You’ve been staring at her from a distance for quite
sometime and you’re seemingly undecided whether or
not to make the move to approach her. Perhaps, she is
even someone you know and have butterflies in your
tummy whenever you talk and relate with her and
you’ve not been able to break the “Jinx” and tell her
how you feel. Every single guy on the face of the earth
including myself can relate to this fear that comes along
with asking out a girl we are crushing on. Be it the first
time you would ask a girl out or the fact that you want
to ask out some one you perceive as beyond you which
makes you nervous, trembling and unstable, I have
come out with ideas that would help reduce the effects
of your fear and guarantee a smooth sail.

These ideas are not 100% foolproof but they are
designed in a way that when applied, your nerves
would be steadied and you can inadvertently build on
the experience to conquer future occurrences.


1. Never appear Desperate

This is actually very important as the way you seem and
appear to your crush mostly determines what and how
her response would be like. Thus, NEVER appear
desperate or treat getting her a do or die affair.
Seeming desperate sends the wrong signals as the
other party may misconstrue your intentions as
sinister. More so, it is a major turn off for girls when
you rush them and press too hard. Learn to take things
slowly and easily, which she most probably would be
attracted to.


2. Be respectful

As they say, “Respect is reciprocal “, treat your crush the
way you’d expect to be treated. It is important to watch
the kind of words you say that may appear
disrespectful. Some of these include calling out to her
by saying “Hey you”, “Baby” and seemingly vulgar
words. A high percentage of ladies see it as a sign of
rudeness and disrespect to call out to them that way.
Thus, try to be polite as much as possible while also
remembering to be nice and respectful.


3. Spill the words in a quiet area
.

This is quite important given the fact that good or bad,
the memories of you asking out your crush is one that
you want to make memorable. Thus, ensure you
choose a place that is devoid of noise and people.
Avoid places where you are likely to be interrupted
intermittently and such places include school cafeterias
and places either of you are well known. Also, plan for
a place with less noise and people but make sure the
place is neither too busy nor private.


4. Talk Less

To ensure your words hit home, ensure that you talk
less. Avoid too much talk as that can portray you as
been desperate. Ensure you make your conversation
short and precise as this gives it more effect and limits
the chances of you stuttering or saying something
wrong. A good way is to introduce yourself, ask for her
name and. Number, tell her you’d call her and then
walk away.


5. Remember not to rush things

It is important to remember that being in a hurry will
do you no good. Learn to take things slow as rushing
things will definitely send the wrong signals to her. She
may think you are after sex alone and probably keep a
distance from you. Try and acquaint yourself with her
before you proceed to get intimate with dates.


6. Know her problems

Every lady wants a guy that knows and understands
what they are passing through. It is nice to get to know
what are problems are as this would probably aid you
in knowing how to proceed with her. For example,
knowing that she just got out of a bad relationship can
help you know what went wrong in her previous
relationship and apply same in how you relate with her.

Finally, make sure you don’t talk too much, make it
short and precise and if she says no; don’t worry, you
might get another chance with her or with someone
better.

So correct,thanks op.

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Seconded

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Desteenee:
So correct,thanks op.

U r welcom.

vjsmiles:
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BE RICHER
BE RICHEST

All about the paper!!!




u gotta stop thinking its the only solution to every ish'

falconey:
know her problem? I want to date her or solve her problem? If only her problem is dating

Read dat part again.... Lemme rephrase it;


Dig into her previous relationships*...... Dat way,she ll know you care.

Humblebloke:


Read dat part again.... Lemme rephrase it;


Dig into her previous relationships*...... Dat way,she ll know you care.

dude I have a job....who has time to dig in a girl's previous relationship?

falconey:
dude I have a job....who has time to dig in a girl's previous relationship?

Yeah u do.... I hav got one too!!!


U wanna get to know someone.... lil' bit of details from the past could help ur* future* if u r plannin on havin one.



There is a slight difference between attention and time.....

Humblebloke:



Yeah u do.... I hav got one too!!!


U wanna get to know someone.... lil' bit of details from the past could help ur* future* if u r plannin on havin one.



There is a slight difference between attention and time.....

dude please feed me more......I might quit my job for this one