missjenna:
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crystalflies:
I've known him around my hood for 6yrs now, he's been trying to get 2 me since the 1st day he set eyes on me,but i always ignored him, a year ago anytime he sees me he would be shouting Hey!!! With a command tone asking me 2 give him 1min., i ignored him few times, but 1day i just decided to listen to him, and also tell him to stop calling me "Hey" cuz it was annoying, so i told him my name, and i asked what he wanted, he said he liked me & he wants 2 make me his wife, it took time before i released my fone number 2 him, cuz i think he's proud, he took time 2 understand d kind of person i was before he was able to get me to reason with him, Now i know he's a good person and he only wants a "good thing" and not a "bad thing" from me. He came 2 my house once..... He attends MFM church and he says i will have to change for him , he said i should think about how i am going 2 stop wearing trousses,wearing hair ext., makeup,earrings etc. That's if i want 2 be his wife, "i frowned with my eyes" lol... cuz am not good @ respondin quickly but i told him it aint possible,... But he said i should go and pray and think about it., the next time we discussed i told him i cant change anything, cuz i sat down 1day and imagined giving out all my troussers jewelries and makeup away, and i realized i cant do it. So i 4got about him, after a wee... while he came again still asking me 2 change, and i still told him i cannot, and that i dont want 2 talk about this again...,the third time he came again i had to tell him bluntly " if u cant accept me the way i am then leave me alone" if i have to sacrifice my style for him what will he sacrifice for me in return. Relationship experts always say you shouldnt try to change someone, So now he called yesterday telling me to 4get d issue dat his friend from lagos wants 2 talk 2 me, dat his friend adviced him., i was not in town so i couldnt go, but promised 2 see them coming weekend, Now my fear is dat his friend might want 2 talk me into changing my mind, which may get me upset. I dont like it wen people try 2 change me. U know guys can be trickish*, I need ur advice AM I RIGHT OR AM WRONG IN MY ACTIONS AND REACTIONS??

Nneka123:
Hmm what kinda guy is that? You shouldn't be someone who won't accept you the way you are, it's not like he even gave you a reason to stop wearing makeup and jewelries, pffft

missjenna:
Op, I read your post and I have a lot to say

Firstly,I don't like religious fanatics. They believe that their belief is superior to that of others and everyone should follow their beliefs and behave the same way they behave

Op I believe this guy is one of them religious fanatics. No offense.
I won't dabble into religious ordinances as pertaining dressing because If I do, that means I would be writing a whole epistle.

But I have to say this, nobody has the right to force you into his belief. He hasn't even married you and his is already expressing his authority in such a manner.
I don't think wearing make-up and trousers has anything to do with your level of spirituality.

Now op, I have a question for you. Do you love this guy. Because if you don't then I don't see why you should continue with the relationship. Their are other men out there that would respect you for who you are

As for me, I don't like this kind of guy. Please I am just speaking for myself. These kind of men are too domineering. They feel like they own you and you should submit fully to their laws.

Op, don't change who you are because of a man. That's all I have to say

angelsing:
I hardly look at ladies Dp on nairaland but I remember someone mentioning about liking Nneka123 so I decided to check...You are fineeeeeee...*runs out of thread*

Beamborla:
Did he not see you with the trousers and make up before running after you?
if you want to make this kind of changes, it has to be for yourself and out of your own conviction; not to please someone.

StPete:
And what do you mean by 'guys can be trickish (tricky)'?

Sometimes I wish I can just e-slap somebody

whizbee:
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Working on my rap album

Nneka123:
hehe thanks