Are you in love with someone in the military? Army, Marine, Navy, Airforce or ROTC?
How has it been falling in love with a mil guy even as a student in WP, Anapolis, Airforce Academy. . .
Okay, let's talk about military relationship. how is it like having a fiancee or fiance in the military?

do you dream of ever dating or marrying one?
for those of you married to one, how has it been like?

can you date, engage or marry a guy or lady in the military? Ladies what are the feelings like? fear of war, always gone, alone on the bed almost all the time? moves, etc share with us.

is such relationship different from any other relationship?

those in nig should come on in

It is equally the same as marrying ordinary person cos there is no much difference.

Encomium:

It is equally the same as marrying ordinary person because there is no much difference.

It is !!!

@ Post

Don't think I can hack it, at all. Too many what ifs

Iyalode, which one be nughtyrize again? Clear your mind

@post
hehehehe, nooooooooo. But they are FINEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!

watching

HeatFusion:

Iyalode, which one be nughtyrize again? Clear your mind

@post
hehehehe, nooooooooo. But they are FINEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!

Na wa o, which one be NAUGHTYRIZE again I said "I can't h.a.c.k it na o ga o, if I said I wan nack am now, I would have understood

Yes i agree, they are a fine specimen to behold 



_{Which one be heatfusion Is you trying to sound cool to attract ascorbic acid's attenshun}

Me think the question is silly and not worth opening a thread for

Busy_body:

_{Which one be heatfusion Is you trying to sound cool to attract ascorbic acid's attenshun}

ah ahn, stop am o. . . .aba, let my secret be a secret. . . .So what if I'm trying to get a lil peroxide's attention

Like oops

Anywaz, that's my ban-side-line ID

@post
Which one ia Naughtyrize

Ebony-Silk:

ah ahn, stop am o. . . .aba, let my secret be a secret. . . .So what if I'm trying to get a little peroxide's attention

Your secrets are safe with me     My tatafo mouth is sealed like this

LOLOLOL!! You? I might as well make a thread about it

I am upset and heartbroken that you don't trust me Check my name out again, its busy[b]body[/b] not busy[b]bein[/b], unlike her, I am only here to mind my business



_{Come o, wetin you do this time, lol}

Encomium:

It is equally the same as marrying ordinary person because there is no much difference.

True, except for the travelling, absence, fear of loosing ones partner,

aside from that it really is just the same as anyother marriage,

Busy_body:

I am upset and heartbroken that you don't trust me Check my name out again, its busy[b]body[/b] not busy[b]bein[/b], unlike her, I am only here to mind my business

Do you know what Iyalode means?


What did I do? I behaved like Busy_body for once, and I get

HeatFusion:

Do you know what Iyalode means?

Of course I know what it means silly Iyalode is the Proverbs 31 woman, epitome of grace and highly favoured and sought after

Horneychic if the question is silly, ROAMO okay. it's so easy to do 

true the what ifs are manybut when you fall in love nothing matters don't you think?


Toyosi, you are right the traveling. i guess nig mil are lucky. you can easily 'work' it to stay put.

the loneliness got me thinking but . . .

the mil in nig seems to be rich the ones here are self sacrifice na wah ooo

*Hauwa*:

Toyosi, you are right the traveling. i guess nig mil are lucky. you can easily 'work' it to stay put.

the loneliness got me thinking but . . .

Exactly!!

there are a host of other issues surrounding this kinda marriage, like the after effect of the war on these men, and

women, rehab might help, but they never really are the same after words, especially those in the military. . . . .

yeah that's why when pple are talking negative abt them, i just keep quiet. nobody knows the selfless sacrifice they are going through. . .
then again oyinbos don't play with their military men and women .

But falling in love with a mil guy here is soooooooo

He might lose a limb in Afghanistan/Iraq, He might die in the line of duty, (risk of being a widow)
He might have sleepless nights from the number of people he has killed,
He might be disturbed from the bomb sounds he has endured.
They can call him for service when you are in bed.
And dont try to take him up in a fight. remember Mike Tyson/Robin Givens battery

*Hauwa*:

the mil in nig seems to be rich

What's not to love, I can definitely h.a.c.k this one Afterall we can always use some of the money to make sure he does not get conscripted to go and fight in any war

dayokanu:

He might lose a limb in Afghanistan/Iraq, He might die in the line of duty, (risk of being a widow)
He might have sleepless nights from the number of people he has killed,
He might be disturbed from the bomb sounds he has endured.
They can call him for service when you are in bed.
And don't try to take him up in a fight. remember Mike Tyson/Robin Givens battery

I agree, truer words haven't been spoken

The height of it is the PTSD, (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) these veterans suffer from, i mean their lives are

essentially permanently altered, it affects every thing they stand for, like being able to be a useful member of society,

being there for their family, heck they can't even be there for themselves, it really is sad. . . . .

@Toyosi,
So look out. No soldier, veteran for you. No even anyone who has ever travelled through Anapolis even on vacation.
Not even anyone who has ever been in Boy scout, man O war, Police department even civil defense.

In short Nobody in uniform for you.

dayokanu:

@Toyosi,
So look out. No soldier, veteran for you. No even anyone who has ever travelled through Anapolis even on vacation.
Not even anyone who has ever been in Boy scout, man O war, Police department even civil defense.

In short Nobody in uniform for you.

NOTED!!!!!!!!!!

Same goes for u, u arent enlisting neither are ya, marrying any marine, naval seal, or military person, deal??

Nooo. Nurses Uniform is the farthest i can go.

Me Veteran? Lailai. I love me life

dayokanu i have a sister at WP if you are interested

oh wellseeing is believing.

i wouldn't take one pinch of salt for my journey

Nurse uniform huh. . .the corp is there for you

@Hauwa,

Nagode. Ba na son ta.

I dont do anything in uniform.

If you like uniforms tell me I can hook you up with some guys in Gitmo. Heard they wear Uniforms too.

thank you, i can find my way

busy body so you like the corrupt nature? aha!!

sounds interesting . . .the nigeria mil don't deploy (why?) unlike them in the West. they are always gone.

Nigeria Military deploy well.

Havent you heard of lots of them that went to Liberia, Sierra leone, Sudan and Somalia.

The other wait by the roadside to collect N20 tax

Who cares about Naija men in the military?

Haba, the American ones are so fine and segzyyyy, huba huba.

But I can't deal with one. . . .can't stand the "away from homefor a month or so" drama

Encomium:

It is equally the same as marrying ordinary person because there is no much difference.

Its different o !

During my NYSC,a Dr fellow corper was dating one lovely army corporal babe,d day she catch with anoda babe,na disaster o !

My friend had to disappear. It was't easy .

Military people have a different mind set .

*Hauwa*:

thank you, i can find my way

busy body so you like the corrupt nature? aha!!

sounds interesting . . .the nigeria mil don't deploy (why?) unlike them in the West. they are always gone.

they deploy all the time. My uncle was in the army and he was gone so often his first son didnt see him for almost the first 3 yrs of his life.