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Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by sexylogan(m): 8:09am On Jan 04, 2014 |
I have had discussions with several of my female acquaintances and work colleagues over the issue of the "Responsibilities" of a boyfriend in a relationship and to my dismay, almost all had the same beliefs. Most of them believed that their boyfriends wer the ones saddled with the responsibilities of -paying for their new hair-do -buying them new fones -sending them airtime regularly -giving them monetry allowances -buying them clothes and shoes....etc The list is endless. Most even argued that if he (their bf) wants them to look good, he must be ready to spend. In my mind i was like "WTF!" isnt that their father's responsibilty? The only exceptions i came across were some of the ladies who were raised abroad and a few who were born in upper class families. Those ones have a very different mentality. They believed that it was after getting a gud education and subsequently a gud job wud they be able to take care of themselves and buy watever they need. The scenario got me thinking... Is Poverty to blame for the general attitude of our naija babes or are they just Greedy? #front-page-tingz 68 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by idu1(m): 8:15am On Jan 04, 2014 |
poverty and laziness. FTC 29 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by sakaguchi(m): 8:17am On Jan 04, 2014 |
It depends on the type of girl you're in relationship with. A girl working in NNPC (not the filling station oo, company executive) still looking up @ you to make her hair definitely need #JESUS. So I'll call the. ones who do this paupers. That's your answer OP. Poverty! This nig__gar ahead of me, what did you use the FTC to buy? Some people cef! 12 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Lovetinz(m): 8:20am On Jan 04, 2014 |
Its Peer pressure and ignorance. 5 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 8:22am On Jan 04, 2014 |
Dependz on d girl sha,not all naija babɛs reason dat way,,,,, 26 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by kadas01(m): 8:24am On Jan 04, 2014 |
Both (greed and poverty)! I still believe the average Nigerian girl needs to be empowered so as to help erase this retrogressive mentality that many of them posses presently! If this can be achieved, our society would be a better place! 17 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by lilmax(m): 8:37am On Jan 04, 2014 |
GREED...... 2 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Dubemkelly(m): 8:40am On Jan 04, 2014 |
Misplaced priority,not knowing wat dey want,lack of contentment,poverty,self value loss n foolishness 11 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by sexylogan(m): 8:46am On Jan 04, 2014 |
I agree with all the men in the house Babes, una no go defend urselves? |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by kindy86: 8:46am On Jan 04, 2014 |
all join. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Mynd44: 8:46am On Jan 04, 2014 |
Lovetinz: Its Peer pressure and ignorance.It is pure ignorance and most refuse to grow out of it 2 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by feeekey(f): 8:47am On Jan 04, 2014 |
Sorry wats today's date? 5 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by STENON(f): 8:48am On Jan 04, 2014 |
Tis neither of d two....Som naija Babes lack tinkin Faculty.......D Common sense is nt common again....Instead of dem to tink of how to bcom Great in lyf...dey engage Demselves in unreasonable n Useless stuff.......Is it only until a Guy spends on u dt u can look good/Gorgeous ?.... 20 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by deeplow: 8:48am On Jan 04, 2014 |
Neither of the two,it is plainly due to wrong orientation and upbringing. I know a girl who is from a wealthy family,and still believes a guy must give her everything. I asked her why,she said that is how it should be,and that's what her mother told her. At the same time,you'll see girls who are from families where they barely can afford 3 square meals, that still believe a boyfriend isn't their saviour from poverty. Would we say greed and poverty is responsible for Armed robbery? If so,80% of Nigerians would be thieves. 56 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by carammel(f): 8:48am On Jan 04, 2014 |
dzeeny: Dependz on d girl sha,not all naija babɛs reason dat way,,,,,Let them know,thank you. 4 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 8:53am On Jan 04, 2014 |
Abeg I won take loan,who fit borrow me? 2 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by sexylogan(m): 8:53am On Jan 04, 2014 |
carammel: I never said all but most. No man alive wants to be with a leech. 5 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 8:54am On Jan 04, 2014 |
feeekey: Sorry wats today's date?l0l. . .u n0 geh w0rk o0 2 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 8:57am On Jan 04, 2014 |
deeplow: Neither of the two,it is plainly due to wrong orientation and upbringing. I know a girl who is from a wealthy family,and still believes a guy must give her everything. I asked her why,she said that is how it should be,and that's what her mother told her.well said br0.... (ah juz hd 2 quote it all, n0 vex abq) |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 8:58am On Jan 04, 2014 |
carammel:ur wlcm. . .aw u dɛy na |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 9:00am On Jan 04, 2014 |
lynpetra: Abeg I won take loan,who fit borrow me?lyk aw much u nid?? |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Mynd44: 9:02am On Jan 04, 2014 |
deeplow: Neither of the two,it is plainly due to wrong orientation and upbringing. I know a girl who is from a wealthy family,and still believes a guy must give her everything. I asked her why,she said that is how it should be,and that's what her mother told her.Which is why I said it is ignorance. If you are miseducated, it is the same as ignorance and if society teaches you something that is wrong, you have a choice of educating yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 9:05am On Jan 04, 2014 |
dzeeny: Like 4 million.If you get reach 5 I go take. 5 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 9:09am On Jan 04, 2014 |
lynpetra:lma0. . . Shey ma fada na p0litician... 0lɛ 5 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by xynerise: 9:10am On Jan 04, 2014 |
lynpetra:4million CFA franc? 1 Like |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by jaybee3(m): 9:14am On Jan 04, 2014 |
I'd say greed Those in poverty don't worry about recharge card or Mongolian hair 1 Like |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Dannylux: 9:15am On Jan 04, 2014 |
A cursed way of reasoning passed down from generation to generation which I don't see its end coming soon. Put it this way, they've been made to believe It's their partner's duty. Hence, why bother changing since It's been that way? - Girls Choosing between greed and poverty. I'd choose greed. 2 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 9:16am On Jan 04, 2014 |
dzeeny: Must your father be a polithefianbefore you fit borrow me. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 9:17am On Jan 04, 2014 |
xynerise: Well,if na dollars or pounds I fit manage am.A begger has no choice 4 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by xynerise: 9:20am On Jan 04, 2014 |
jay bee: I'd say greedMongolian hair? who wants to look like Chinco? 3 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by xynerise: 9:21am On Jan 04, 2014 |
lynpetra:Have you seen a dollar or pound since you were born? 14 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 9:21am On Jan 04, 2014 |
lynpetra:#w0rd. . . K m cmnq... Aw b bck wiv ya #4mil... Wait 1st 1 Like |
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