it seems she has changed.

Please ur advice is needed here. Mature minds only.

mutter:


A girl that has the decency to past this test will also leave you when she finds out how indecent you are to test her in such a way,

nma24:
Haba all this stress Just to be sure she won't leave him high and dry again? kai

Precious is a beautiful girl and she is dating two guys:
•Tony (rich)
•Mike (not rich).
Mike: hey babe, can I see u?
Precious: Nah, i'm busy.
Mike: okey.
Tony: hey babe, can I come and fetch u?
Precious: Yeah babe.
Tony: Owk I'm on my way.
[They had sex and Presh got pregnant... But she kept on telling Mike that she's not ready 4 sex]
Precious: Helo Tony, I'm pregnant...
Tony: mxm don't bother urself just leave me, i don't love u...
Precious: Helo Mike.
Mike: hey babe, are u okey?
Precious: Yes, can i visit ur place.
Mike: yes (happy)
[they also had sex without a condom]
[after 4 weeks]
Precious: Mike, I'm pregnant.
Mike: Ok babe, I will take care of a baby...
[Mike drop out of school so that he can support a baby]
‪#‎Moral‬:
Girls adore the ones who hurt them and
ignore the one who love them ...
True or False?

shaqhead:

Forgive? Yes but to Forget as Humans means chronic Alzheimers. My point is just coz we should and can forgive, it doesnt mean we have memory failure mr. Poet. Actually I called u out on ds cz of ur moniker! U shd kno better! Y u lukin at mmy words like dt? LOL

....lol..u try sir

ibrews:
Op..u be mumuu...*no offence intended*

OliverQuinny:
Dear Nairalanders, I am in a relationship with someone that hurt me when I needed her most. We met a while ago while I was still hustling on the streets of PortHarcourt. I was working in a small firm then, but I was doing all I could to make her happy. The job wasn't well paying, so I had to quit to pursue my Masters Degree and professional qualifications. The money stopped rolling in and we both started having issues. She became very difficult and eventually she left me sha, for no concrete reason. But I strongly believe its cos I quit the job.

I still loved her, and wished she wud change her mind. Some years later, I got a job in one of the multinationals and was sent abroad on an official assignment. I met her again at the airport in London and we became friends. We started chatting and she visited me on a saturday. One thing led to another, and we were intimate. The feelings started rekindling, but I just couldn't forget the way she treated me when I needed her most and I am afraid that shez back cos of my wealth.

Recently, she told me shez one month pregnant and am contemplating marrying her, but the way she hurt me when we were in Nigeria keeps taunting me. I keep having these flashbacks. Am actually scared that she will repeat the same behaviour in d nearest future even though it seems she has changed.

Please ur advice is needed here. Mature minds only.

chymystique:
Mr OliverQuinny, I just ve a question to ask..

"Are you Sure YOU are the unborn Baby's father??

cocoberry:
Love ur candid Advice!!!